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Why do women marry and not their husbands, while a man takes a woman as his wife? Could it be that the roles in marriage were already determined on the wedding day, and the woman should not move in front of the man, but stand behind her husband?

KubaGR571’s Profile PhotoKubaGR571
Here in the Dutch language there is nothing like that. You both marry each other. There is no Dutch sentence that says that a man ‘takes a woman as his wife’. We say ‘I married her/him’, ‘we got married’, ‘I asked her/him for marriage’, etc.
When the marriage is happening the wedding officiant asks this to both partners:
“Verklaart u ……… aan te nemen tot u wettige echtgenoot en belooft u getrouw alle plichten te zullen vervullen, die door de Wet aan de huwelijkse staat worden verbonden?”
Which translates to:
“Do you declare that you accept ……… as your lawful spouse and do you promise to faithfully fulfill all duties attached to the marital status by law?”
So it might be a cultural thing. It’s also a bit of an old saying to ‘take a wife’, because in the past marriage was more a practical thing to bring families together, rather than to marry for love. I don’t think there are many people that look at marriage that way at the moment, at least not in Western Europe.
So to answer your other question: no it’s not determined. It’s just an old s**ist saying.

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Why do women marry and not their husbands while a man takes a woman as his wife

Oo thanks for the heads up! I said: by covering up you keep your body to yourself and no one else. I don’t think that’s strange. It doesn’t have to be so that only the eyes are visible, it can be a loose fit that covers up most of the body too.

LunarHuntress’s Profile PhotoYentl (Only Dutch And English)
I understand all this, but being at the seaside, when everyone, including women, are bathing in swimsuits, and you see a woman in a black suit dressed as if she wanted not only to bathe but also to wash her clothes, it seems a bit strange to me. Don't you think that burkas should not be worn on the beach?

The dressing part I wouldn’t mind. I don’t mind covering my body for example.

LunarHuntress’s Profile PhotoYentl (Only Dutch And English)
The question was a joke about women covering their bodies. This seems strange to me. I don't know how a woman can walk around dressed so that only her eyes are visible, such an outfit may be advisable in the desert when the wind blows with sand, but in Europe there are no sand storms, but sometimes it is really hot

If he never texts me and I am too afraid to reach out to him in fear that I’ll be ignored or blocked, does that mean we probably aren’t meant to be together if neither of us have made a move for years? As a woman, I’m trying not to come across as desperate & am considering moving on these days.

It's important to realise that communication is a key part of any successful relationship 😌
If both in a relationship haven't made a move or reached out to each other for an extended period of time, it may be a sign that there's underlying issues or that the relationship may not be a priority for either of them 👀
Assess the situation and consider if it's worth continuing to invest time and energy into a relationship which lacks communication and effort from both sides 🤘
If he never texts me and I am too afraid to reach out to him in fear that Ill be

Strong independent woman ❤️

Everytime people say that they adore my independence, I just smile at 'em like I’ve heard it a hundred times. But at the back of my mind, there’s always this long pause thinking of how sad it's that people adore me for my independence not knowing it was a defense . You know, when you’ve been through a lot and no one was there for you, when people are used to you being the one needed rather than you needing someone, they tend to make you believe that you can handle everything on your own. And soon enough, even when you still don’t believe it, you learn to just accept it and live with it. When you have no one you learn to completely rely on yourself. You learn to build this extreme independence and master the life of not needing anyone.
Since that’s the case for me, I always find it hard to consider your words as compliment.

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aww glad your good, im okay still a bit sore but okay ty aww hope sonny gets better yeah weather sooo changeable aw you would not change his cheekiness tho xo

zactc’s Profile Photozack vaughan
I wouldn’t, I love his mischevious side really. The woman who owns the field had made him a little bed so he’s more comfortable 🥹 so cute of her!

Do you think your gender is simply what you identify as? like if you say you are a woman because that's what you identify as, you're a woman, that simple?

My gender is woman and my pronouns are she/her because that's what I identify as.
My biological sex is female because that's the chromosome make up I was born with.

What part of your body gets complimented the most?

Ehh, I was recently told, by another woman, I was the “cutest security guard” they’ve ever seen. lol Idk, but I LOVE when other women give compliments because it’s a rare thing these days. I can’t help but be embarrassed about that sort of thing, though. haha 🤷‍♀️
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matthewway’s Profile PhotoMatthew Way
No, childfree is not a lie! And yes, I want to find a benefit who, in spite of everything, loved a woman who I would love, and myself. Which is completely different from other girls who perceive relationships like an ATM. And marriage is like a loan that they won’t have to repay. And it’s better when they are also paid interest for using this man, firmly in a relationship with him. Because, in their opinion, a man without a woman ends up.
I need an independent woman who does not depend on her partner’s money. I am for partnerships. I don’t need a “common tick” woman who essentially brings nothing to the relationship.
Recently asking that question “What are the advantages for a man who lives with a woman?” Not a single girl was able to answer him clearly. And if something was answered, then she essentially does it for herself. After all, she used to take care of herself, wash, cook. Or maybe she walked around hungry, dirty and restless the whole time until she was in a relationship. And she does everything that is supposedly for the man, even when she is not in a relationship with someone, or they live separately.
Wait, everyone deserves forgiveness, but it must be earned. Maybe I'll find a worthy woman. Or maybe not. I will be without a relationship for the rest of my life, or in one that will not last long. No, I don't need children at all. I made this decision back in my school years and I will not give it up. Only over the years the number of reasons for this has increased significantly.
I don’t need my children, and especially not for me. Let lovers of divorced women with children be with them. I bless them for a long and happy life. It’s easier for them to take a dysfunctional family and complete it with themselves. They, like those lazy women, come into a relationship with everything ready. A supporter, a new father for a child and a lover for a woman.

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Childfree is a lieYou just wanna to find profitable womanI bless youYou will

If this applies to you, at what age did you start experimenting with makeup? I started around age 10, lol. I still remember trying a dark, gothic makeup look using my mom's black eyeliner, and I even used it on my lips as dark lipstick. I was a Marilyn Manson fan as a kid. I still have pics

Probably around 13. But my mother always wore a lot of makeup. I probably played around with it much before that. I thinks she finds it shocking that she birthed a woman that can leave the house without makeup. I don’t like to because I do t feel like myself but no need to put makeup on for doctors visits and such. I used to. 🤣

Do you believe you could truly love more than just one man or woman ? If so why ?

hmm… no
u could love one hundred
women/ men
u will think that u love them
maybe u love them
in some way
but it’s absolutely far away…
from true maddening love.
it’s probably looks like
to each his/her own.
but it doesn’t make any sense
absolutely any sense
to unreal maddening love
u heard guys phrase:
with every man it is the woman he deserves. look at the woman
who with u right now. and understand who u are.
i’m not with anyone yet… want to see that lucky man . with myself.

Some people think that if you're attractive, you can't have body dysmorphia. Like you, for example, a very attractive woman who looks much younger than her biological age, people wouldn't believe you deal with dysmorphia or insecurity.

It’s a terrible mindset to have. I also had severe social anxiety and depression when I was younger. Nobody could understand why a “pretty” girl would be that way. Even now people don’t get why I am a loner hermit. Well, I just like it. 🤣
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You're not bisexual if you're a woman who only dates cishet men. lol

Oh look, someone who thinks biphobia makes tham look cool 🙄
You don't get to dictate my sexuality to me, especially when you clearly don't understand anything about it. And you shouldn't talk about my dating history when you clearly know absolutely nothing about it, coz you're so wrong.

When was the last time you fought someone and how did it go down? (STAIF)

Samad12345’s Profile Photoعزازيل
I confront people often and ofc it never ends well but who cares? There’s no medal for being a nice idiot anyway but for some reason, this question is reminding me of when I confronted this woman, was amma’s client and she first narrated a whole sob story of how she wanted a child *while carrying a baby girl* and that she couldn’t have one, no matter what and then proceeded to point at her kid *ye adopted hai* excuse you?
How do you claim to have been dying for a baby and that you LOVE and adore your girl, while saying in every sentence that she’s adopted? How does it matter? Why are people so shallow? Kids are literally kids. They’re all alike! If it hurts your ego so bad, that the kid you took in is not yours, than do them a favour and don’t adopt them.
Ajeeb zehni mareez pata nae kaunsa superiority complex hai and this shit actually somehow makes it hard for adopted kids to get married as well. I mean what the actual fk? How does it matter unless you were eyeing the property?
Kam zarf ghatiya log. I genuinely hate the majority of people, being very gender neutral :)

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what if, in a couple, the woman finds out she's pregnant and she doesn't want to keep the baby but her partner wants the baby. who gets to decide what happens? only the woman as it's her body?

I think the woman could easily terminate and say nothing if she doesn’t want a baby bad enough 🤷🏻‍♂️

Don't trust anybody. Someone here will try to hurt you. A great evil hide here. Your good mate, the dark Noir.

how much …?!
the great blessings is coming
cosmos and universe
open the spell
the soul will go out into the astral
and no one couldn’t hurt me anonymous?!
it’s absolutely not fun
but it’s so fun
i am ur spiritual mentor
please expensive restaurant … expensive life
or astral will not open … bad things will happen
because universe need money .
( i use simple words but it’s its how they are work)
no ,
need learn a lot of smart words”
really , guys?!
i don’t know what u are smoke there, and what stage of schizophrenia do u have.
but guys. it’s sucks.
and u need help.
since Andrew started the rumors about himself and that scammer 🤢
strange messages started coming to me . in private messages
first of all, i’m stored .
i’m absolutely far away from that
and no spells work on me … or will work on me…
every just every
spells stays in them.
and guys,
all that stuff is scam . how u could entrust ur life someone who will advice u do something for ur money .
it’s mean bad things.u are addicted person
god guys buy urself a deck of tarot cards and sit and guess urself . it will help
because ur aura will stay in u
how u could listen someone 😨
especially… god
and avoid people like they have bad unlucky aura.
it’s like that u tried to prove that not … they have good aura they are
blah blah blah.
and ur money …
go away.
yes its my opinion
buy deck of taro card and sit and guess if u believe in such nonsense .
use the rest of the money
buy expensive bag to yourself
don’t let
buys “your bags”
and pleas don’t disturb me .
i’m not in that stuffs… i’m not a fan or something.
my man if he my man should be alone and lonely.
and mine only.
because i don’t care who is the woman
i could be only one.
and not only one for million guys…
guys u know that…
because one my word about that i’m single and
u know here i chose
only one
for my only one.
here i choose
i say what i say … i mean what i mean
and guys everyone lives as they want and pays for it
i about myself only .
i absolutely far away from it.
just absolutely.
god , but it’s so so sucks.
don’t disturb me .
and don’t afraid women like that ….they are about nothing…
but avoid…
u don’t need that kind of aura .
they are even use hair of persons
just avoid. at all .
nothing not working but for what u need that aura in ur life
just avoid.
from my side i don’t care …i ignore …
i know i will be absolutely happy.
and don’t want any bad aura in my life or
on my pages
i’m a girl spoiled by love and beauty
i girl who haven’t mom
don’t disturb me . and my pages
here guys, who adore me
only love and adore
u even in my followers do not found a person who will agree for money “bulled “ me!!!!

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This woman said, "I used to believe these crazy consp theories in college to the point where I thought someone poisoned my tap water, but it turns out I was just struggling with undiagnosed schizophrenia lol." Is this a common experience for people with schizophrenia? you experienced similar things?

yes, very common. I thought the government was trying to kidnap me to run tests on my brain, and at one point even thought they were going to bomb my apartment building.
I saw and experienced "ghosts" and "demons" constantly and was literally terrified just to exist

What's the reality of online relationships?

If you want to destroy yourself and your Akhirah, you will pursue such affairs. Else, a real man or woman will always go for Halal Nikaah. It's been more than a decade now since I started using social media. The people here are ready to sacrifice their faith, life, time, etc. for timepass. Those above 20 have already got a record of ex-boyfriends or ex-girlfriends. If you ask them, then they won't accept it. They'll say, "I never met someone who could understand me. That's why I never got into a relationship." A big LOL, all drama. They have destroyed their character. They can never be loyal to one person now. They don't know how to behave in a Halal relationship. Their expectations are fictional. Such people easily end up getting divorced. Talking to the opposite gender all the time, befriending them, sharing streaks, etc. All fake. It leads to nothing good.
Real gems are those who keep themselves protected against all such evil. Who keep their chastity and Haya intact. They are the best of the best. Those who commit Haram like that can never be trusted. I follow a lot of people online, but I trust none of them when it comes to this. They can not be trusted to be loyal. They will deceive and leave a permanent wound. Dozens of men and women came to me asking for help over the years. All of them suffered the same fate. They lowered their standards so much that they allowed anyone to use them and then discard them after they deemed fit.
I'll say this openly, if you want to be with someone, then approach them in a formal way through their Wali. Send your proposal. That's it. They can choose to accept or reject it.

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I threw my 16 year old son out for pretending to be a girl!! But people have been harassing me. Am I in the wrong? It’s against my religion and I will NEVER have that in my house!!

Umm… that’s still your son at the end of the day and even if you don’t agree with him and what he does, you shouldn’t disown him for pretending to be the opposite gender. He’s a minor so he’s still growing and maybe he just wanted to put himself in the shoes of the opposite gender for once and see what it’s like without intending to actually transition into a woman lol. Once he’s an adult tho, you can kick him out of the house if you have no sympathy and think that that’s the morally “right” thing to do.

Why do women live longer than men?

Casper1104’s Profile PhotoCrest
There are many reasons:
1. Women are more expressive than men. Man is to keep things to himself while a woman usually shapes, of if not, she can cry at least.
2. Women are dependent on men, so the burden of responsibility makes a man do harder to live. And he compromises his physical and mental health.
3. Women mostly like colours which keep them happy. Unlike men who can spend their whole life in 2 3 colors. So, colors bring happiness and increase life expectancy.
4. Women are not the decision makers. They don't suffer because of wars. WW1 and WW2 are examples.

Pedejais kas lika aizdomāties?

~ I guess a quote from TikTok video:
"Isn't it weird that every woman knows another woman who's been SAed but no man knows a r@pist?"
That actualy tells a lot aboit the world we live in...
Pedejais kas lika aizdomāties
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Why do women always lose interest when a man loves them to much.

S_fatik_F’s Profile Photosyed
Too much is never needed. Its more suffocating than satisfactory. Love & every other feeling works when there is a balance.
Why'd a woman go for a Pontmercy when she has Heathcliff or Darcy.
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⛧ How about a walk through hell together?

SMILINGOVERLORD’s Profile Photoalastor⠀'⠀the ⠀radio⠀demon⠀⛧
⠀⠀⠀⠀*⠀⠀⠀ ⠀ WOLF - WOMAN ⠀/ ⠀WINTER - WOMAN

⠀⠀⠀⠀ she⠀ has⠀ already⠀⠀been ⠀through⠀ the⠀ red⠀hell
⠀⠀⠀⠀ and⠀can⠀show⠀you⠀around.
⠀⠀⠀⠀ maybe ⠀ all⠀ ⠀the ⠀ things ⠀ you ⠀ thought ⠀ made
⠀⠀⠀⠀ psychosis ⠀ is⠀⠀imagination⠀⠀flawlessly⠀⠀merged
⠀⠀⠀⠀ with⠀⠀ reality⠀⠀ to⠀ ⠀ the⠀⠀⠀person⠀ ⠀who⠀⠀⠀is
⠀⠀⠀⠀ experiencing⠀⠀it. you⠀⠀can’t ⠀ tell ⠀ where ⠀ one
⠀⠀⠀⠀ begins⠀⠀and⠀⠀the⠀⠀other⠀⠀ends.
How about a walk through hell together

I'm not shia Lekin Hazrat Ali se pyar Mujhe b hai.❤️

waqarali1337’s Profile PhotoMalik Waqar Ali
21st Ramadan, Martyrdom of Ali AS
He was born in the purest of places (inside Ka'bah), on the best of the days (Friday), martyred in the best of the months (Ramadan), on the best of the nights (Qadr), in the best of the moments (Salah), in the best of positions (Sujood). He was married to the best woman (Fatima RA, the daughter of Muhammad PBUH, his nikkah with her was recited on the Arsh), and is the father of the best human (Hussain AS). About him, the Prophet Muhammad PBUH said, *"The one who wants to live my life and die my death, should attach himself to Ali"*

Please just don’t start any drama tomorrow my heart can’t take much more

i do not know who u are anonymous
or why u are wrote
this to me. it’s like it’s u or from u
but i wrote everything what i think about
if ur heart in such condition
don’t action like that
and i don’t need history
in which i saved u from the hands of an ugly female scammer.
u adult man must ur self answer
for ur actions.
no one only u
i’m not ur mom. i sent by ur mom.
i don’t need history. i need happiness.
and guys be careful especially rich guys.
i was think it not actual more
but still exist woman scammer
called themselves witches
not exist any witches
it’s all about money.
be careful guys.
all spiritual things is bla bla bla
and about money .
i know a million invisibly read me
ask about it .
be careful guys.
it’s all sucks.
as i said from first minute.
i wrote everything yesterday
farther all depends from u
but i
there shouldn’t be
any such women in our house.

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U are not in my age but I feel that I'm in love with u, I made the fake account to tell you that I'm in love with u, you are older than me too but I love u and like to see your pics very much 💔

It is nothing bad on telling to woman that you like her or love her in various age 🥰🤷‍♀️, women love compliments, thank you ❤️😉. Why to establish new acc because of it? Is your jealous girlfriend still spying you? 😅😂😂😂
U are not in my age but I feel that Im in love with u I made the fake account to

Who are you behind the mask that you wear?

zaidwali915’s Profile PhotoZaid Wali
It's subjectively different for everyone who knows me. But I guess I am an oversensitive woman who has trouble with healing past trauma and doesn't want to bleed those wounds on people who didn't play any role in wounding her.
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God made you the greatest woman to exist, and God will make sure you get to enjoy GTA 6 and be the greatest streamer to exist. He's already made you wealthy and happy with your current relationship. Howard said he loves you and wants the best for his daughter.

It's so easy not to spam the shout-outs so I don't understand how y'all have a hard time understanding how to ask questions

I wanna fall in love with you very much but I know that you are marry 💔

Nice 🙂, falling in love with married woman is compliment for her but it can be devastating to a man who puts his heart into it 💔. Advice 👉 If this happens to you in real life and this woman is in the age suitable for next family, try to find out whether she is happy in her marriage. If not, try to persuade her that you could be better partner for her 🤷‍♀️.
Regarding me - we still can be good friends 😉.
I wanna fall in love with you very much but I know that you are marry

Ты уже слушал(-а) новый альбом Арианы Гранде "Eternal Sunshine"? Какая песня тебе больше всех понравилась? Какие впечатления от альбома в целом? Какой твой любимый альбом этой певицы из всех? Хочешь побывать на её концерте?

До этого вопроса я не слышала о том, что Ариана собирается выпустить (а потом что выпустила) новый альбом
Люблю её творчество, но как-то перестала следить
Альбом нормик, хотя, как говорится, раньше было лучше
Больше всего понравились песни true story, supernatural, а если выбрать топ-1, то don't wanna break up again
Мои любимые альбомы Арианы - "thank you, next" и "Dangerous Woman" 🥰
На концерте не отказалась бы побывать, будь такая возможность, но в целом как-то пофиг, не думала и не мечтала об этом

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⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀h e a r t l e s s⠀⠀c h a l l e n g e⠀⠀⠀⠀ ;⠀⠀ ⠀⠀♔
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Do you like a pantomime?

Yeah, it’s a great British tradition and good slapstick fun.
British pantomime had the “principle boy” character (e.g. Robin Hood) played by a woman and the “principal girl” characters (usually someone like Cinderella’s Ugly Sisters or Old Mother whomever) played by men in drag long before there was any of this nonsense outcry about it from offended politicised campaign groups.
As a kid I used to go to see the pantomime each year on my Birthday as it falls in pantomime season, and as an old fart I’ve gone with my nieces to see panto.
It’s good how serious actors/presenters from British film and tv also get involved and star in pantomime.
Do you like a pantomime

Du erwachst mitten in einem Zombie-Ausbruch. Wie würdest du versuchen zu überleben und dich vor den Untoten schützen?

Nach so viel TWD-Input über die letzten Monate müsste ich eigentlich willens sein, den Durchblick zu haben, aber so wie ich mich selbst einschätze, würde ich primär den Untergang des virtuellen Abendlandes betrauern und panisch meinen Schokoriegelvorrat in den niedlichsten Rucksack stopfen, den ich zuhause ausfindig machen kann (Praktikabilität wird noch zu stark von Schockgefühlen verdrängt und man möchte sich noch hoffnungsvoll an ein Bisschen Normalität klammern). Danach, puh, vorausgesetzt, dass ich wirklich ganz auf mich allein gestellt bin, würde ich noch lebenswichtige Utensilien, Proviant und vermutlich irgendeinen sinnlosen, aber beruhigenden Shît mitnehmen und mit meiner Karre ganz weit weg düsen; möglichst immer auf Zack und Ballungsräume vermeidend, sofern das in den ersten entscheidenden Stunden möglich ist.
Ich würde so gerne meinem inexistenten inneren Daryl Dixon Ausdruck verleihen (Gott, ich liebe diesen Charakter), aber bei der bloßen Aussicht, Tierfallen aufstellen oder anderweitig hardcore unterwegs sein zu sein, würde sich mir sofort der Magen umdrehen. Ich würde alleine überhaupt nicht zurechtkommen, weshalb ich mich schnell irgendeiner Gruppe anschließen und im späteren Überlebenskampf darauf hoffen würde, unabhängiger zu sein.
(I will be the last woman standing with my Totoro backpack, fite me.)

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Why does it feel like for a man to receive love he needs to be a provider and a protector love whereas a woman just needs to be caring and respectful?

HaiderAli686’s Profile PhotoHaider Ali
Allah made men the providers and women the nurtures. I might sound old school, but women should take care of their husbands and their children and make a family. While husbands should provide. That's how it has been and should be.

Do you believe in early marriages?

AhmadQureshi50102’s Profile PhotoAhmad
I believe that one should get married when they are mature enough and capable of understanding their responsibilities, whether they are a man or a woman. This relationship is not as easy as it may seem; it is a delicate bond. If individuals who are still children themselves enter into it, they will have to handle it, but it will be quite challenging.

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