"not all men" is such a lie. Especially in the subcontinent. Proud to be a hijabi feminist when it comes to this
Not all men lekin agr ..
Aik biscuit packet mh aik biscuit zehreela ho to ap us packet mh sy koi biscuit b ni khao gy haina.
So us women don't know which man. Majority of men out here mask their beast side. Females are always victim blamed no matter if she is a new born, a toddler, a child, teen-ager, an adult, or even just dead. Our parents put unnecessary restrictions on us just because of these type of men. We can sense sometimes even as a child but at that moment most of us don't know how to respond, who to tell, and how to train our minds and body to gather the courage. We can't take firm decisions on the spot because we have a hormonal cycle which doesn't let us mostly. So we try our best to deal things on a lighter note before taking an immense reaction (its too late mostly).
A part of me is always gone when I read disturbing news about any brutality happened to kids , women or even men (which rarely happens).
Seriously now society need to understand that we are human beings. We are not equal to men. We always wanted our rights on our body and life. Just consider us human. No matter what she wears or how she talks , doesn't give you a license to do what you want to do with her. She is responsible to what she has done or doing in her life and answerable to Allah. You are responsible to your actions and answerable to Allah as well Equally. So just stop doing blame game and let us breath without fear. We are not safe at homes, schools, colleges, universities, in laws home, hotels, highways, restaurants, buses, taxi, grocery stores, parking lots , hospitals, post mortem rooms, graves,any of these we visit, we don't feel safe even having our mehrams with us.
Aik biscuit packet mh aik biscuit zehreela ho to ap us packet mh sy koi biscuit b ni khao gy haina.
So us women don't know which man. Majority of men out here mask their beast side. Females are always victim blamed no matter if she is a new born, a toddler, a child, teen-ager, an adult, or even just dead. Our parents put unnecessary restrictions on us just because of these type of men. We can sense sometimes even as a child but at that moment most of us don't know how to respond, who to tell, and how to train our minds and body to gather the courage. We can't take firm decisions on the spot because we have a hormonal cycle which doesn't let us mostly. So we try our best to deal things on a lighter note before taking an immense reaction (its too late mostly).
A part of me is always gone when I read disturbing news about any brutality happened to kids , women or even men (which rarely happens).
Seriously now society need to understand that we are human beings. We are not equal to men. We always wanted our rights on our body and life. Just consider us human. No matter what she wears or how she talks , doesn't give you a license to do what you want to do with her. She is responsible to what she has done or doing in her life and answerable to Allah. You are responsible to your actions and answerable to Allah as well Equally. So just stop doing blame game and let us breath without fear. We are not safe at homes, schools, colleges, universities, in laws home, hotels, highways, restaurants, buses, taxi, grocery stores, parking lots , hospitals, post mortem rooms, graves,any of these we visit, we don't feel safe even having our mehrams with us.