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What is your goal in life? Wether that be personal, family or career?

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My greatest desire in life is to share my writing with the world, I want to publish a book of poetry someday. I want to improve my writing first before I publish anything. I am already good at what I do but I know I can be better, hence why I'm currently pursuing a degree in Creative Writing and English Literature.
My other goals include travelling the world, starting a family with my partner, and adopting a bunch of rescue animals!

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What is your goal in life Wether that be personal family or career

How do you not allow others to define you?

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1. I set boundaries.
2. I know my strengths and weaknesses.
3. I love myself and I know who and what I am.
4. I am not afraid of making mistakes, but I acknowledge my mistakes, take ownership of my mistakes, and then I correct my mistakes.
5. I set goals & objectives for myself and then I go about the task of working hard to achieve my goals & objectives and I do not allow others to interfere with my goals & objectives.
6. I never share my dreams with anyone except my wife.

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hi black where did you lost potter

While you’re trying to reach your goals there are people who will try to drag you down. There are some who will laugh at you. Don’t mind these people instead show them what you can do and prove that you can achieve your goals 💛

uhm no. why give a shit? how about focus on your goals, do it for you and never prove anything to those mariteses who aren't on your level. try to learn the art of not giving a fuck.

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What keeps you from being unstoppable?

I have 35 years experience of being an ENFP, and these are a couple of things Ive noticed about myself that keep me from taking over the world. Im not saying I really wanna put effort into changing these things, but if I did, there would be no stopping me. Moodiness - I get grumpy, but more than just the mood, I seem to be unable to hide the mood that Im in. My face and body language always gives me away, but at least I know it. Inevitably this shows itself in that I can go from being the life of the party one night, to "whats wrong with that asshole? hes a jerk" the next night, or even the same night if I get hungry or tired or tired of people. Money is meant to be spent - Only greedy people want to save money. I know that I am highly willing and wanting to spend money on experiences and things. So yeah I've got a great business, dont have to worry about money, but I know we could have more $$ in the bank if I wasnt me. My disdain of "networking" and small-talk - obviously Its because its so much BS , totally in-authentic, but no doubt its limited some opportunities in my life. Impatience - Ya know that thought right? Internal monologue : "Please stop talking cause I already know what youre gonna say and I can make your point better than you could, kill me now this meeting is so effing boring, and now everyone can see it on my face that I think this sucks". I hate getting bored of things that I love. I don't necessarily plateau as much as I see the end in sight and know that I could be an expert. I learn 90% of something and then I'm like okay so now all I have left are these few things to practice and then I've mastered it! Now that I've proven to myself that I could be the best, what else is there to do?
Big life goals. When I was younger, I had clear goals and most of my effort went into achieving them. I was so fucking happy. My life made sense. Now I 'know' that success is so relative it's become meaningless to me. Be a great artist? What does that mean? Being popular? Where, in my home town? On my continent? Among the 0.2% of people who actually care? Does it mean producing the highest quality art (totally relative)? Even if I somehow managed it, it would most certainly mean 99.9% of people wouldn't be able to connect to my work, and that includes 'art professionals', which is the whole point of being an artist in the first place. I've spent first 25 years of my life studying and making art, then I spent a couple of years just learning how to support myself, and now that I am actually able to do what I've always wanted to do, I'm not doing it. It's the only thing that instantly makes me happy precisely because it makes my life meaningful, but I can't for the life of me do it just to do it. It needs to be working towards something, and that something just isn't there. My memory is awful for things I wasn't engaged in, but spectacular for things I was.

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Do you consider yourself unstoppable?

There's nothing I can't do.
Along those same lines, I could really do anything. I got amazing grades in my engineering and math classes, top of my class in a top-50 world university. But I let my morality and pickiness rule when it comes to my job. I have turned down a number of amazing offers because I don't want to work in Defense, or I refuse to work for Big Petroleum. Classmates of mine who barely passed are taking these offers, and I'm left with a few low-paying options. Am I arrogant to think I'm above the system or that I can only work for an honorable cause? Yes. I look down at these people as cop outs. I should be happy for them making 80k out of college, but I'm not; I loathe them. I pity that they need to succumb to making weapons that kill people or destroying the earth to suck oil. But secretly I envy these people that they can blissfully collect their paycheck without single qualm. I should just suck it up and take a position like those, but how can I truly have pride in my job, when my core beliefs conflict with it? I have too much pride for what I believe in, and I need to stop being such an arrogant ass, care about my own success for once, and just go along with the system. I can't take responsibility for all of humanity's problems. Money. I've been loaded (for my standards) and perfectly miserable, I've been broke and ecstatic. So it means nothing. Except you can't have what you need, like free time or ability to do what you want if you don't have enough money. I still can't get myself to internalize this. If I have enough to pay the bills and buy food, I stop thinking about it, when even a 10% or 20% increase, which really wouldn't be that hard to achieve, would make a noticeable difference in my life. Reputation. I'm not impressed by most of the people I'm forced to interact with, and I can't get myself to care about their opinion. Putting even a little bit of effort would make my relationship with them better, which would make my life so much easier. Nope, still don't care. Big life goals. When I was younger, I had clear goals and most of my effort went into achieving them. I was so fucking happy. My life made sense. Now I 'know' that success is so relative it's become meaningless to me. Be a great artist? What does that mean? Being popular? Where, in my home town? On my continent? Among the 0.2% of people who actually care? Does it mean producing the highest quality art (totally relative)? Even if I somehow managed it, it would most certainly mean 99.9% of people wouldn't be able to connect to my work, and that includes 'art professionals', which is the whole point of being an artist in the first place. I've spent first 25 years of my life studying and making art, then I spent a couple of years just learning how to support myself, and now that I am actually able to do what I've always wanted to do, I'm not doing it.

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Do you do better keeping your dreams and goals to yourself when you're working on them?

I've gotten myself into trouble because I start doing projects/working on my business/making changes without telling my husband, and then I get frustrated when he asks me what I'm doing/can I hangout/can I help him, etc. I'm like don't you know I'm DOING SOMETHING when in reality I never even told him lol. It's almost like I don't want him to see the inbetween process of how I get to my goals? I just want to surprise him with the final product of whatever I was working on and be like TADA - you didn't know I was doing this but here it is and it's perfect! Or TADA - you didn't know I applied for this new job but I got it! (Maybe a bit extreme but I fly by the seat of my pants so it could happen). Like I can commit myself to a goal but once I put it out in the world it's like it becomes way too real and I get anxiety about it. And I talk myself into a never ending cycle of procrastination. So keeping things to myself helps a lot. The older I get the more I learn about myself and I truly am just a private person who thrives off of working alone. And my lovely family and husband have done the best job at growing with me to understand my quirks and to understand that I'm not trying to hide anything. What I find helps me manifest changes and get closer to my goals is to put it in the universe by writing it down, for only myself to see. In 2018 I wrote down a huge (what I thought was unrealistic) list of all of the things I wanted to do, and all the ways I wanted to grow, and I shoved it in my sun visor in my car. Whenever I open that thing - it's not too often, but often enough for a gentle reminder - that list falls on my lap. 10 out of 10 times I involuntarily unfold it and read it. It's like a little secret from past me saying how much better I'm going to be in the future, and then I remember the future is now and it subconsciously sticks in my mind how much progress I've made and how worth it is to keep working hard towards your dreams.

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So those of you who don't, have you ever had them? If so, what happened? Did they simply go away? If not, do you know what they feel like? Do you wish you had them? What do you have instead? Are you simply content with life as it is? Are you happy/miserable/apathetic?

I'll make plans to convenience others but I personally am happy to let it slip. And yeah, certain things. Im looking forward to the new pokemon next month but in the same breath I want to know what will cause the next great war. And aspirations. Null. I'll do things because it will make things better for myself (studying) but not because I long to do it.
I'm having this realization right now. I've graduated college and I'm stuck in a rut. No idea what I want to do with my life. I don't even really have hobbies. My bf is super passionate about cars and sometimes that can cause problems. I understand the idea of having dreams, but not the extent he'll go to pursue them.
It's aggravating and confusing at this point. I wish I could find something I'm truly passionate about but I haven't as of yet.
I just kind of go with the flow. I have an idea of what I want to do when it comes to my education and career, but I won't be disappointed if I don't achieve them. I obviously had dreams as a kid, but nothing extreme happened to make them go away. They just stopped. I'm content with how things are right now and wouldn't want them to change. I don't feel like I'm missing out on anything. I'd say I'm happy... I'm not miserable.
If we're talking about jobs/career, that kind of thing, I've never had any dreams. At first I thought there was something wrong with me because all through school all I ever heard was goals, dreams, blah blah. I never knew why they were talking about. No one ever tells you it's fine if you don't. To me, a job is what I do because I have bills to pay. My enjoyment time comes after work. I once asked my dad, a retired 30-year truck driver what he wanted to be when he was a kid. He said he's still trying to figure that out. Pretty quick I realized he was the same as me.
I have a great wife and kids, a decent house to live in and a 40-hour/week job. I just want to be comfortable lol. Money, power, prestige...what can I say? It just never interested me.
I don't have any high aspirations beyond graduating and finding some job which will give me the ability to live comfortably and independently. I just want to chill and tinker with my hobbies, goof off, and have enough money to not be constantly stressed and worried. My aspiration is to have a job which allows me to do these things, with enough money left over for a bit of travel and for an eventual retirement and old age. I would also like to one day find a life partner and/or have a child, perhaps--maybe. I'm pretty content on my own and doing my own thing as long as I can hang out with my friends and family every now and then. Dreams are what people have when they believe they have a predictable future. If I can't count on being able to function, then I can't hope to have anything that depends on that - my only option is to live in the present and hope for the best.

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Are you striving hard to reach all of your dreams and aspirations?

This is something to which I remain committed, and I pledge to redouble my efforts to do that, with the support of this body. But mine has confirmed that I should redouble my efforts to achieve the unachievable dream of being an actor.
I am determined to continue to step up efforts to equip the Organization and support Member States in their efforts to consolidate the respect for human rights, the rule of law and democracy. This is something to which I remain committed, and I pledge to redouble my efforts to do that, with the support of this body.
I used to have things I wanted to accomplish but as I worked towards them I would realize I didn't have enough talent or patience to achieve them. I basically just lost interest in those things and no longer pursue them. I've also been on a downward spiral for a couple of years since I lost the job I liked and was really good at. Now I kind of float through life and hope a better situation presents itself because I have no idea what to do with my life. I'm 36 with no passion or drive. Sucks some days.
I just live. I go to work and I hang out with my kid, and that's it. I didn't have any kind of guidance in high school, so no one really explained the process of getting into / going to college, so I had no desire to go. I've never had a career that jumped out at me. I kind of tripped into being a pharmacy technician. Luckily I love what I do now. When my husband proposed, I hadn't really ever thought of getting married. Not that I didn't want to, I just didn't care either way. And he wanted to have kids quickly, which I also didn't really care about. I got pregnant almost immediately after we got married. I absolutely adore my son but other than him, my job and a couple of friends and family, I live my life by the motto of "meh."
t seems like I used to have dreams or aspirations of something great for the future. I am 35 now and mostly just focus on being happy and finding importance in the little things. Perhaps fighting depression for most of my 20s brought all of this about. Having a daughter at 30 was the best thing that ever happened to me. All of the bullshit thoughts and fears of constantly failing at life seemed to just wash away. I was able to get of the prescriptions and start functioning like a normal person. As I am writing this she is dancing around the room in an Elsa costume and just looking at her gives me the greatest feeling of accomplishment, but it took me a lifetime of failure to get here. From childhood on I never had hope. I've never made goals. I knew that even though I could do some things very well, I'd never go far with them and I never followed through with them. I have a very difficult time following through on things I start, I am very very hard on me, and my general thought is that "there are so, so many people out there better than me."

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Greatest strength is not responding to those who consistently will to provoke you to bad things

Have you heard the expression: "birds of a feather flock together?"
Here are several examples to consider:
- Alcoholics hang out with alcoholics
- Drug addicts befriend other drug addicts
- Criminals enjoy each others company
- Marxists work together to advance their Marxist ideology
- Athletes associate with other athletes
- Teachers hang with other teachers
- Musicians play and work with other musicians
What's the point?
Humans pursue their own self-interests, and as a result tend to gather with and associate with other people with similar interests which might be positive or negative depending upon their goals and whether or not they intentionally hurt and destroy other people in the process of attaining their goals.
This is why it is imperative that people learn how to establish effective personal boundaries. For example, if I want to become a professional golfer, I cannot also hang out with drug addicts and alcoholics. To do so would result in me becoming a substance abuser which would ruin my ability to play golf and destroy my dream of becoming a professional golfer. And this reasoning applies to every goal and objective that you are attempting to achieve.
Young people are particularly vulnerable to "peer pressure" which is why my wife and I monitor our daughters activities, her friendships, her online activity and we keep her busy with art lessons, golf lessons, music lessons and performing in golf tournaments and playing violin with the youth symphony and in recitals.
Summary:
1. Personal Boundaries - Learn to establish personal boundaries to minimize the negative people and self destructive behaviors
2. Hobbies - become passionate about your hobbies and put forth your best effort into mastering those physical and mental skills required to become proficient.
3. Demand excellence from yourself and from those whom you consider to be your friends.
4. Do not associate with criminals and other people who seek to destroy rather than build or who hate rather than love or act cruelly instead of with kindness.
Remember, it is your life and you get to control who is allowed to become part of your life. Choose well!

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Greatest strength is not responding to those who consistently will to provoke

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Thoughts on a in-20s adult that is confused with what she wants in life?

I'm an in-40s adult who doesn't know what she wants in life other than to be healthy and happy. Here's a tip. Get a good job in any field and do well. Save most of your salary. Practice safe sex. That is enough to ensure you have the finances and life choices to support what you actually want to do when you figure it out. I recommend focusing on immaterial goals like a good family life and good health v. tangible things like a car or a house or climbing a career ladder.

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Perks of being you ???

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- You won’t do things to impress others
- You won’t let your private life out
- You won’t fall for people
- You won’t compete with anybody
- You’ll have good sleep
- You’ll be complacent with yourself
- You’ll be passionate about your goals
- You’ll keep plenty of secrets before you achieve your next milestone
- You won’t have worry about being the odd one out

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يا صديقتي ليڤا كان يستحقها، حرفياً ميسي سرقها

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بص يا اسطا كان ممكن أقولك صياحك أم كلثوم وأزيط بس مش هعمل كده مع أني منزلة شوية صور جامدة نفسي أرد بيهم😫 وكويس أنك بافاري علشان تستوعبني كويس نركن أم العاطفة في جمب ونقول الكلام اللي محتاج ريكورد ده:
ليفا يستحقها ؟ يستاهل واحده ؟ اه. ميسي يستحقها ؟ اه بالعقل الطبيعي جدا. مين بقى يستحقها اكتر ؟ المشكلة أننا كلنا باصين لليفا على مجهود سنتين ونص تقريبا لكن مين يستحقها 2021 ؟ ليفا غاب أربع شهور إصابة غالبا حقق بطولتين مع النادي ومحققش حاجة مع المنتخب متفوق على ميسي في أيه ؟ ( عدد الأهداف ودي خد عليها الجائزة المخصصة ليها وهي الحذاء الذهبي وأفضل هداف) على الجانب الآخر ميسي متفوق في جميع الارقام حرفيا ( الاسيستات ، رجل المباراة، الفاولات، أقل فرص ضائعة، تقييم في الماتشات ) كله حرفيا وممكن تدخل تعمل سيرش وتتأكد أيه اللي خلى ميسي ياخدها ؟ صعب مثلا على الصحفيين يا عيني أصله معاه 6 بس؟ لأ .علشان ((((الكوبا))))) اللي كله ناقشني فيها هنا وقولتلهم هتعمل الفرق ومحدش صدقني. مشكلتنا اننا أي لاعب يتألق فترة بنمجده وهو مفيش غيره زي فترة فان دايك كده و مودريتش برضو لو حسبتها هتقول خدها على أيه ؟ على أنهم شايفين أعظم أداء فردي أو مجتمعين أنه الأكثر تأثيرا السنة دي . بس ناسيين أن فيه عتاولة العظمة منهم شيئ طبيعي وشايفينه عادي زي ميسي وزي رونالدو برضو بس طول ما ميسي على قيد الحياة يستاهل دايما وده واقع مش مجرد حب مني لأنه مش لاعب واحد ده عشرة في بعض واخيرا دي ارقام ميسي السنة دي:
👕 56 games
🌟 58 G/A
⚽️ 41 goals
🅰️ 17 assists
🎯 5 freekick goals
🏅 28x MOTM
🥇 La Liga topscorer
🥇 Copa América topscorer
🥇 Copa América most assists
🏆 Copa América winner
🏆 Copa del Rey winner
🇦🇷 South America all time topscorer
اتمنى متكلمش في الموضوع ده تاني😫

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Do you consider yourself as a lucky person or unlucky?

YouuuBelongWithMe’s Profile PhotoRishiroxxx
I have never considered myself lucky or unlucky in my life.
I don’t believe in luck, but I believe in chance.
Those who believe in luck never go long because they never learn from their successes and failures.
I am a learned for life and I never allow any experience of my life go waste, either it is success or failure.
In fact, failures are better teacher than successes in life.
I have never failed in my life, though I have never also succeeded in life.
I believe that the world has no bias and it has no prejudice in favour or against.
I get what I deserve.
If I have failed to achieve my goals, it was neither due to my bad luck nor the people who could achieve the goal were lucky.
They succeeded because they were better than me.
Hence, I aim to make myself as good as I can and leave the rest to God who is the best judge for me and the rest of the humanity.
I accept whatever He gives because I trust His judgement more than my own.

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Do you consider yourself as a lucky person or unlucky

what hopes do you have for the remainder of the year 2021? are there any unfulfilled goals you wish to accomplish before 2022? (i sent this as a shout out, but also decided to send it as a personal question, too.)

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I have hopes the rest of the year can end peacefully and on a good note. Nothing specific comes to mind as to what I want to achieve by the end of the year. The goals I have in mind may take more than a month to achieve anyway. That way it can be a nice smooth transition into 2022, and not a rocky turbulent start.

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what hopes do you have for the remainder of the year 2021? are there any unfulfilled goals you wish to accomplish before 2022? (i sent this as a shout out, but also decided to send it as a personal question, too.)

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I’m hoping that things will stabilise with work; that I’ll be able to get a few more shifts in at the market and that we’ll get some more baristas at work, so things will begin to balance out a bit, shift wise!
I just need to work out how I’m going to fit everything in to when I’m not *working*, but I hope to get more work done for my mum’s business, finish off a piece of artwork, as well as start a course or two, which I’ve wanted to do for a long time. I’m not sure how realistic it is, but I’m going to aim for it, all the same! :)

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what hopes do you have for the remainder of the year 2021? are there any unfulfilled goals you wish to accomplish before 2022? (i sent this as a shout out, but also decided to send it as a personal question, too.)

poetalunam’s Profile Photoleigh ;
The rest of the 2021 will mostly comprise of continuing to reach for my goals. More house hunting, more driving lessons, more figuring out how I'm going to juggle everything next year. I really hope a rental comes through in the next fortnight - certainly before Christmas - but I'm not betting on it. I'll just have to throw a banger of a Christmas in 2022 to make up for it.
At least with @aclockworkbananna's move on Friday (!!!) and spending weekends with him, I'll have some weekly space away from my current environment to improve upon my mental health. I hope to use that time to prioritise my own needs for once and actually try to find a mental health team for next year; it's time to properly tackle years of bullsh*t.

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What’s some good life goals?

Being an inspiration to people
Travelling
Learning difficult skills
Publishing novels ^_^
Learning a new musical instrument
Drinking water everyday
Give up on junk food for a year
Get paid doing what you are passionate about
See your favourite band/singer live as often as you can
Always say yes to trying positive things
Going camping
Learning how to sing
Seeing a dentist or doctor regularly/when you need to
Exercise

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Should I live my life by planning out in detail every single day, or should I just sit back and follow my gut?

KeepYourEyesPeeled’s Profile PhotoLucas
If depends on how much structure you need. Everyone is different and there isn’t one method that works for everyone.
For me personally, I find long term more vague goals to work better, mixed with small daily scheduling for NEEDED responsibility.
So what I do is I have a 5 year plan I made when I was 22 with large goals like “change jobs, get married, buy a home, purchase and pay off a newer vehicle” and things of that nature. And I have a planner for day to day so that the must-do items I see and know when they need to be done. For anything that isn’t necessary, I go with the flow.
I think in depth planning often fails as things change at the drop of a hat and trying to replay everything all of the time becomes tiresome and a struggle. No planning at all can leave gaps where things get missed or overlooked. So for me, I have tried to create a happy medium system where there is some structure but also a lot of flexibility

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آپ نے زندگی سے کیا سیکھا؟

buttni_here’s Profile PhotoAmnah
Just focus on yourself and your goals, take care of yourself and your loved ones.
Health is really important take good care of both your physical and mental health no matter what.
Not taking risk is the biggest risk of all. You'll regret listening to others, even your parents. Follow your heart and don't listen to what anyone says.
There's so much more, I lived a very different life, never went to university, started working when I was 17, lost people I loved the most. Faced heath and financial issue.
Yes there's so much more.

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‏أكتر حاجه بتمناها الفترة دي ان حد يدخل حياتي ويحاول يعرف الحاجات اللي بتفرحني و يعملها ، حد يحاول يعرف دماغي وطريقة تفكيري ، يكون عنده نفس الطباع بتاعتي ، ويكون إحنا الاتنين عندنا نفس ال goals ونحاول نحققها مع بعض ، حد يستحمل سكوتي ، محتاج حد يكون شبهي في حياتي.

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انا عكسك خالص بالنسبالي الاختلاف هو روح العلاقة نبقي مختلفين ف اهتمامتنا وف تفكيرنا وحتي ف وسائل الترفيه اللي بنحبها يخليني اعرف واجرب حاجات جديده او احب حاجات مكنتش شايفاها قبله حد يرسم طموحاتي معايا اللي انا اصلا معرفهاش يبقي ع طول دماغه بتفكر ويخالفني الرأي ويقنعني ونبقي قادرين رغم الاختلاف نفهم بعض ونوصل لدماغ بعض لان الاختلاف هو الاختبار الحقيقي لنجاح العلاقة

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What kind of person are you?

I am a discreet and respectful person of your privacy so I expect the same in return. I'm the kind of person who gets to the cinema more than an hour before showtime. I get to the airport 5 hours before a flight. I keep extra socks, underwear, first aid supplies, chargers, and rain gear in my backpack at all times. I plan everything obsessively because I'm always convinced everything will go wrong and I must be prepared for everything. It sucks.
I'm the type of person that everyone assumes is an extrovert - I'm totally an introvert. I won't say anything behind your back that i won't say to your face- and at times that has been harsh for people - though they seem to like my honesty. I'm that guy who, when in my own little world, looks like he wants to kill everything. But as soon as you engage me in conversation, I am nice and chipper almost to the point of being creepy. I've been told I am too smiley too quick.
I come off as a go lucky type of guy , my life motto is " just smile and wave " . I'm a restless person , I'm studious ( mechanical engineer here ) , hardworking and concerned about my future . But I know where I'm heading towards , what my goals are, and more importantly that I'm content with my life . I'm 23 years old , and I just want to help others .That strange weird girl with a guy mentality and full of perverted humor. I've been called a guy before for my interest in video games, majoring in computer engineering, comics/manga, and my preference for dark beer. But I still fucking love dresses.
The kind of person that everyone thinks is happy and has a great life, makes jokes, looks good, while on the inside I want to run away from home and feel depressed for no reason i can find. I'm rather introvert, I like video games, mangas and animes. I love my cats. I'm usually rather quiet but can become giggly when in the right company.
I act cold and mean but in reality I'm just insecure and cannot interact with people properly.
I am weird as fuck. Often say things that lead to awkwardness on both sides. Then try to backtrack on what I already said, leading to more awkwardness. Then there is an awkwardness eruption when both sides are stumped as to what to say to end the interaction. And so I often avoid talking altogether, or I stick to very general subjects. Once things start getting personal, the awkwardness kicks in for me, and once it kicks in for me, the other person picks up on it and likely feels awkward. Then a vicious cycle entrenches itself with tension building on both sides.
I'm a huge pushover. I let people walk all over me and then I act like nothing is wrong. I bottle up anger and never tell them how I feel. Fucking hate it. I'm also a people pleaser, and am extroverted around my friends, but very shy when it comes to meeting new people.

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What are your insane goals? 👀

Finish my first novel fully. Get it noticed globally. Get the attention of directors and Hollywood. Get them to come with me with a deal and make it into a three part movie, that I’d be in too. Get another one of my novels that I’m going to write, made into an animation. Get rich, help Native American people get clean drinking water. Buy land and give it back. Give money to various charities. Help clean up the world by investing into cleaner ways of living. Clean up oceans is top priority too. I will do a lot of things. I just gotta push :)

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What do you think is worth waiting for? Why? 🕒 👍 🙃

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Getting the results of our goals usually takes time and it's worth the wait.
The right person with whom we live a reciprocal love with which we will end our life. The birth of our child.
Important things like that.
And mundane things in life such as cooking a dish.
Because in the end it's to get good things for us.

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Mau nanya buat kakak yg udah pada kuliah nih, klau misal seseorang nunda kuliah setahun itu ketinggalan berapa semester ya? Dan apakah cepet kuliah menjamin seseorang bisa lulus cepet? Sekian, terimah kasih.

menurut pendapat gue, selama belajar dan mencari ilmu ga ada yang namanya mengenal usia, mau tertinggal berapa pun semester ga masalah, gue saranin lu udah punya goals kedepannya untuk jangka panjang setelah selesai masa kuliah dan di masa kuliah nanti lu harus siapin dengan matang, dan satu lagi kalau setres ya jangan lupa piknik 😁

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How far in advance do you plan your trips?

It’s never silly to start reading up about the next place that you want to travel. 2-3 years is too far out to start reserving most accommodations. I just got back from Ireland this past April ( my 6th or 7th trip ). I would highly recommend checking out Slieve League, west of donegal. It’s three times higher than the cliffs of moher, and nobody goes there. You have it all to yourself, plus maybe a dozen other people. About to embark on a big trip with friends. Started planning about 14 months before departure date. International flight reservations made 11 months in advance. I have another trip in mind 2 years out and I'm just starting to think about some options for that one.
Stage I: “Hey, what would I like seeing there?” This takes place continuously. It’s not so much about planning a visit at a particular time, as just figuring out where I might want to go in the future, and what I could see while I was there.
Stage II: “Where am I going in six to eight months?” At this point, I start building potential itinerary outlines. I’ll say “if I spend X days here, I can see this, and this and this, but if I spend Y days, I can see this and this too.” I’m narrowing down dozens of possibilities into two or three potential trip outlines. Stage III: “Time to book.” This is three or four months before the trip, and this is where I actually book vacation and plane tickets and hotels. At this point, daily itineraries aren’t yet set, but I have a sort of ranked choice list of things to see and do. I could be like “OK, in Berlin in December for four full days, I want to see the Christmas markets, see museum island, see the major Cold War sites, visit nearby Potsdam,” and then figure out secondary things to see and do if my main goals take less time than expected or if something goes wrong. Stage IV: “No plan survive contact with the enemy.” I’ve arrived, I’ve got my plan, and it all goes wrong. Notre Dame catches fire, I get bit by a dog, it’s pouring rain to a degree that makes hiking around outside impractical, I missed my train and now I’m spending the night in an unexpected city, etc. Stuff happens. Fortunately, I have my backup list of things to see and do, and there’s a lot of night before and even day of route switching to get the most out of the trip. Depends on when I get my Scott's Cheap Flight lol. On average I usually start making my itinerary 2-3 months out. Too far out and the info might become outdated, and too soon means I'm rushing and might miss things. I have a vague list of the next 3 regions I want to visit in the next few years, and sometimes read up on them when I have free time and feeling curious. Would even look at logistics to see whether the trip is doable by train, solo, or require a car, etc.

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Fav honeymoon place ? 😍

dream - DREAM HONEYMOON PLACE should be your question.
fav means when you have been there (you lived a moment before) before for a particular reason.
i don't think i would drool to go somewhere out of the country. for a honeymoon.
send me anywhere. i should be just away from people.
as honeymoon concept is to explore your partner good and bad - HABITS. (what you thought first is just 2-5% of perks of this trip).
with No family pressure, no responsibility for day, week or month, just to give new couple a private space so they can know each other well, and set goals and rules they'll follow for rest of their life.
but here honeymoon is all fantasy. 🌚🥀

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How has your personality changed in recent years?

I've only been here for about 6 years so I personally have the advantage of very little history to hang over my head. I try and protect that. In a past life I was super non-committal, lived in a big city and travelled a lot just doing whatever. I'm kinda addicted to change but I hit a wall where travelling was fun but I had no roots and no actual investment of time or energy in one spot. This left me feeling unfulfilled with my freedom. So I bit the bullet and landed. Last six years have been dedicated to building a business and art. Staying still is the hardest thing I've ever done. Letting people count on me, etc. I still try about once or twice a year to get away though and take a lap.
I've become more accepting of the wrongs and bad events in my life. Before, I used to complain that God or the universe or whatever wasn't being kind towards me or just didn't care about me enough. Now I when ever something bad happens, I just accept it. I have a "this was meant to be" type attitude now.
I used to think that achieving goals would lead to happiness and satisfaction, and that if I worked hard I'd be rewarded. Now I know that there is a natural order to the world and I should just leave it alone. Better to coast along at a constant rate of depression than to strive to bring myself up only to fall hard from whatever height I achieve. I went from being a totally anxious person who couldn't deal with people at all and who worried all the time to someone who's just totally laid back and I'm fine talking to people now, I'm far less awkward. It's hugely liberating. I think it just kind of got to a point where I was so sick of it that I stopped giving two shits and it helped immensely, although I also had a job where I had to call people daily who I didn't know to get help on something or other. I've become a far more loving person towards the whole of society (an optimist, when it comes to having hope in humanity), while simultaneously becoming more and more reclusive when it comes to interacting with people one on one. I don't like parties, I just like my circle of friends, and I'll stick with them, thank you very much.
I've become way more comfortable talking to people. I was always labeled the shy/quiet kid in school, and it really became a self-fulfilling prophecy for many years.
A few years ago I decided for the sake of my career to get out of my comfort zone and do some networking, and I've discovered I actually enjoy meeting/talking to new people, and I'm nowhere near as shy as I thought. I have become less forgiving of other peoples laziness and excuses. I know it comes from my increasing responsibilities at my job but it leaks into my home life with my kids, my wife and friends even when I know it is happening and try to control it.

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Thora Sa Motivate Hi Kardo Yaaarr! 😔👉🏼👈🏼

Don’t let the reality of life destroy your dreams. Don’t give up. You owe it to yourself to never let go of your dreams, goals or hopes. They give meaning to your life. That’s why you’ve held on to them for so long. You know you’ve tried your level best and put up the best fight anyone could have ever asked of you. Even when your closest supporters stopped believing in you, and walked away, you gathered your strength . Keep going till you succeed. Otherwise you have suffered, and struggled for nothing. After spending the time you have already, suffering from whatever pain it has brought, it would be such a waste to just give up.

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