My "oh what the hell, lets see what will happen" moments. My proudest one was talking to a professor many deemed terrifying and unhelpful. The trick was to utilise office hours and to be interested, a little goes a long way.
When someone says “Why do you like talking to me?” Does that mean it bothers them that they have to ask it ?? Lo l :))
Depends on the context ma dude. Is there tone playful? Demanding? That sort of thing. But usually it's a positive thing. It means the asker finds it amazing that anyone in the world finds them interesting. Also it could be bait so they fish for compliments.Again, context.
Yes and no. But mostly yes. I think the most cohesive way to explain my point is pur concept of stories. No story is ever original because it is made up of so many tropes and ideas that are more or less similar. It's because we derive our stories sometimes from our own lives and the lives of others, just twisted in some bizzare way to make them that bit more unique. Our experiences, while unique to us, are in of themselves not unique at all.
Beginner's luck is one. There is a game of cards in my family we all like to play. My aunt taught me and my grandfather was an undefeated champion. First game I played with him, I won. It's a tiny instance but the look of disbelief and pride on my grandfathers face was worth it.
What’s the difference between loneliness and being alone? Do you believe that the capacity to be alone is the capacity to love? If you feel a certain feeling, do you just let it be, own it, or you have to distract yourself from it?
Loneliness is having no one to support you, no one to turn to. Loneliness bleak, grey, and haunting.Being alone, is doing things by yourself. Enjoying one-person hobbies. You have your friends and family, and those you care about but in a way you create your own bubble away from them.I suck with feelings. Me and feelings are frenemies. And it depends on the feeling entirely. But I have the "oh what the hell, let see what happens" mentality to I let it be. It came for a reason, let it chart its own course and take me with it.
Cheating on a partner. Giving someone your trust and then that person goes out of their way to break it is low as fuck. Not happy? Break up. Don't fucking cheat.
If your partner said “i have doubts about what you really feel idk maybe i’m just fucked up and it’s my brain telling me,” how would you feel? would that make you feel shitty and enough reason to break up?
HUGE disclaimer. I have never been in a relationship before. Dating isn't my thing.Considering I'm shit at showing affection, I am not going to take it that personally. If anything, I am going to be glad that my partner is at least comfortable enough to tell me something like that. Remember, people show affection in different ways and there is a high chance the way I show affection is something my partner would consider normal and not particularly affectionate. So while yes I would feel shitty because I care about my partner and I want them to know that, it's definitely not a reason enough to initiate a breakup. Communication is needed.
If the partner can’t text you back for more than 10 hours, is that a red flag? Can’t even send a “hey”?
Depends. If they told you before that they are going to be busy for x amount of time and cannot talk, if they are sleeping, if they're going somewhere and need to keep their phone off, or if its the norm for them. In those cases, I don't think it's worrying at all.If they don't text back though and the next time you see them, they are on their phone, yes, I would say it's a red flag.
A Burberry trench coat is high on my list. And there was a solid gold and silver chess set I saw in Harrods a while back and boy oh boy was it fucking gorgeous.
Do you carry any self-defense tools with you on a daily basis? What are they and what prompted you to start carrying them with you (if you do)?
I carry my pocket-knife around, but mainly because it's a multi-tool and it has the perfect size screwdriver for when by glasses' frame gets a little wobbly. No traumatising experience, just wobbly glass frames.
Who are the people (one boy and one girl) you consider as your most trusted and bestfriend?
I am not going to say names but my guy friend is my best guy friend because the dude is so comfortable with himself you immediately feel comfortable in your own skin also. Plu there are literally weeks where we don't talk and all it needs is for one of us to send a meme roasting the other and it gets the conversation going. Platonic friendships like this is what I live for and cherish deeply.