#goals

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Ich finde Sport, Bewegung und Beweglichkeit schon sehr wichtig, aber ich habe das Gefühl, dass wir durch SM den gesunden Umgang damit verlernt haben. Auch das Thema Sport ist sehr schwarz-weiß geworden.
Ich sehe Leute, die jeden Tag ins Fitnessstudio gehen und nur Brokkoli, Huhn und Reis essen und das mit ihren Proteinshakes runter spülen.
Oder junge Menschen, die an ihrer Dampfe nuckeln, Energiedrinks süppeln und ins Schwitzen kommen, wenn sie zwei Stockwerke laufen müssen.
Und das finde ich beides n bisschen schräg.

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Ich fänd es schön, wenn Sport Spaß machen dürfte. Wir darin auch nicht gut sein oder irgendwelche „goals“ verfolgen müssten, sondern einfach nur den Körper n bisschen moven, weil es das richtige ist. Sport oder dessen Ablehnung sollte nicht deine Religion sein. 😅

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Ich mag Leute, die im Tennisverein sind oder in ihrer Freizeit am See mit Freund*innen Volleyball spielen. Ohne Zwang, ohne Ziel einfach um es zu genießen. Muss sagen, dass ich da deutliche Unterschiede je nach sozialer Herkunft sehe. Arm sein ist fr ungesund leider.

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I wholeheartedly agree with this quote.— in my opinion success and happiness are not something we can chase after directly. Rather, they arise naturally as a byproduct of our actions and dedication to something greater than ourselves - whether that be a cause, an idea, or simply the pursuit of personal growth and self-improvement. When we focus solely on achieving success or happiness for their own sake, we often find ourselves feeling empty or unfulfilled because there is no deeper purpose behind our efforts. But when we approach life with a sense of meaning and purpose - striving towards causes or goals that resonate with us on a fundamental level - then success and happiness become natural outcomes rather than elusive prizes to be won. I believe that true success comes from dedicating oneself to something greater than oneself. 🌻

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You can't just choose someone based on who loves you more or who you love more¿ I think when it comes to matters of the heart, there is no easy answer. The decision should be based on mutual respect and compatibility rather than just one-sided feelings. If both parties are willing to work together towards building a healthy and fulfilling relationship, then that can be a strong foundation for lasting love. However, if someone's feelings are unrequited or if the relationship is built solely on one person's desires rather than shared values and goals, then it may not be sustainable in the long run. So I believe that choosing between two people should ultimately come down to finding someone who loves you as much as you love them - but also shares your vision for what a happy and healthy partnership looks like. It is more about finding a balance. A connection.🌻

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MY LOVELIEST DAYS AHHH, I MISS SO MANY THINGS. Here are a few:
– How, because it was a very small one consisting of only 150 students, I knew everybody. And when I say everybody, I mean it. I was literally friends with this grade 1 student, she wrote an essay on me for the topic "best friend."
– How I'd play head and tails with everyone during free periods. We were SO loud.
– At the back of our class, we had this empty place without any seats. Whenever we had a free unit, we all sat on the floor. Collective floor time??? Hello??? We were literal goals.
– My classmates. I will never vibe with humans like I vibe with them. I love them so much it hurts.
– Luca. That kitten. I adopted him for a month before he went away :(
– I was a prefect. During break time, I was assigned the duty of supervising the "ground" where students of grade 4 till grade 7 were allowed. Sab badmaash thay. I miss handling them.
– We had two consecutive units of Economics on Mondays in grade 9, and my teacher would ask me to sit in front right after entering the class because I always fell asleep.
– The gossip. We'd talk about everything.
– PT. Please, the best unit ever. I miss Tuesdays.
– MY ART TEACHER. I used to bully him and he'd let me. Love that old dude.
– Van times. We had a group, we'd wait for everyone to leave so we could play Kings.
– Singing all the time.
– One time, a class fellow lost his brother. We all cried with him.
– How I'd see my Chemistry teacher enter school and he'd laugh at my grimace every single day. I always used to tell him to take a goddamn break.

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I’ve noticed that air quality and light is so important!

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My ideal workspace isn’t all too bright. I have photophobia, so I’m sensitive to light. It shouldn’t be too dark either, otherwise I have to squeeze my eyes harder and that’s exhausting.

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I like a place that is not too quiet, but not too loud either, but if I really have to I can also work in loud environments.

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I don’t want a lot of movement around me, so I prefer to be in a desk cell or just a room remotely from other people.

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Besides that, I like to have a lot of place for movement. I implemented a lot of activities in my therapy sessions and I need to have the space (and the materials) for it. The cabinets at work are full of toys, games and other handy tools I can use to make our goals tactile and fun.

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I mean, look how cute these little figures are!

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I think everyone has negative thoughts from time to time - it is just part of being human and I know it might sound strange but sometimes I worry that I am not doing enough or being productive enough in my life. Or I will get caught up in comparing myself to others and feeling like I am not measuring up.

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But again, when these negative thoughts start creeping in, I try to take a step back and remind myself that everyone has their unique journey and pace. And instead of beating myself up over what I haven't accomplished yet, I focus on the things that are going well for me and take small steps towards my goals each day. It is not always easy to stay positive or keep those negative thoughts at bay but reminding myself of my worth and potential is something that helps me stay grounded even when things feel tough. 🌻

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Hm, I don’t know to be honest. Marriage isn’t the end goal of a relationship for me. I’d be happy if I just dated someone for the rest of my life, honestly. I mean, I know people in my family who never got married and just had one partner for their whole lives regardless. And it makes things a lot easier if you were to separate, you don’t need to worry about divorce and how messy that can be. 😅

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But, to give you some kind of answer, I’d say maybe 7-10 years? It seems like a reasonable amount of time, you get to have a lot of memories/experiences together, you really get to know someone well, likely get a chance to live together for a while, see how much of your goals, futures, etc, align, and so on. 🤔

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Now, I’m not in a relationship, so this could go right out the window in the future, but at the moment, that’s what I’m thinking. I just really want both my partner and I to be totally confident that this is the right decision for us. ☺️

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