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What was the last thing you revisited which you hadn't done / experienced in a while? ⏪

TobbeAsks’s Profile PhotoTobbe
... Does rejoining AskFm after a year's absence count? 🤣
Aside from that, though, I recently got back in touch with an old friend and we've talked about going swimming together a couple times a week. I've not been swimming properly since I was a teen, and I'm looking forward to getting back into it!
My friend is an ex-surfer too, and a qualified swim teacher, so she'll encourage me to put my all into it! She's already said, she's not gonna go easy on me... 😅

if you are 30 and you still colour ur hair blue, you're not cool you just come off as a cringe adult who cant grow out of their teen edgy phase

If you're sending anonymous hate on ask.fm about something that literally makes no difference to your life, then you're just a fucking idiot.

if you are 30 and you still colour ur hair blue, you're not cool you just come off as a cringe adult who cant grow out of their teen edgy phase

You know even oap colour the hair not age thing..why are you arsed on someone hair one isn't your hair so maybe look at your own hair first

if you are 30 and you still colour ur hair blue, you're not cool you just come off as a cringe adult who cant grow out of their teen edgy phase

Or you could leave them alone to do as they please because they are an adult and can make their own mind up, i dont understand why people have to complain about what others are doing instead of focusing on themselves, be better ✌🏻✌🏻

Have you ever used weight loss medication?

Shannon678900’s Profile PhotoShannon
I did when I was a teen and it was very dangerous. I think the only people who should be using weight loss medication are people who have tried all other avenues, and are in a desperate need to lose weight due to health reasons. Like if they're obese etc and nothing else is working.
I think everyone else should be trying to achieve a healthy lifestyle without the need of medication, if they have the ability.
I see so many people these days, taking weight loss meds when they're already a very healthy size, or have the ability to workout/eat right etc. So its to me excessive and dangerous in those cases. It should be a last resort kinda thing.

Oh I know how it is with a tarnished teen life and music to relate... Now imagine being deaf and begging to hear them as a young adult... I could only feel the beat at times

Apeshitz’s Profile PhotoApeshitz
I’m sorry, I can’t even imagine. Music has always been so important to me. But I probably would have been better off without the sad songs in my younger years. These days it’s mostly instrumental, in other languages or simply indecipherable.

Do you let someone put their arms around you on the first date?

I’ve basically only had two first dates. One as a teen and one as an adult, so I don’t really have a lot of experiences with dating, but I think it would really depend on the person and what kind of connection we have.
With my boyfriend, it immediately felt right to connect on a deeper level. We’re still happily together. ☺️

It's not just for mental issues? Therapy isn't medication. People go there for all kinds of stuff. I've been there when I was dealing with grief. It also helped me with my panic disorder, anxiety disorder and depression. Why don't you give it a try?

Talking to people gives me more anxiety. That would never ever be the answer for me. I walked straight out during the sessions the two times I was forced as a teen.

Recommend a movie or series or Novel..🖤

hanahamdyahmed’s Profile PhotoJOY WOLF (المنسي) ♍️
I watched these series and i loved it
- better call saul
- breaking bad
- hannibal
- Sherlock
- game of thrones
- the vikings
- the vampire diaries
- teen wolf
- peaky blinders
- la casa de papel
- the originals
- prison break

In what way are you a survivor? 💪 😇

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I’m a survivor of a lot of medical issues/trauma. Much of it, I’m still either trying to heal from, or I’m actively dealing with. Medical trauma has truly been bizarre to work through as you have most random triggers.
For example, I’m instantly nauseated, scared, anxious, feeling extreme dread, etc by certain sounds, smells, and so on. Like, I despise the smell of rubbing alcohol, alcohol wipes, etc. It brings back way too many memories, and makes me feel sick. But, it’s not exactly a trigger to “heal” from cause one, I don’t really know how to, and two, it’s not like you can really avoid it either. 🥴
I also get very scared when I have flare ups, thinking I’ll never get past it (even though logically, I know it’s irrational because my flares never stay constant). Or, more often, I’m scared I’ll wind up in situations I was in as a young teen that truly scarred me.

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In what way are you a survivor

why have malls lost popularity? teens and young adults nowadays don't go to the mall as much as people did 20 years ago.

Internet probably. Imagine going back to a time where buying selection was limited to a mall? It was fun hanging out there as a teen though. Even just to walk around a people watch as an adult.

Where did you foo's go on your very first date?

mierplas_’s Profile PhotoMierPlas
The mall. It was this goth boy that was the son of my mom’s work friend. We met at company picnic. He had a gf at the time and I had never really talked to a boy like that, let alone a goth boy. Soon after he split from his gf and asked me out but it was short lived. Apparently I was not loving enough. 🤣 Nothing lost. He was bi and wanted permission to be with dudes. I gave it since it was my very first teen boyfriend and was dumb. We were never intimate anyway. He also wanted me to hook up with his female friends. Never happened either.

Do you think therapy is appropriate for children or teens? This is just my perspective, perhaps flawed, but I don't think children or teens would understand what therapy is about. Therapy is for us, because we're adults and we're mature. Teens are stupid and immature. Therapy is adult business.

I don’t agree with this and think that therapy helps keep people stable emotionally and mentally since I’ve been very emotionally unstable before I started seeing a therapist towards the end of 7th grade. I did see a therapist when I was in elementary school but only once or twice and then never saw them again so that was quite pointless in my opinion. Before seeing a therapist in middle school, I didn’t have anyone I considered a friend and made the mistake of thinking my therapist was like a friend of mine but of course, I was young back then and didn’t really focus on myself or understand the point of therapy that much. Therapy helped me feel heard and understood and even tho I didn’t realize the real purpose of going to therapy as a teen, I did feel a sense of calm, knowing there was someone I could confide in after having a bad week. As an adult now, I quit working with my therapist a few months ago because I wasn’t making much progress with her and our personalities just didn’t click so I didn’t even want to talk to her if I’m being honest. If I could go back with the same knowledge that I have now, I’d definitely take my previous therapists more seriously rather than solely seeing them as a friend to talk to but that doesn’t mean I didn’t benefit from them back then either. I think it’s important for therapists to give teens a reality check every once in a while if/when they notice they’re being treated more as a friend by them instead of the therapist that they are and when the teens aren’t listening to what they ask of them to do.

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Welche Bücher, Filme oder Musik beeinflussen dich am meisten?

VoiiceOfDeath’s Profile PhotoAnNyan x3
Bücher wenn dann Sachbücher/Ratgeber die mir etwas mitgeben. In der jugend hat mich die biografie verpisst euch aufjedenfall am meisten geprägt.
Filme eher nicht so wie serien. Da hat mich supernatural in fandoms eingeführt, shameless in fan fiction und teen wolf zu der Liebe meines Lebens 😁 zudem skam, das hat mir geholfen vieles zu verstehen und ich hätte mir so eine Serie zu meiner Teenie Zeit schon gewünscht. Super Aufklärung.
Musik die mich am meisten trifft ist komplett unterschiedlich im genre, aber textlich ist es sicherlich polit punk der mich da logischerweise beeinflusst und aufgebörscht macht 😁

here's an idea: make a poll with gossip girl!!! i want a blair and serena match off and a chuck and dan humphrey one! plss

Okay in a little bit. My phone is having trouble saving images because it’s so full. I don’t think most of these people have seen all my old teen dramas though. 😢 I should do best NYC series. Gossip Girl vs Secks and the City. Different eras and age groups though.

Do you remember a time when you had to find a phone, or go to a public phone to make a call because cell phones weren't yet mainstream?

Often. I also used to hang out at payphones as a kid making pranks calls and as a teen calling boys. 🤣
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you don't even know what mommy issues is, stop using words you don't know the meaning of. clearly you're the one that needs therapy. get the help you need. maybe you'll learn how to love ur kids. if your parents never loved u. teen girls go to school, not get pregnant.

I'm well aware of what mommy issues ARE, stop whining in my inbox about school when you can't even form a gd sentence properly😂 I was very much loved as a child lmao & you ragging on me being a teen mom doesn't really matter. Like it was 12 years ago, get tf over it already. 30 really Isn't that far for me and you're crying over shxt that happened 12 years ago???🤡

Finding nsfw pictures of family members. What do you do?

I once found photos my father took of my mother on their computer as a teen. Only topless but still. Also when I was a kid and used to go over to my grandmother’s place where she lived with her bf at the time there were also pics like that of her on the wall upstairs. I guess the apple does fall far from the tree in my case. 🤣

Are you a good liar? 🤥 😇

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I must be at least halfway decent because as a teen I used to have "netball" and "basketball" after school an awful lot for someone who isn't athletically inclined, and my parents never seemed to notice 😂

DIVINE BLOOD FRAGE | Wieder in unserer Welt: Wie hätten die Kinderzimmer von Vale und Nenesra ausgesehen? :D

Nenesras Vater hätte die Zimmer seines Sohnes mit Liebe eingerichtet und seine Mom immer wofür gesorgt, dass diese aufgeräumt und sauber wären. Vales Ziehvater hätte sein Kinderzimmer noch mit Liebe eingerichtet und es würde heute noch genauso aussehen, weshalb Vale als Teen das Zimmer seines Ziehvaters übernommen hätte, ohne dieses je neu einzurichten, da er dazu nicht in der Lage wäre.
DIVINE BLOOD FRAGE  Wieder in unserer Welt Wie hätten die Kinderzimmer von Vale

Harry Potter czy Zmierzch?

Harry Potter bije Zmierzch na chyba każdym polu. Jedyną zaletą Zmierzchu w tym zestawieniu jest obecność tam wampirów, choć patrząc na to jak zostały tam wypaczone, to może jednak nie traktujmy tego jako zalety?
I tak, Harry Potter z mnóstwem dziur w konstrukcji świata i fabule bije Zmierzch na głowę. Oczywiście oba dzieła korzystają ze znanych i wyeksploatowanych motywów, ale Rowling robi to wszystko wciąż lepiej niż Meyer. I to jest ciekawe, że HP, będący gatunkowo w zasadzie czymś w granicach young adult wygrywa z teen dramą opartą o wątek miłosny. Zmierzch głównie romantyzuje wampiry i toczy narrację o zakazanej poniekąd międzygatunkowej miłości, podczas gdy HP wrzuca cały zestaw wątków - klasyczna walka dobra ze złem, przyjaźń, miłość, która jest naprawdę wielowymiarowa (bo chociażby miłość rodziców Harrego do niego, jej rola, a raczej brak przy narodzinach Voldemorta), do tego też kwestie tolerancji, szowinizmu, klasizmu, no jest tego mnóstwo.

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Ako to vyzeralo na Asku pred niekoľkými rokmi? A čo by sa muselo stať aby to také bolo zas?

Museli by tu byť zaujímaví ludia.
And I m absolutely not sorry to anybody kto to číta za tento statement.
Ale aby som iba nekrivdil... Ask už by design nikdy nemôže byť ako predtým.
Keď sme sem prišli boli sme teen kids čo chceli vela povedať no nikto nepočúval a všetkých tak nejak zaujímalo čo píšeme medzi sebou.
Teraz už sme z velkej časti dospelí a fakt nás nezaujíma slohovka od random človeka ku ktorému nemám žiaden vzťah Časy sa proste menia.
Čo sa mňa osobne týka nemám problém si čítať dlhé slohovky... Keď tu bola porcelánová žena alebo tu bol kontraindikace (big s/o) tak to bolo popiči čítať. Aj Julya bola popiči s tou som v kontakte do dnes ale takí ludia tu už nie sú a asku už nezostalo nič iné len to hrať na vtip a vážnosť zahodiť do potoka.
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Как вам группа Нирвана?)

kaleria159’s Profile PhotoВалерия Калинина
Любимая песня Smells Like Teen Spirit.
Load up on guns and bring your friends
It's fun to lose and to pretend
She's over-bored and self-assured
Oh no, I know a dirty word
Hello, hello, hello, how low?
Hello, hello, hello, how low?
Hello, hello, hello, how low?
Hello, hello, hello
Как вам группа Нирвана

Как вам группа Нирвана?)

kaleria159’s Profile PhotoВалерия Калинина
Heart-Shaped Box и Smells Like Teen Spirit норм, но в целом - дико переоценённая группа. Да, я вот такой нехорошик, но тоже имею право на собственное мнение.

If you were gonna do karaoke, which song would be your first pick? 🎤

TobbeAsks’s Profile PhotoTobbe
I did karaoke twice in my life. Once was as a child with a friend and we did Michael Jackson “Thriller.” It was recorded so I remember it was NOT good. 🤣 Second was as a teen and I did a Fiona Apple song. I don’t remember which one. Someone told me it was good. I doubt it was. I remember my friend was up there almost in tears trying to do it with me.

What were some of your favorite children’s books/book series growing up? Did you have an all-time favorite? If so, what was it about? 📚

anonamouse89887’s Profile Photoanonamouse
I had a few favourite book series (outside of my reptile books 😂)
The Darren Shan saga (vampires)
Artemis Fowl (fairies)
Morganville (vampires)
Confessions of Georgia Nicholson (teen comedy)
Twilight (vampires)
Hunger games (social commentary /revolution)
And a smattering of other fantasy/ya books


Dobry wieczór!
Nadszedł czas na podsumowanie aktywności i niestety musimy pożegnać się z następującymi osobami:
Oczywiście, wyżej wymienione osoby, mogą w każdej chwili do nas wrócić, jeśli nikt inny nie zajmie ich postaci ^^ Przy okazji PRZYPOMNĘ, że nasze grono chętnie przyjmie do siebie postaci z innych uniwersów, na przykład: The Vampire Diaries, The Originals, Teen Wolf, Shadowhunters, Once Upon A Time, The Witcher, i wiele wiele innych. Serdecznie zapraszamy do naszego grona ♥

What are those things you're too old to do but you still enjoy?

ManWithout1plan’s Profile PhotoManWithout1plan
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Watching Anime and playing games? x'D
Gosh, I started some of my hobbies when I was just a teen or something. But I still enjoy them, I guess some people would consider stopping after they reach adulthood, but I don't quite understand why. If it was able to give you moments of joy it can create it now. Why connect it to age? Doesn't make any sense to me. xD

Have you ever had a ‘not-like-other-girls’ ‘one of the guys’ ‘i prefer guy friends cause girls are too dramatic’ pick me phase when you were a teen?

Ehh, I was a Tomboy growing up and did like to hang out with guys who had similar interests so I guess you could say that was pick-me esque but I never bought into the whole "girls are drama and boys are chill lol" thing and it was never about putting down other girls, I just wanted to talk about video games sometimes and none of my gal pals played then 😂

Have you ever had a ‘not-like-other-girls’ ‘one of the guys’ ‘i prefer guy friends cause girls are too dramatic’ pick me phase when you were a teen?

Lol nope, I have had a lot of guys trying to make me think that though, especially on here, but they never succeeded. 😊
“Wow, other girls/women do…” or “usually women/girls say…”
I do hang out more with men than with women, but that’s because men are a bit more straightforward often than women. Some women prefer to talk more indirectly and I usually just don’t understand that, so the communication doesn’t usually go that well.
I love it when people are direct, that way I don’t have to decipher what they’re actually saying. It takes me an awful long time to do so and often I even fail. 😅

What were some of your favorite children’s books/book series growing up? Did you have an all-time favorite? If so, what was it about? 📚

anonamouse89887’s Profile Photoanonamouse
I absolutely loved the “Hoe Overleef Ik…” - series. It translates to “how do I survive…”
It’s a series written by Francine Oomen about a young teen girl named Rosa that faces problems that are very similar to the problems you are facing as a teen: getting to know yourself, your body changing, your needs and preferences changing, having difficulties with your parents, your friends, moving houses, falling in love, etc.
The writer has such an excellent way of storytelling. You can deeply be in touch with Rosa and learn how she copes with situations so you can prepare yourself a little bit too! The writer has ‘survival tips’ pages in the books. 😄
The image below is from the book “How do I survive with/without friends?”
What were some of your favorite childrens booksbook series growing up Did you

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