#chilled

Aaaah— the horrors

---

No, I don’t mean that it gets really dark inside the building if the power’s out late at night.

---

My primary concern is that for as long as the power is down, the room’s gonna start feeling a bit toasty as for whatever logical senses that the first groups of people that choose the designs for this small area that we lived in to have a floor-to-ceiling heights maxing out at roughly at about 2.5 metres tall (8.202 ft.)

---

And it has happened a handful of times for some electrical works in the areas… And they always seems to do them at night between 10PM to 2AM.

---

I’m just glad that it’s a very rare occurrence so to say.

---

But now, I’ve learned that the howling winds in the dead of night is actually a lot more cooler than the air conditioning in my room is able to provide.

---

The only problem about these howling winds in the dead of night, colder air plus just a tiny little bit of breeze is enough to get me chilled to the bone.
Not a fun experience, and it is painful as hell 😰

---

I’m really not sure how the Europeans, Canadians, Russians, and pretty much people that isn’t anywhere closer to the equators of the earth is able to withstand this…
Or maybe I’m more frail than I looked 🤣

---

Hang on, I am as frail as I looked physically 🥲

View more

Alhumdulilah I'm all free of this. I'm so grateful to Allah to show me always haqq.

---

Let us take a look at the world, so beautiful, so fascinating and full of luxuries, top of the range cars, cinemas, theme parks, mansions, this is the life.
Who wouldn't like to live a chilled out life? Who doesn't desire that these luxuries were to last forever?
Now back to reality, is it not true that all these luxuries, this world, will one day perish? Is it not true that this world will one day come to an end?
This world is nothing but amusement and play; it is full of luxuries and fantasies that are fascinating but deceptive. It's so easy to fall into its trap, but to escape from its clutches is extremely difficult.
Let us now search for the reality of life, what is the purpose of our creation? What is the reason as to why Allah Taa'la has brought us into this world? If we take a look at the Qur`an, we find that Allah Taa'la clearly states that he has created us so that we may worship him, the outcome of which will be that Allah Taa'la will be pleased with us and will In sha Allah save us from the hellfire and will grant us with the bounties of paradise.

View more

So i’m 19 and everyone is out clubbing. I just really don’t enjoy it. I suffer with bad anxiety and i can’t think of anything worse than a loud space, dancing, being approached by people. I’m more than happy to go for drinks or food but i hate how i’m made to feel not “normal” because i don’t go out out. Is it ok that i prefer to go out when it’s quieter and more chilled. I also have a history of sexual assault so i’m very wary on drunk men and spiking ect. I’d prefer to stay away.
I feel similarly. I’m in my 30s now and did my fair share of clubbing because I enjoy dancing. I’m also male, so I have less fear attached to things like that. But now I enjoy talking and having real conversations over drinks. It’s more enjoyable and safe and it feeds my soul more. You’re just ahead of your friends. Just don’t shame them for wanting to go out and invite them to more intimate gatherings when you can. You’re good.
Some of my friends used to look at me weirdly whenever I’d say that. I’m the same age as you and honestly I hate clubbing and loud crowded spaces just because I’m a quiet person. Nothing wrong with not liking any of that. My friends don’t bother asking me anymore just because they know I feel out of place since I don’t drink or smoke. I prefer chill quiet places too
I’m much older but when I was your age I always had much older friends and all the friends that I did have (Gf, etc) always wanted to club but I was much more mature and somehow passed that phase. You ain’t missing nothing. You do you and be proud that you are saving money by not participating.
Yep! I’m 24 and I’ve been clubbing once and hated it so much. It was hard when I turned 21 (I live in the US) and it was all my friends wanted to do, but you’re not alone and you should be able to find friends who want to do things that aren’t clubbing. And if your friends do enjoy clubbing you can obviously still be friends, maybe just suggest some other activities every once in a while and communicate your concerns if it seems like clubbing is all they want to do.
There is absolutely nothing wrong with that. You are perfectly normal. I grew up in one of the "clubbing capitals of the world" so from age 18 to 21 I'd hit the club every week. I thought that's what I was "supposed" to be doing but never really liked it. Smelly, sweaty, drunk people all around you....also hated how girls degraded themselves for a cheap bottle.
I hate clubbing. I’m more of a sit at a bar type to eat and chat peacefully without loud music blaring directly in my delicate ears. I did try it a few times for a night-out with the girls due to a friends bad breakup but guys kept interrupting our time just dancing together. One even snuck behind me without warning and proceeded to rub himself. Like stranger please, you didn’t ask to dance and helped yourself to get handsy around my parts.

View more