#education

We don't hang out. I have hardly gone anywhere with my friends.

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But I cling on to friendships, even broken ones, be it the situation or the people themselves who broke them, I have always clung on to hope, to see something positive in all that mess.

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My very first best friend had transferred to Chalwal when I was 7, I had no other friend in class, it was really hard for me to become friends with anyone after that, I actually spent a year or two without friends at school. So, for me, friendship matters more than anything else. 5 days ago, I met that one friend who was separated from me at 7, I actually wanted to let out my heart to her, like she was my first friend in school, but I couldn't say much, I genuinely expressed my happiness to see her and told her about how life was going on how the two of us had movef to two different cities for the sake of education and employment. And we talked about our class, I told her about all the classmates that I met after school in uni, at any social gathering and how many of them were related to my students in one way or another and how good it felt to meet teachers too, we talked so much but not like old times, not everything, and then again we separated too, because times have changed and so did responsibilities.

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Звичайно може. Не всіх тягне то пізнання себе через почуття. Бо багато жінок і дівчат фрігідні, чи відчуття сексуальні дуже заглушені. Через психологічні бар'єри, виховання там, може релігію. Ось такі, будучи навіть заміжніми і народжуючи дітей, ніколи невзмозі зрозуміти, що таке оргазм, банальна жага, сильне бажання. Таким ось бути, нібито щасливою у такому обмеженні як ти запитав, досить нормально. А ось жінкам і дівчатам, які знають чого хочуть від близькості з чоловіком, чи навіть самі щ собою, ось там складніше наплювати на почуття заради достатку. Ну хібащо достаток дуже великий, то змиряться. Або ж когось на стороні почнуть шукати. Такі вони, люди. ;)
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Of course it can. Not everyone is drawn to self-knowledge through feelings. Because many women and girls are frigid, or their sexual feelings are very suppressed. Because of psychological barriers, education there, maybe religion. These are such people, even when they are married and have children, they will never be able to understand what an orgasm, a banal craving, a strong desire is. To be like that, supposedly happy in such a limitation as you asked, is quite normal. But for women and girls who know what they want from intimacy with a man, or even themselves, it is more difficult to give a damn about feelings for the sake of prosperity. Well, unless the abundance is very large, then they will reconcile. Or they will start looking for someone on the side. That's how they are, people. ;)
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I think that there’s initially nothing wrong with teaching religious teachings at public schools but it would likely become a problem if all religions were being taught in schools on a regular basis, since differences in religious beliefs can cause arguments and hostility between the students (especially if students aren’t open minded or mature enough to be ok with the differences). I went to a public school and our school didn’t even have religious teachings but I still remember the time when one of my peers started arguing with me because he knew I was a Muslim. He tried to tell me the “right” things to believe and he was getting mad at me for the fact that I have/had different religious beliefs than him so the teacher told him to sit in the hallway. I think that because middle school and high school students aren’t adults yet, there would be a higher chance of discrimination and hostility between the students who have different religious beliefs. For this reason, I believe it’s better for religions to be taught in college (which is why the field of theology exists).

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I mean, it absolutely depends on the parents. Some do it right, some don’t, some do the best they can based on the education they got, etc. It’s hard to make a broad conclusion about it, given it’s likely different for everyone. And if you factor in people’s beliefs, ranging from cultural, to religious, etc, there’s gonna be even bigger differences. Since I can only speak about it personally, I will do that.

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When it comes to my parents approach, it wasn’t bad by any means, but it surely wasn’t like… an open conversation. My mom used to tell me to ask questions about it if I was curious, and my dad didn’t really talk about it at all. 🤷🏼‍♀️

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The younger versions of me, who wasn’t even aware of what asexuality was or that there was a term for it, was curious. But not about s*x itself. I was more curious why I didn’t care about it at all, and why just the mere thought of s*x in regards to myself, made me uncomfortable. 😅 I was told a lot that it’s normal not to feel anything at first, you just have to “meet the right person” or “hit a certain age” and all of a sudden, you’ll feel it. But I didn’t. And that is something I wish I was taught. That not wanting s*x isn’t abnormal, nor does it mean something is fundamentally wrong with me or my body (as asexuality has nothing to do with hormones or your body functioning, it’s attraction based).

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I’m not a parent myself, but if I ever were to have kids, I’d want them to have a good s*x education, and know that they not only can ask me questions, but also, that they can have open conversation with me about it. There’s no shame, no guilt, no taboos around it, it’s a totally normal thing to be curious about (or not), talk about, etc. And also, teach them firm boundaries that they are in charge of what they do with their bodies, and not to let anyone guilt, or coerce them into it if it’s not what they want. And that’s what I believe is the right way to teach kids about s*x. ☺️

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This is such a loaded question 😅🤣… 1. I loved college… I love education! It’s enlightening and rewarding. I wish I had invested in more opportunities when I was young. 2. 9-5, M-F is optional. All jobs have different demands. Choose what fits your lifestyle. You either make your life fit a mold or you create your own mold and live your life. Lots of good paying jobs have a different schedule. 3. Life is hard, degree or no degree. Everyone is out there trying to make the most of it and you should too. Some degrees are useless, some companies care more about experience, some jobs require an apprenticeship, lots of jobs don’t require a degree at all. At the end of the day, what you care about is what matters. Don’t make decisions based on what others say. Do what’s right for you. Regret nothing.

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Well, as a woman I dont' have a lot of great options to begin with, since the position of my gender was heavily dependent on social norms and cultural circumstances (in even worse terms than today). There was no single most humane position that applied to everyone. Women had different roles depending on their social class, family situation and geographical location.

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For women from aristocratic or wealthy families, the most humane position may have been to have a good marriage with a respectful and supportive husband who took their needs and desires into account (ew). Such women often had access to education and could enjoy some autonomy within their homes, although their freedoms were limited compared to modern standards.

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Women from poorer families or those who lived in rural communities often had heavier workloads and less freedom. They were usually heavily involved in daily work, be it farming, housework or other economic activities. Their position was often characterized by greater dependence on male family members and social structures (ah great, the patriarchy strikes again).

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I think I would still take the first option into consideration with a lot of different outcomes concering my (hopefully not so nasty and disgusting) husband. If, by any chance, said person is an absolute scumbag, I would totally fantasize about poisoning that piece of shît (/sarcasm). If a wealthy woman was suddenly widowed in the Middle Ages, her situation could vary greatly depending on various factors such as her social status, her family environment and the legal regulations of her time and region.

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In some societies and legal traditions in the Middle Ages, women had the right to a portion of their deceased husband's estate, known as a widow's estate. This could include land ownership, financial resources or other assets that enabled the wife to live a decent life even after her husband's death.

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If the wife played an important role in the management of the family estate or business, she could continue this responsibility after her husband's death. This could mean taking over the management of the business or representing her family's interests in negotiations and affairs.

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Depending on the social norms and circumstances of her family, a widowed woman might be pressured to remarry, especially if she had no male heirs, in order to continue the family's property and name. However, this could also depend on the woman's personal autonomy and wishes.

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Many wealthy women in the Middle Ages were involved in charity work, religious or social activities. A widowed woman could increase these activities or take new initiatives to engage in the community and use her influence.

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So yeah, I would just hope to either be a cool nun or a widowed and more or less independent aristocrat (without having delivered an heir or re-marrying another stupid douchebag). Anything else would probably have me burning on a stake or else. /ᐠ - ˕ -マ Ⳋ

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