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This person said they remember parties and clubbing in the 2000s. Do you think they're lying? I'm asking cuz this person is like 25. No Gen Z'er would have been old enough to party, let alone go clubbing in the 2000s come on lol

maybe they meant they remember how other people would go, not really go themselves. however, there used to be clubs that were alcohol free that allowed people under 21 to dance and listen to music, too.

Is it okay to go clubbing with your friends when you are in a relationship?

Shannon678900’s Profile PhotoShannon
Provided it is Joe-Biden's skull that everyone is clubbing . . . .
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Kalian tipe yg ngebolehin pasangan kalian clubbing gk!

xallisa6’s Profile PhotoXallisa
Bolehh dong, kalau dia sama gue brg.. tapi kalau dia tetep ego dia mau clubbing, gue ga di bolehin ikut.. serah dia aja, males gue hehe
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What's your opinion on drinking culture around university students?

Shannon678900’s Profile PhotoShannon
It’s definitely encouraged, to the extent that if you don’t drink or drink very little, you are made to feel somewhat of an outsider or weird. It can affect things socially. I was a tad luckier because I commuted, so my excuse was that because my trains were so sporadic, I had to make sure I was a bit more “with it” to be able to get home! I don’t drink at all, but the reasoning behind the commuting seemed to make people understand more, as opposed to the disbelief and shock you get when you mention that you don’t drink!
On one hand, I think it’s a great way to bond with others to have the “classic uni experience”, of clubbing, pub crawls, etc. You must make a lot of memories that way, and strengthen friendships pretty quickly. It’d just be nicer if the classic uni experience kind of extended beyond that though. I think it does with the arts - no one has time to go to clubs due to the workload, so everyone smokes, gets high and creates art instead, with the occasional drink at the pub, aha. With the academics though, it does seem to be more centred on clubbing and such :)

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Do you like going clubbing/partying or do you prefer small gatherings in a bar or at home?

LouisaRHale’s Profile PhotoLou
I honestly like both! I prefer bars first, then maybe a nightclub like Popworld for an hour or two, then back at a bar. I wouldn't like to be 'clubbing' all night as you can't hear your friends over the music, and having to shout isn't ideal. My perfect night out would be meal at a restaurant with cocktails, maybe a pub, a few bars, a club and then back to my favourite bar. 🍹

I don’t enjoy clubbing- is that ok?

So i’m 19 and everyone is out clubbing. I just really don’t enjoy it. I suffer with bad anxiety and i can’t think of anything worse than a loud space, dancing, being approached by people. I’m more than happy to go for drinks or food but i hate how i’m made to feel not “normal” because i don’t go out out. Is it ok that i prefer to go out when it’s quieter and more chilled. I also have a history of sexual assault so i’m very wary on drunk men and spiking ect. I’d prefer to stay away.
I feel similarly. I’m in my 30s now and did my fair share of clubbing because I enjoy dancing. I’m also male, so I have less fear attached to things like that. But now I enjoy talking and having real conversations over drinks. It’s more enjoyable and safe and it feeds my soul more. You’re just ahead of your friends. Just don’t shame them for wanting to go out and invite them to more intimate gatherings when you can. You’re good.
Some of my friends used to look at me weirdly whenever I’d say that. I’m the same age as you and honestly I hate clubbing and loud crowded spaces just because I’m a quiet person. Nothing wrong with not liking any of that. My friends don’t bother asking me anymore just because they know I feel out of place since I don’t drink or smoke. I prefer chill quiet places too
I’m much older but when I was your age I always had much older friends and all the friends that I did have (Gf, etc) always wanted to club but I was much more mature and somehow passed that phase. You ain’t missing nothing. You do you and be proud that you are saving money by not participating.
Yep! I’m 24 and I’ve been clubbing once and hated it so much. It was hard when I turned 21 (I live in the US) and it was all my friends wanted to do, but you’re not alone and you should be able to find friends who want to do things that aren’t clubbing. And if your friends do enjoy clubbing you can obviously still be friends, maybe just suggest some other activities every once in a while and communicate your concerns if it seems like clubbing is all they want to do.
There is absolutely nothing wrong with that. You are perfectly normal. I grew up in one of the "clubbing capitals of the world" so from age 18 to 21 I'd hit the club every week. I thought that's what I was "supposed" to be doing but never really liked it. Smelly, sweaty, drunk people all around you....also hated how girls degraded themselves for a cheap bottle.
I hate clubbing. I’m more of a sit at a bar type to eat and chat peacefully without loud music blaring directly in my delicate ears. I did try it a few times for a night-out with the girls due to a friends bad breakup but guys kept interrupting our time just dancing together. One even snuck behind me without warning and proceeded to rub himself. Like stranger please, you didn’t ask to dance and helped yourself to get handsy around my parts.

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Am I the only one who likes partying but is introverted?

The worst thing to become popularized in the last decade is the concept of extrovert and introvert. These things are not exclusive to each other and most people are not just one or the other. It's a spectrum that were pointed in and most importantly its a spectrum that can change due to a plorthea of circumstances.
Yip. I'm super introverted and love my alone time. But I'm also a massive party animal. I DJed at clubs/festivals for years as well. But I legit hate performing, especially in front of big crowds.
I always have fun with my friends from back home no matter what we’re doing. I also have fun with my brothers like we can talk and do random stuff (without alcohol) for hours and still have a good time. I’ve also realised that after COVID I’ve become much more family oriented compared to what I was before, not sure why. Yeahh, that makes sense. I feel like as I’m getting older, I’ve begun to love my ‘me time’. When I was in my first year at uni, I practically spent every single minute of everyday with friends. I only came to my room to sleep. I would NEVER do that now.
Even when I'm dancing I prefer to find a spot for myself so I'm not in a crowd. I'm usually the one on a speaker or something.
So I’m 24 and I loveee partying, clubbing, drinking, etc. When friends make plans to go partying, I’m always in. When I go for night outs, I genuinely have so much fun. You know when friends wanna leave the club early? I never do cuz I’m always wanting to stay till the end. However, I’m also an introvert. After a long day I legit fantasize about watching Netflix and chilling by myself in my PJs. So basically, I don’t really enjoy regular hangouts with my friends,as in going out to eat and stuff like that. If I’m doing something non party related, all I wanna do is leave so I can be alone doing my own thing. But while clubbing, I’m the opposite. Am I super weird for being an introvert that’s likes to party? It is absolutely ok. No one should feel forced to do something they don't want to do. There is a reason people go to clubs in a group so they can look out for each other. I think the biggest challenge for us as introverts is not how to avoid everything we don't like turning us into hermits. The challenge is to make sure we take the steps necessary to overcome these situations in a safe and fun way. Clubs too loud? Find a quieter public place. Dancing? Could that be just a insecurity? Find a way to dance home alone to build confidence. Approached by people.. Find a group with common interests that you can ease into. You are going to have to take baby steps to not only get over your trauma but to protect yourself from further problems. As a hermit myself I regret almost every day not taking a more proactive role in my life.

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How was your party yesterday? 😃 Hawaii topic? 😁

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It was a lot of fun! The party was for those who had worked at the student nation I'm a part of this term. The day started with brunch down in the basement together with the team I was assigned to, which was super cozy 😊
Then after that we went up to the activities for the early afternoon portion of the event, which was the part that was vacation themed. They had set up a TV and couches for you to play Mario Kart, gave you the ability to play Singstar and Guitar Hero on a big projector. Outside they had set up a big outdoor bar and then tons of beer pong tables. That event ended with a beer pong tournament, which we won! 🥳
Then I headed back home to change into my suit for the formal three course dinner we had in the evening. We call those a "sittning" and there we sing a lot of Swedish drinking songs together. We had assigned seating and I got to know a lot of new people that way, which is always fun according to me! The ones I sat with really liked their wine and schnapps though so I couldn't help but get dragged in. You could say I was a bit... wobbly at the end 🥴
I would've gone clubbing as well after that if it wasn't for how I was feeling and that I knew I was gonna go practice drive today to my grandma's birthday celebration. But overall, a really, really fun evening I'd say 🥂
Also: This is what I wore for the vacation themed part, if people were curious lol

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How was your party yesterday  Hawaii topic

Life is fair? How do u define that

javonekham’s Profile PhotoAmirehsan
Life is most definitely not fair.
Is it fair i got abused by my dad and mum did nothing and put me in care.
Is it fair i have flashbacks, panic attacks, have severe mental health issues which i haven't they just say this.
Is it fair i hate myself now and self destruct in ways that most people don't understand .
Is it fair i am locked up for my own safety when i should be out clubbing.
Is it fair i suffer every moment of every day.
But maybe i derserve all of this. Maybe im the bad person.

What's your favourite birthday you've ever had? Why was it your favourite? 🎂 🎉 🎊 👍 😇

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I can’t choose between the birthdays I’ve spend in Efteling, because those are very magical or the one birthday I celebrated with my friends in my backyard barbecuing and then going clubbing till daylight! That day was so much fun honestly!
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Would you rather go to a night club or a music festival?

A music festival. I haven't been to very many, but the vibe is so much nicer than it is at a nightclub. I don't know if it's because I have gotten older or if people these days are just assholes, but every time I have gone clubbing in recent years, there has always been someone there who has tried to start drama and frankly, I'm over it. It is a big part of the reason why I don't really go on nights out anymore.
Granted, you get people like that no matter where you go. I'm sure that there are plenty of assholes who go to festivals, but, in my experience, they are few and far between. The majority of folks I've met at music festivals are super relaxed and friendly.
Would you rather go to a night club or a music festival

How young is too young to be a parent?

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I don't think there's a set age for me cause everybody matures at different rates and there are some teenage parents who do a fantastic job despite less than ideal circumstances. I think it's more about that for me, if someone is immature and isn't going to put the effort in once a child is born (i.e refusing to get up in the night and expecting someone else to do it, no intentions to provide for the child financially at all, would rather be out with their friends or clubbing than spending time with their kid 90% of the time) would say that they were not mature enough to be a parent at that time in their life. If they're doing their best with what they've got, I've got time for that, if they are too selfish to give the child their time, energy and patience then I don't. I'm against girls who've barely started their period having kids tho - I think that's exploitation and all kinds of messed up.

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When was the last time you went out clubbing?

New years eve I went to a karaoke bar if that's classed as clubbing haha, otherwise pretty much never because ages ago me and an ex friend went to go clubbing after predrinks and we were already fooked, I bought a ticket to go in but she threw up on the road or something outside and decided to go home so I decided to go home too because I wasn't gonna hang around people I don't know nor be on my own so yeah haha. Fell to crap those plans😂it's not something I'm that keen on doing anyway

Describe your ideal type.

Similar music taste, ofc, pero open din makinig ng ibang genres.
Has a progressive mindset; hindi lang nirerespeto ang family at friends niya, but also strangers and people of different ethnicities, sexualities and ages.
Does not smoke, vape or go clubbing (big turn off talaga).
Family oriented.
Has a nice voice (sa’kin kasi pangit so sana naman kaniya maganda, lol)
Good dresser.
And siyempre, someone who takes care of her appearance and may proper hygiene. Doesn’t matter kung hindi ganu’n kaganda or shit basta may pag-aalaga pa rin sa sarili.

Top 3 co tě baví: sport x fotografování x hraní na hudební nástroj x zpěv x cizí jazyky x tanec x meditace x hraní her x scházení se s kamarády x návštěva kina a divadel x koncerty x clubbing x vaření/pečení, výlety/procházky x sledování seriálů/videí, chatování/surfování po netu x čtení knih/poezie

fotografování, hraní na hudební nástroje, hraní her, kruci...to už jsou tři :D...scházení se s kamarády, tanec, sledování filmů a ještě hodně dalších věcí...

How would you describe yourself?

I am a clever, no-nonsense prince with a heart of gold and nerves of steel. Gorgeous, brilliant, and with a heart of gold. I'm the lonely cafeteria guy who mows lawns and has a heart of gold.
Anyway, beneath that too-smooth exterior beats a heart of gold... I think. I have a rough exterior but a heart of gold. I may look rough but I have a heart of gold. I have a heart of gold and an infectious personality.
With a heart of gold and the soul of a child, I have an innate sense of beauty and an immoderate appetite for life. He may be the most muddleheaded man, and people may laugh at him, but he has a heart of gold. I am shy, and soft-spoken. She's so self-assured she might come across as tough, but she has a heart of gold. A long-time volunteer, she's participated in a variety of charitable causes, particularly those devoted to children. I am a man of action. She was also a sentimental woman. "We know she had a heart of gold; she was generous," says Gregory Munro. Wherever she went, she never hesitated to take care of poor people and sick children.
He had a heart of gold, a cheerful character, always glad to be of service and to make others happy. He was an excellent confrere and earned the esteem and affection of everybody, but especially of the young people. I've got a heart of gold and a body to match.
I'm a problem solver and I have a heart of gold.
I don't enjoy small talk, gossip/drama, etc.
Introverted who gets attached too soon and also self sympathetic all the time. I was a pessimist, but I transformed into an optimist in my prime.
Superman, King of All, Best Looking, somewhat delusional.
Dramatic, reckless, sensitive, misunderstood, wild, desperate for love, insecure yet confident, and the list goes on.
Blind to how many women were into him because he believed the many people at his high school that treated him like he was childish, inept, incompetent and stupid. Played football, had a steady girlfriend by the end of his year, and only here began to learn that everyone is stupid, he is the smartest person at the school (quite literally), and that the guys who bullied him only did so because they felt threatened, jealous, and envious of his ease with understanding tough material, his athleticism, and his unfiltered ability to engage with women in public and have them enjoy the conversation. Very popular. I was class clown and biggest rebel at the small private school. I convinced a bunch of people to bring water balloons for field day and we went nuts. Principal came up to me later and said “do you know what nonchalant means? That’s who you are and walked away. “ I got suspended for 3 days. He knew I had more power over the students. Skipped a lot of school so didn’t have good grades. Drove at age 14 and clubbing at 16 using fake ID. Just all around bad.

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emang salah aku dan temnku masuk clubing mlm pake jilbab... kn iseng" aj dan itu cuman sekali

lilis3733’s Profile Photolilis3733
Iya salah, menurutku nih salahnya tapi bukan di kamu dan temenmu pakai jilbab, karena emang perempuan wajib pakai jilbab kan, tetapi salahnya adalah kamu dan temen kamu pergi ke tempat clubbing.
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What do you like or dislike about your city? 🙄

hussainaliraqe23’s Profile Photo3ra2y
I hate how boring it is and that it doesn't have a place where you can go clubbing or whatever. We only have restaurants and then there's one restaurant that has a bar in the back, but that's it. Smh.
The only thing that I really like about my city is that a lot of my family members reside here, too... Yeah.. my city isn't all that great. 🤷🏾‍♀️

hey youuu, did you go clubbing heard ireland is open haha

zactc’s Profile Photozack vaughan
yuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuup we did , it's still a bit crazy though,
long lines to get in.
showing digital vaccination certs ,
and a whole new Irish craze socially distanced snogging with your mask on LOL
open for now but wouldn't be surprised if they close again :(
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Do you have vaccination passport that makes it easier to get access to public spaces?

I have the covid check thing. An app made by the government in which you can prove you’ve been vaccinated against covid. We only have to show one in restaurants and when you go clubbing, traveling (by plane), to concerts or to museums/cinema and (sport)events.

At what point did you realise that you should stop going to nightclubs?

Around 25 years old when I realised it was just another means to kill myself slowly and going clubbing surrounded by drunk, loud twatbags is so much worse than any hangover, not to mention going clubbing resulting in my drink getting spiked twice, though both times I don't think I was the intended target so in a way I'm glad it was me and not my friend, although I always make sure everyone else gets home safely no matter what state I'm in.

I TOTALLY relate to this, my body physically cringes if I'm called sexy. I know the intention is nice, but I find pretty or cute being more in line with my personality and 'sexy' or 'hot' being more tanned girls with long eye lashes lol?

Exactly!!!! I feel the same way as you, I’m so glad someone gets it! 👏🏻
Likewise though, I much prefer being called pretty or cute, sexy feels more reserved for those who are full glam and such, or go clubbing or something, which is definitely not me, ahah.

How do you usually like to celebrate your birthday?

I like to celebrate my birthday by spending time with my friends. I don’t really like a sit and talk kind of party, but more a go out and do activities party!
I went to an escape room with my friends, went clubbing, partied on the beach and I had a poolparty at my place once!
I really like to spend my birthday watching planes at the airport too. I’m thinking about doing that again this year 😄
How do you usually like to celebrate your birthday

What do you miss doing the most before covid-19 destroyed life?😣

I miss the nightlife. It's the aspect of our lives that's been cut out since March 2020 and I can't wait to get it back. Mostly, I am missing clubbing. Even though, I am not a party animal but going out with friends is a great opportunity to relax and recharge your batteries. Especially, when you involved in work with people and get complaints daily. It would be lush to get dressed, put some makeup on, get to the club, order some drinks and have a good time. We all deserve that! Bring back the entertainment to our lives! People need to socialise
What do you miss doing the most before covid19 destroyed life

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Types of pulse
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Causes of cyanosis
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Pistol sign
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Clubbing !!!
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Wkwkwk della pernah jadi gadis malam, ngeri kali gaulnya ah. Pake celana apa rok mini nih? :)) terselamatkanya gimana? oh iya tau tau, bukannya skrg jg masih ada ya? hahaha apalan ternyata si nyonya puff :))

Celanaaaa:))) wkwkwk aku mah dr dulu udh di jilbab alhamdulillah 😊🙏 wkwkwkwkw geleuh astaga emotnya kaya yg bener aja aku ini haha ketemu sm temen yg baik hihi dan ga temen sm doi lagi:( wkwkwk ga anak malem yg clubbing segala macem kok, aku minum sprite stgh liter jg udh lieur duluan, gabisa minum gt ntar amandel aku kambuh wkwkwk. Tapi cuma kalo mau nongkrong tuh nyampe malemmm bgtt ga malem ga pulang:))) parah bgt ya heu trus ngerasa risih aja sm pakaian yg biasa aku pake cuma kaos sm celana trus jilbab yg dililit2 gt kan wkwk pas di live music ada org yg pervert gt dibelakang aku, dan ituu, deketttt bgtt sumpah bahu aku gerak dikit udh kena badan dia, untung aku langsung digeser sm temen aku:((( jiji bgt a:(( trus sadar deh wkwkwk iya atuh wkwkww ih nyonya puff lah:(
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How long was the longest essay / paper you've had to write for school / uni etc.? How was it to write that? What did you do to push yourself through it? 📝💻

I had to write a 10 page essay on the 1916 easter rising. It was hard but i had a treat lined up for when i had it completed. I was going to the amusements with friends and then we were going clubbing 😀
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Menurut kalian cewek yang pergi ke tempat clubbing itu karna apa ? Pngen dnger musik smbil dugem, pengen ngerokok smbil ngebir atau pngen cri cowo fakboi..

Pengen tau doang, pernah sekali clubbing itu aja diajak bos sama temen2 rame2 gitu sampe subuh dong emang sih seru rame banyak musik tp banyak yang mabok, ke toilet minta anter takut diculik orang mabok, personal aku gasuka kek gitu jd ya gak pernah minat buat balik wkwkwk

Too many young Muslim sisters who have issues like taking drugs, clubbing & having boyfriends are pushed to marry religious guys because their family think they’ll fix them. No ones son is responsible for your daughter to fix, your daughter needs to fix up herself.

That religion has many things and beliefs that are not cool, it's very male chauvinist and they think that a man will solve a woman's life, they don't give them the confidence to grow for themselves, they tell them how to dress, what to do, it's horrible.

How do you deal with break ups? I’m rubbish at coping with them 😅

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Hi Mary,
I'm so sorry that you're having relationship problems, it's never easy but part of life sadly and if you were truly in love you're in for a very bad time and sadly theirs no magic potion to take away the pain, but no one can take away the memories..sigh😊 I always find sitting at home and moping around does no good at all, I prefer hanging around with another girl (or guy in your case) even just as a friend helps a lot, or if you're not brave enough then hang around some friends go clubbing once a week or just to the pub.
Listen you're gorgeous decent and respectable with a heart of gold so don't you ever think that break up's are your fault it happens to us all!😢 some thing's are just not meant to be,
And always remember "what feels like the end is often the beginning you will see" 🌹 and do remember I'm always here for you if you ever need to talk about anything at all and in confidence if you like. 💕

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Too many young Muslim sisters who have issues like taking drugs, clubbing & having boyfriends are pushed to marry religious guys because their family think they’ll fix them. No ones son is responsible for your daughter to fix, your daughter needs to fix up herself.

HAHAHAHAAAA, is this sarcasm? Because dude it's ALWAYS the other way around.

Too many young Muslim sisters who have issues like taking drugs, clubbing & having boyfriends are pushed to marry religious guys because their family think they’ll fix them. No ones son is responsible for your daughter to fix, your daughter needs to fix up herself.

I totally agree with you.
Help often cannot be received, unless it is itself caught because of some incident that will lead to catharsis.

Too many young Muslim sisters who have issues like taking drugs, clubbing & having boyfriends are pushed to marry religious guys because their family think they’ll fix them. No ones son is responsible for your daughter to fix, your daughter needs to fix up herself.

Yes brother you are right

Too many young Muslim sisters who have issues like taking drugs, clubbing & having boyfriends are pushed to marry religious guys because their family think they’ll fix them. No ones son is responsible for your daughter to fix, your daughter needs to fix up herself.

Clubbing isnt bad as long she doesn't cross border

Too many young Muslim sisters who have issues like taking drugs, clubbing & having boyfriends are pushed to marry religious guys because their family think they’ll fix them. No ones son is responsible for your daughter to fix, your daughter needs to fix up herself.

Same goes to the families who thinks their messed up boys are going to be better after marriage. No one should ruin someone's life intentionally. A good human deserves to be with another good person.
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Too many young Muslim sisters who have issues like taking drugs, clubbing & having boyfriends are pushed to marry religious guys because their family think they’ll fix them. No ones son is responsible for your daughter to fix, your daughter needs to fix up herself.

True. Fixing up Depends on ownself and inner willingness. No one can make you.

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