When was the first time you think were exposed to "bad group of friends" like having stereotypical characteristics like drinking, smoking, or bad behaviour. Unless you were the bad influence yourself (share how you influenced the good peeps? haha) P.S. not saying these traits are always bad.
I am a paradox when it comes to this. On the one hand, I genuienly try and make acquintances with as many people as possible, but at the same time, it takes months and months for me to call someone a friend. Having said that, I make my moral compass known from the beginning. I tell them that I am not comfortable with drinking, smoking, and drugs, so don't bother offering them to me.
The very very first time was probably a year or so ago? It was an MUN trip to Russia and in one of the hotel rooms, a bunch of us decided "who goes to Russia and doesn't drink Vodka amiritttee?" I was sick that night as well so I was this little ball of gloom in the corner :').
My philosophy is let people do what they want, it's never my business unless they ask me directly for advice. As long as they are being safe, not endagering or forcing others to join them, and still having common decency when treating others, I literally do not give a shit.
The very very first time was probably a year or so ago? It was an MUN trip to Russia and in one of the hotel rooms, a bunch of us decided "who goes to Russia and doesn't drink Vodka amiritttee?" I was sick that night as well so I was this little ball of gloom in the corner :').
My philosophy is let people do what they want, it's never my business unless they ask me directly for advice. As long as they are being safe, not endagering or forcing others to join them, and still having common decency when treating others, I literally do not give a shit.
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