#sports

Aujourd’hui je suis quelqu’un de très calme mais je suis comme tout le monde, faut pas me manquer de respect.

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Quand j’étais au collège j’étais bien plus agressif à cause du harcèlement dont j’ai fait l’objet (pneus de vélo crevés, yaourt dans ma capuche, crachats, affaires de classe jetées dans les toilettes,….).
Ma mère me disait que la violence ne servait à rien, et je pensais qu’elle avait raison.
Mon père lui m’a dit discrètement, «si jamais on te frappe encore tu réponds.»

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Un matin alors que je me rends en classe, je vois encore ces trois conards qui zonent toujours dans «le couloir aux casiers».
Je prends comme d’habitude ma gifle derrière la tête.

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Sauf que ce matin présent, je ne sais pas ce qui m’est arrivé.
Je me suis retourné, je l’ai attrapé, mis la tête dans un casier et pris la porte du casier pour lui donner des coups sur les côtes.

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Et j’ai éprouvé une sensation que j’avais jamais ressenti auparavant.
Mais j’ai eu peur de ce que je pouvais faire car j’avais eu un degré de violence extrêmement élevé.
Par la suite j’ai réussi à atténuer tout cela par les sports de combats, et ainsi canaliser les émotions.

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Aujourd’hui j’arrive ainsi à mieux anticiper ces comportements que peuvent avoir les gamins que j’accompagne dans le cadre de mon boulot.

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I'm reasonably intelligent, ambtious, a smart ass and reasonably extrovert. I like to read, play piano, dick around on the internet and listen to classical music/jazz.

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My type is a girl who is about as intelligent as I am (or smarter), ambitious, a smart ass and not too socially awkward. I would get bored if she was too submissive, not very intelligent or if she wouldn't have a life/career of her own. Slightly introverted, not so much intelligent as incredibly fast at thinking. I love stories and take pride in the fact that I can do my work in dangerous and difficult conditions that break other people. I am also incredibly lazy when I can get away with it.
Me: Introvert and quiet until I warm up to people after we have talked a fair amount. Fairly confident but certainly not fearless. I can spend long periods of time with 1 person but more than a few people drain me. I like dicussing concepts and ideas, and making terrible jokes. Generaly very laid back and calm at most times, though I love competition and get fired up over it easily. Homebody who does not do clubs or rowdy parties but I will go out to a lounge or sports bar for drinks once in a while.
I have found myself to be pretty introverted, to my surprise as I always thought I was otherwise until I really understood what that means. I have spent a lot of my life learning to just take things as they come, a day at a time, and I like to imagine that makes me pretty laid back. I can tolerate most things in other people as long as it's not to do with deliberate ignorance or something they flat out know is not a good idea (ie. complaining about something that they could fix but won't, picking fights with others to try to find some affirmation for their life choices, etc.). I used to be a pretty hard core neck beard, but without a beard, and have been working very hard over the last few years to change that. I can only hope this self improvement has been working, but that's really for me to judge. I like me more, so there's that I guess.
I'm 5'10 (a good height I think). Good looking, manly chin, nice build. I'm pretty even keeled in terms of personality. Wouldn't say that I'm intro or extroverted because I can be both. I'm ok with peace and quiet, sitting in my room browsing reddit. I also have fun going out to parties and hanging out with people. But I do mind my own business, as opposed to some people who seem to have a need to bother and talk to others for no reason. I'm confident, willing to put my money where my mouth is. I don't believe in limiting myself, I want to experience all that the world has to offer. I'm intellectual, and well traveled, so I know what I like. I'm openminded, and appreciate the same in others. I look good in sweats and a v-neck, even better in a suit. A lover and a fighter.

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1-Hang up a picture - Find your dream body and hang up a picture on it on your wall. Dream Big and then think of every day you go to the gym as getting one step closer to the goal.

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2-Make it easy to be motivated - Plan everything out that you can so that you need less motivation and that it becomes more habitualized.

3-See the bigger picture - Besides the body that you want, going to the gym every day will create more energy, a healthier, longer life and more joy to spread to everybody else. Take that into account as you imagine your life 10, 20 or 30 years down the line. How will your life have changed then if you hit the gym every
Day since today?

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4-Talk to people that go to the gym every day - Become inspired by people that are doing what you want to do. Spend time around them to “take whatever they’re having” and “get a piece of the pie”. Eventually their mentality will rub off on you too!

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5-Enjoy the Gym - Do not think about the blood, sweat and tears, but the muscles, energy and health. Think about how great your body will feel and what music you can listen to. Maybe even download a funny audiobook to connect even more joy with the gym.

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6-Watch Motivational Videos - Simple, yet effective.

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7-Read inspiring stories - There will be things you connect to and can learn as well.

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8-“One more day” - Every time you want to give up, procrastinate on it. Say “Just today. I only want to go to the gym one more day.” And then, say the exact same thing tomorrow! Procrastinate on Procrastinating!

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9-Follow your interests - Instead of hitting the gym blindly go and join sports that you enjoy. Follow that internal compass that shows you what you want and then simply do more of it!

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C'est sûr, dans un monde plus ouvert où les sports ne sont plus réservés à une bourgeoisie blanche, on a forcément peur du déclassement... Sans une population immigrée et les sportifs qui en sortent, on serait encore pire. Après je ne suis pas entièrement fan de la dynamique autour de l'EdF... Soit ça appâte les droitardés qui s'indignent du peu de blancs (chose que j'apprécie au fond), soit ça sert de cache-misère pour vanter une fronsse black blanc beur. De plus, si on se met à interroger l'historicité et le contexte qui font qu'on ait ces sportifs, ça nuance les choses... Idéalement, nous n'aurions pas d'anciennes colonies francophones d'où tirer des migrants exploités pour en élever quelques un ou leurs descendants au rang de vedettes spectaculaires... L'infrastructure sportive dans les pays d'origine seraient égales, de façon à ce que le choix des binationaux soient vraiment de coeur... Et si ça veut dire que tous nos meilleurs athlètes filent, tant mieux, on perdrait plus souvent, comme on mérite... c'est la loi du sport non... Mais bon, nous vivons dans le présent, et ma foi si l'EdF peut convaincre quelques blancs de la chance qu'on a de les recevoir et de mieux les traiter, ça me va j'imagine...

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