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What do u usually do to release the stress and feel relaxed?

Looking at the sky ☁️
As humans, take a look at our anatomy, we rarely look up. We either look down to avoid stepping on broken glass or on someone's shoe and we look forward so we don't crash with cars or a pole that plays hide and seek with us..
When we get the chance to look up,when it rains ..how it trickles down form the heavens above… how thunder coarse through its veins and roars with all its might… how the darkness surrounds us and the fury with which the angles cry… how the sun creeps back in and forms a beautiful rainbow…
At dusk, how the canvas changes with beautiful shades… how the sun creeps to peaceful slumber… how the moon awakes and illuminates the heavens… how the stars light the way to mysteries of the universe…
At night… when the moon and the stars populate and enhance its beauty… when the clouds give it a sense of motion... when their is unending mystery to it undying beauty… when it becomes a painting worth a thousand words…when my pain becomes a mirage..
The sky… its so peaceful yet moving… so quiet yet loud. so serene yet so mesmerizing… so beautiful yet so satisfying 💙

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When you were younger, did you find it easier to talk to those who were younger than you or older than you by a few years?

Froyh’s Profile PhotoMerve
Yes younger actually. I was always the youngest in school because I started kindergarten at age four because of when my birthday falls. My parents had the choice to start me early or a year later since I’m a November baby. I was super shy in school but I had my few friends all through elementary. Middle school people changed and friendships were chaotic and always ending. After I began homeschooling I started hanging out with a younger girl that was like a sister to me because my mother baby sat her and we always had her long hours. She looked much older than she was so we looked about the same age even though there was about a six year difference. Also very mature for her age. I was always very careful and protective of her when we hung out. She turned out to be an admirable woman with a taste for metal. I like to think I had some influence. We have not spoken in years but we are social media friends. And then the other girl I was briefly friends with. She was like a step sister had her mom and my father been married and not just partners. We only hung out briefly. Once on a vacation with our parents in my early 20s. She was still in her teens. Bad news. The parents sent us out together on vacation and I barely knew the chick so I really couldn’t try to control her. She would go off with dudes and have s*x. Within that week she had been with more guys than I had been with in my life. She’s the girl in those YouTube videos with me. We hung out that week that those videos were taken also and then that was about it. Our parents are still together but we are not in touch.

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Have your high school peers hit you up after you graduated? If not, why do you think they didn’t?

Froyh’s Profile PhotoMerve
I homeschooled for HS but yeah, all the townies from my late teens and early 20s are social media friends. I was never actually friends with most of them irl. Just acquaintances in the same circle. We don’t talk online because I was an introvert then and am introvert now but that’s how social media works isn’t it? Just look at people’s crap and stay silent? 🤣 I heard from my old friend from the band Skinless recently. We already stopped messaging because neither of us have anything to say. 🤣 I really wouldn’t mind being friends but can’t force myself. 🤷🏻‍♀️

What do you look forward to in the future?

akciMMicka’s Profile Photo⚜️ m o n i c a ⚜️
I look forward to experiencing all the joys and challenges that life has to offer. I want to travel more, explore, and learn new things. But most of all, I hope to be more of a kinder and better person and continue building meaningful connections with people who inspire me and bring joy into my life. I believe that every experience we have as humans - good or bad - helps us grow and evolve into better versions of ourselves. So even though there will be struggles along the way, always, Iam excited to see where this journey takes me. 🌻
What do you look forward to in the future

What if the circumstances/situations made us become someone or something we did not want to become/give us a life we cannot handle? Also, latter means the 2nd of 2 things. For example, beef and pork are both meat. The former comes from cows and the latter comes from pigs.

Trust me, rocks are thrown at things that shine. Meaning, you have the potential to overcome whatever it is that you want regardless of what comes your way. You need to find that within yourself and apply it.
Our circumstances don’t define us. Our past doesn’t either. Yes our circumstances play a role but it does not ultimately define who you are as a person. It’s up to us at the end of the day to make the change we want to see in our own selves.
The latter isn’t used the U.S. (I think) lol at least I have never heard it. I take that you are not from the U.S. 💭

Regarding my childhood, I think about both the good and bad times. I think fondly of the former while wondering why the latter happened and nothing was done to correct it. As for now, things are far from good. I am hopeful for better days soon, though.

“Wishing things were different, is a great way to tort*re yourself”
I thought I would share this quote that I had seen somewhere a long time ago.
I think sometimes when we wonder what could have changed in the past, it really neglects our present self. As hard as it may have been, those circumstances/situations molded us into who we are today. Sometimes we are given these circumstances as a way to better our own future. Use what broke you, to fuel you.
As for how it’s going now, your circumstances can change when you truly believe they will. Is there anyway I can help? ☺️
Also, what does the “latter” mean? 😌

Thanks. Honestly, I am a critical and deep thinker. I have been told by others I think too much countless times. I cannot help it, though.

There is absolutely nothing wrong with that! ☺️ It sounds like both of us are wired the same way 😂 Perhaps others don’t think enough.. that is another perspective to think about.

Some people are negative due to either having anxiety or they are just so used to things going wrong instead of right. No one who thinks negative wants to be negative. They become negative due to experiences setbacks, stress, trauma, trials, and tribulations.

Well, this took a turn lol. When you mentioned ignorance that is what I meant by being negative. Basically having that attitude will directly have an impact on our future. I don’t want to delve too much into the topic but since it’s mentioned here we go lol. Yes negativity is caused by internal and external factors but we have the power to change our way of thinking. Our thinking is determined by us at the end of the day. Regardless of what anyone wants to say, that is the truth.
Some people are negative due to either having anxiety or they are just so used

I agree. Once we open our minds to new ideas, we can be creative and knowledgable. Problem is so many refuse to open their minds, so they prefer ignorance and conformity over knowledge and creative.

You are absolutely correct, especially on that last sentence! 💯 That is definitely something that many individuals will have to endure. It’s simply the fact that it will also impose so many inflictions and consequences in the near future unfortunately. Moreover, many think that their negativity will bring prosperity to their lives. Oh, how much more mistaken can this world get lol. 😂
How much better would the world be if there were more people that thought like us lol?

When people are creative, they usually can come up with new ideas that no one else has thought of. To be able to think outside of the box requires intelligence. Look at artists and inventors such as Leonardo da Vinci and Nikola Tesla. Would you not say that those men were intelligent?

I think to some degree you have to be intelligent but does it also come from a skill factor? Da Vinci for instance, makes me wonder if it’s more skill-based. Artists, musicians, and others in that same category all have particular skills and abilities pertaining to that field. I’m sure there are many in history who were also intelligent such as Einstein or Galileo. However, I think they used their intellect to use in other various ways in different fields. Could it be perhaps that some of us aren’t able to be creative due to lack of knowledge of our own skills and abilities as well? 🤔 Which leads to my next thought that perhaps we all at some point have been so closed minded to our own capabilities that the lack of creativity isn’t able to flourish properly. Maybe it all derives from a deeper meaning and as to what we are truly capable of. Honestly, I love these types of conversations. I wonder who you are lol. 😂

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If emotions worked in the same way as in the movie Inside Out and each emotion was sentient, how do you think the dynamic between them would look like inside your head? Which emotion would be in charge etc.? 🤬☺️😭🤢

TobbeAsks’s Profile PhotoTobbe
That is quite an interesting question Tobbe. — If emotions were sentient beings within me, much like in that movie the dynamics would certainly be complex and ever-evolving. The notion itself invites us to explore the intricate web of our emotional landscape, acknowledging that emotions are not just reactions but integral parts of our being, shaping thoughts, actions, and interactions. 🌻
If emotions worked in the same way as in the movie Inside Out and each emotion

♔➳♔ ❛ ᴍᴇɪɴᴇ ᴍᴏᴅᴇ ɪsᴛ ᴊᴀ sᴇʜʀ sᴀɴғᴛ ᴜɴᴅ ғᴇᴍɪɴɪɴ. ᴀʙᴇʀ ᴅᴀ ᴅᴜ sᴄʜᴏɴ ғᴜ̈ʀ ᴍɪᴄʜ ᴍᴏᴅᴇʟɴ ᴡɪʟʟsᴛ, ʜᴀʙᴇ ɪᴄʜ ᴍɪʀ ᴜ̈ʙᴇʀʟᴇɢᴛ, ᴅᴀss ɪᴄʜ ғᴜ̈ʀ ᴅɪᴄʜ ᴇɪɴ ᴘᴀᴀʀ ʙᴇsᴏɴᴅᴇʀᴇ ᴛᴇɪʟᴇ ᴇɴᴛᴡᴇʀғᴇ, ᴡᴀs ʜᴀ̈ʟᴛsᴛ ᴅᴜ ᴅᴀᴠᴏɴ? ᴅᴜ sᴀɢsᴛ ᴍɪʀ, ᴡᴏʀᴀᴜғ ᴅᴜ sᴛᴇʜsᴛ ᴜɴᴅ ɪᴄʜ ᴅᴇsɪɢɴᴇ ᴅɪʀ ᴡᴀs ʜᴜ̈ʙsᴄʜᴇs! ❜

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ᴀᴍᴀsᴜᴋɪ ✿ ՚՚
❛ ❜ ɪs ᴛᴀʟᴋɪɴɢ . . . .
˹ 03 ˼﹕ɪᴄʜ ʜᴀʙᴇ ᴍɪᴄʜ ɴɪᴄʜᴛ ᴜᴍsᴏɴsᴛ ᴅᴀᴢᴜ ᴢᴜʀ ᴠᴇʀғüɢᴜɴɢ ɢᴇsᴛᴇʟʟᴛ﹐ ᴅᴀʀʟɪɴɢ. ɪᴄʜ ᴋᴀɴɴ ᴇɪɢᴇɴᴛʟɪᴄʜ ᴀʟʟᴇs ᴛʀᴀɢᴇɴ﹐ ᴡᴇɴɴ ᴅᴀs sᴛʏʟɪɴɢ sᴛɪᴍᴍᴛ. ᴅᴜ üʙᴇʀɴɪᴍᴍsᴛ ᴅɪᴇ sᴄʜɪᴄᴋᴇɴ ᴏᴜᴛғɪᴛs ᴜɴᴅ ɪᴄʜ ᴡᴇʀᴅᴇ ᴍɪᴄʜ ᴜᴍ ᴍᴇɪɴᴇ ʜᴀᴀʀᴇ ᴜɴᴅ ᴅᴀs ᴍᴀᴋᴇ﹣ᴜᴘ ᴋüᴍᴍᴇʀɴ. ɪᴄʜ ᴋöɴɴᴛᴇ ᴅɪʀ ᴇɪɴɪɢᴇ ᴍᴇɪɴᴇʀ ᴢᴇɪᴄʜɴᴜɴɢᴇɴ ᴍɪᴛ ᴏᴜᴛғɪᴛs ᴢᴜʀ ᴠᴇʀғüɢᴜɴɢ sᴛᴇʟʟᴇɴ﹐ ᴠɪᴇʟʟᴇɪᴄʜᴛ ғɪɴᴅᴇsᴛ ᴅᴜ ᴇᴛᴡᴀs ᴅᴀᴠᴏɴ ᴀᴜᴄʜ ᴀɴsᴘʀᴇᴄʜᴇɴᴅ ᴜɴᴅ sᴇᴛᴢᴛ ᴇs ɪɴ ᴅɪᴇ ᴛᴀᴛ ᴜᴍ. ᴅᴇɪɴᴇ ᴍᴏᴅᴇ ɪsᴛ ʙᴇɪ ᴍɪʀ ɪɴ ɢᴜᴛᴇɴ ʜäɴᴅᴇɴ ᴜɴᴅ ᴅᴇsʜᴀʟʙ ᴡᴇʀᴅᴇ ɪᴄʜ ᴇs ᴀʟs ᴅᴇɪɴ ᴍᴏᴅᴇʟ ᴘᴇʀғᴇᴋᴛ ʜᴇʀüʙᴇʀʙʀɪɴɢᴇɴ.
ᴍᴇɪɴᴇ ᴍᴏᴅᴇ ɪsᴛ ᴊᴀ sᴇʜʀ sᴀɴғᴛ ᴜɴᴅ ғᴇᴍɪɴɪɴ ᴀʙᴇʀ ᴅᴀ ᴅᴜ sᴄʜᴏɴ ғᴜʀ ᴍɪᴄʜ ᴍᴏᴅᴇʟɴ ᴡɪʟʟsᴛ

Why do you lie that you are okay when you're not?

TheDollarBoy’s Profile PhotoMr. Freelancer
I read somewhere, Even a strong woman needs her hand held.
And then I looked around and there was nobody there. My heart replied to all my worries: "Hasbunallahu Wa Ni’mal Wakeel" Allah (Alone) is Sufficient for us, and He is the Best Disposer of affairs.
I felt like my hand was held firmly, it will always be held and who holds it is the most powerful, authoritative, and merciful.
I realized, I was never alone in crowds where people had others, but I had Him by my side and always will have.

Can you share with us anything about your past relationships? Any events that happened between you? Promises? Disagreements? Or feelings buried inside you?

I usually don't like anyone to know anything about my past relationships, and I don't share any events that happened between us, except for the new person I love, who is the only one who can know everything so that he can learn from what was going on with me.

Gratitude to Allah is a secret code that unlocks the doors of amazing favours. May we be among those who always say "Alhamdullilah".🧚‍♂

CSBS12’s Profile PhotoValar Morghulis
Often what makes us fall into despair is focusing on the wrong things. For example, if we've sinned, we focus on the sin, rather than the Most Merciful. If we're broken, we focus on the break, instead of Al Jabbar, the One who mends. If we're in pain, we focus on the pain itself, instead of the One who removes all pain. If we are wounded, we focus on the wound, instead of the One who heals all wounds. If we're scared, we focus on the fear, instead of the Protector. And if we're facing a problem, we see the problem, but not the One who can solve it. We see the imperfections of dunya, but not the perfection of Allah. All our pain, all our despair, all our hopelessness, stems from looking at the creation, instead of the Creator.
--Ask yourself: What is your heart looking at?--

Talented people like us have to work hard and these YouTubers like shahveer, ducky bhai, rowhi rai, they earn like crazy, I don't think they deserve it..

It's not up to us to decide whether somebody deserves to have something. It is disheartening I agree with you. I have similar thoughts sometimes. All we can do is keep pushing forward to make our tomorrows better and have faith in Allah.

Do boys pick up the vibes that girl is angry or upset with them?

princesssnowy786’s Profile PhotoKhadija
Absolutely! Idk about boys! But i have a sixth sense for detecting female anger and upset vibes. It's like my superpower! I might not always understand why you're mad, but i sure as heck know when you are. It's like my internal radar starts beeping, and my survival instincts kick in. So, ladies, if you want to keep your man on his toes, just let those vibes flow, and watch us scramble like confused little puppies. It's both amusing and terrifying for me. I love it!

Can we please normalise men expressing their emotions and also men themselves can you stop NOT EXPRESSING your emotions.

yasmeensyd’s Profile PhotoZahra Shah
We do express them but then chicks get cold feet and label us as weak for being expressive.
After navigating through life I too now have decided to shut myself and I've come to terms with the idea that being a Man means to protect, provide and bear it all alone because if you would not do so and you would be in your wounded energy the woman will be compelled to bring in the masculine energy which consequently drives the women to the idea that she needs to be around a more grounded Man and that eventually is what makes them say we are weak

7 mahiny guzr gye, usy face b ni kiya, shyd 1-2 din mein nazar a jye lekin kl us se related aik bt suni, rooh kamp gyi, energy drain ho gyi saari, 3 mahiny ki therapy, medicines sb kuxh jaise zayah hta nazar a gya, bilkul himmat khtm ho gyi, pta ni ku...bht bht low feel kr rha...😢

Pick up yourself. And remember one thing, you are the mostbimportant person for yourself... We'll see the rest tomorrow... Buckle up ...

Have you ever had a “friend” block your number or ignore you when you needed them the most? Why do some people act like they care at first but then end up doing that in the end without even giving you a warning?

Yes, unfortunately I have experienced something similar. It can be very hurtful when someone who initially appears to care about you ends up ignoring you or blocking you when you need them the most. It's difficult to understand why some people act this way, but it's important to surround ourselves with those who genuinely support and care for us.

What’s something that God has been teaching you in 2024?

christscout37’s Profile PhotoJamie
How to trust in Him completely when I have absolutely no control over my circumstances… the freedom of complete abandonment and total surrender… how beautiful it is to let your spirit soar above all the cares that weigh us down as humans in this fragile and fleeting life.
Whats something that God has been teaching you in 2024

What is the best piece of advice you’ve ever been given?

sagitariusqueen’s Profile PhotoEaster Bunny
Ahh ... Mera question mre par hi 😂😂 ... We'll it was : When someone does wrong to you or hurt you ... Don't react/hurt/ try revenge ... just leave silently and slowly from their life or throw them out slowly and silently ... let the karma handle it ... Just pray good for them that they receive so much happiness and abundance of people (as your replacement) that they never feel like looking back at you ... Because God makes us hurt by people till a point that we're immune to them 🙂 ... Which I follow to this day ..... - My Mother 🙃
What is the best piece of advice youve ever been given

Why do we go quiet about the things we think the most?

aleenakamran7’s Profile PhotoAlee.naaah
Because they may be deeply personal, sensitive, or even overwhelming. Sharing such thoughts can make us feel vulnerable, and we may fear judgment or misunderstanding from others. Additionally, sometimes we may not have the words to articulate our thoughts effectively, so we remain silent...!!!

Should medicine be kept in room temperature or the fridge? I keep some in my room, but I also keep a lot in the fridge

No one in our household takes liquid medicine that should stay in the fridge except for my little sister who sometimes gets prescribed liquid medicine for her allergies (which has to be refrigerated) so that’s the only time there’s either one or two liquid medication bottles in our fridge. The rest of us take prescribed medication(s) that come in the form of pills so those don’t need to be refrigerated.

What do you love the most about Ramazan?

ohhbajiplss’s Profile PhotoBaajii
The true purpose of Ramadan is to refrain from the allure of this temporary realm and surrender ourselves to the will of the Creator. Unfortunately instead of focusing on this spiritual aspect many of us forcefully refrain from eating and drinking during the day and then indulge extravagantly during iftar decorating our dining tables with multiple edibles. This neglects the needy ones who could truly benefit from our help making our surrender to our desires rather ironic...!!!

Do you have any local holidays or minor days of note? Today it's "fettisdagen" in Sweden, when it's tradition to eat a semla, a certain kind of pastry 🥐🇸🇪

TobbeAsks’s Profile PhotoTobbe
All us Americans have is Taco Tuesday 🙁
We DO have Presidents Day, but there's no special food with it. We make cardboard effigies of former Presidents of the United States and burn them.
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Do you think it's wrong to not trust young doctors? This guy I met recently is a doctor, but he is barely 30. That seems too young to me. Too young and too inexperienced. I would not trust him with my life. A good doctor with experience must be at least mid aged.

I do think that that’s a valid feeling but I wouldn’t instantly write them off as a bad doctor, it would just be harder for me to think that they’re right about everything they say. I came across not a doctor but a dentist who was young and he told me that I had a bunch of cavities. The place he was working at opened up a few years ago so it wasn’t a place that was in business for long. I got three fillers that I probably didn’t even need and had three more to go but thankfully, my mom suggested we see another dentist and that they’ll tell us whether or not we actually need the fillers (since they also told my mom that she had a bunch of cavities). It turned out that we didn’t need fillers and didn’t actually have cavities like the other dentist said we had. We now go to the new dentist that we found because we trust them more and the place that they work has been in business for much longer than the previous place we went to. I know you were talking about a doctor and not a dentist but in both cases, I’d trust someone who is middle aged and/or someone who has at least been doing their job for quite some time compared to someone who was just a student a few months ago.

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If your husband doesn’t give you his phone password, is this something to be worried about?

So this happened recently,
I wanted to talk to my bestie who moved abroad after his marriage recently and just when I wanted to ask him how his marriage life was going
He stopped me, said he's deleting the msgs and asked me not to text him, at all, on any platform. Calls only
Cuz bhabi reads his msgs.
If you have insecurities, reading chats won't be enough, you'll always be looking for lipstick stains or comparing the hair found on his shirt with yours and yet whatever you do you'll never be satisfied.
We boys have our privacy as well, we talk to our bros, no not every boy is a cheater, we don't share p@rn or n&des, we just use swear words and share painful experiences that we can't vent to anyone. Let us have that?

What perfume do you wear?

Inevitably you are going to hear stories and see posts about myself and Mooch but please keep in mind that the probability of those being false is very high. Both Mia and I have been in each others lives since we were 16 and started off as friends, going into best friends and ended up falling in love. While life took us on different paths and that love faded we have never lost interest in being the best of friends and that will be for life. Keep in mind that this is real life and real feelings are involved. ❤️

Самый лучшая компьютерная игра ?

denis_faton2nd’s Profile PhotoДенис Беляев
Каждому своё.
Мой топ это:
The Witcher 3 с DLC, ибо они тоже шикарны.
Серия Resident Evil до пятой, причём люблю как оригинальные игры 90-х, так и их ремастеры (Zero и первая) и ремейки (2 и 4) соответственно.
Начиная с пятой части всё стало совсем уходить в экшн вплоть до 7-й. Ну с неё сценаристы, по-моему, стали употреблять чего-то.
Silent Hill 1-3
The Last of Us 1 (моя любимая часть) так и part II (да-да, как бы кто не горел с Эбби, повесточки и твиста с Джоэлом, для меня это всё ещё отличная игра).
Horizon: Zero Dawn и сиквел Forbidden West - интересный постапок. с роботами и Эллой (люблю рыжих😏)
И, конечно же, Baldur's Gate 3 - для меня это одна из лучших, на ряду с Ведьмаком, игр в жанре RPG.
И это только вершина. Там ещё и Fallout New Vegas, Скайрим, BioShock, Star Wars KotOR 1,2, Mass Effect'ы. Много ещё годноты. Но это вот мой список.

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Самый лучшая компьютерная игра

How to kill time on weekends :(

fassi407’s Profile PhotoFaisal.
I had this idea when I was at my lowest, at a time when
I had not yet realized that death is part of life, and that
when we leave life, we should not punish those who survive us. I knew better than most that death is really the illness, not the actual moment when everything stops. What is death? The long days, the interminable nights of insomnia, when pain bores its mark into your body until you lose consciousness. The hours waiting in a hospital room until someone calls you for an examination. Death is the test results, the numbers, the speculation about the unknown. Death is the silence, the frightening abyss we watch approaching us.

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