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In your opinion, what do humans dream, and what exactly is their nature?

zaidwali915’s Profile PhotoZaid Wali
I think humans are always after something in life, it's a constant struggle that they want to make their life better and there's nothing wrong in it, but sometimes we don't realise that we already have a lot and we need a little appreciation for what we have already achieved rather than bashing ourself for what we don't/can't have.

If you haven't found your soul mate someone to share your life with at the age of 29. Do you reckon you're the issue

I think it’s possible to find love at any age, and perhaps it’s not always realistic to find it in your twenties due to life circumstances. That’s an awful lot of pressure, and everyone is still predominantly finding their own way. We all collectively have our own timeline, it’s not a race to accomplish societal milestones by a certain time. Some folk “achieve” these very young, with others it may take decades, but there’s nothing wrong with that. If anything, taking longer means you’re likely wiser and have more life experience :)
I’m not sure if you meant this question in general or actually towards me, but I’m self aware enough to know how I can continue to heal, to learn from any mistakes in the past and be the best version of myself :)

If you for whatever reason moved away from the country where you currently live, what things would you miss the most? ✈️😕

TobbeAsks’s Profile PhotoTobbe
At first, it is exciting. You don't really think about missing anything. What you do think about is this new, exciting life and environment you're about to have. Everything smells different, tastes different. Feels different. You feel like a completely different person.
And theeeen it starts piling up on you. Like a blanket that's full of rocks. Heavy. You feel like you're suffocating and don't belong there. You miss the wind, the trees, the grass. Everything. You miss the freedom you had in your own country - the familiarity. You feel alone, misunderstood, and judged. In your own defence, you start to misunderstand and judge others as well.
In the end, it gets so worse that you don't even want to leave the house anymore. Although it wasn't as bad as you think, it's very hard mentally. The vivid dreams you start having of eating foods they don't have. The memories keep coming back. It feels like someone pulled out your tooth and you keep touching the empty space.
Now, moving back is another thing. You're excited to go back. Like you're stepping away from that dep.res.sive place you hated so much - the place you didn't belong in.
BUT, you've come to realise that you can also miss the place that you didn't belong in. The pizza, the environment itself. The excitement of the country you know nothing about. Even though when you've spent years there and realised why you ha.ted it so much, the best thing was to enjoy the moments - all of them.

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Should Imran Khan be released or not?

Bhai araam se betho.
Hes waiting for his turn, you should also have patience.
This shit show is running since the era of Ayub Khan, nothing new.
Btw people complaining about establishment should know every country does have a deep state and they control everything.

What's something you learned since the start of this year?

zaidwali915’s Profile PhotoZaid Wali
One can suffer serious consequences if they forget to be grateful, and are always whinning about things.
And that nothing is in my control. Deep down, I knew it, that even my life is not in my control. I can want things a certain way but I can't make things happen. But one forgets when things happen in their favour often. And then they are humbled when everything they worked for is taken away. Khair.

im off my socials and he randomly hits up my number with, “thinking about you.” very tempting, but does this mean he’s desperate? or does it mean nothing but y’know…?

Maybe he just needs someone to talk to and he thought of you because he feels comfortable with talking to you the most or he might’ve thought about you and wanted to let you know that you’re on his mind (if you two have a history together) in hopes of reconnecting.

I’m so glad for summer

I usually dread summer breaks because I’m almost always home and doing absolutely nothing productive while also not going on a vacation. I made the mistake of not taking any summer classes when I could’ve but I’m ok with it for now. I wish we traveled more as a family during the summertime so I could keep myself entertained.

Какое самое нелепое оправдание вы когда-либо использовали, чтобы увильнуть от чего-то? What’s the most ridiculous excuse you’ve ever used to get out of something?

Morgen_muffel’s Profile PhotoMorgen_muffel
It wasn’t that ridiculous as other students also left school on that particular day due to a man that the police were trying to catch being on the loose and because of that, the school was notified and some parents started picking up their kids. Later on, when there was no threat, I told the school counselors that I wanted to make a call to my mom so my mom could pick me up from school. They all looked at me like I was crazy and told me that there’s nothing to worry about anymore. I still called my mom tho and she came to pick me up from school.

Hi guys, I'm from Serbia but I recently moved to Slovakia. I was wondering if there are many taylor swift fans and haters here. In my town, I was known as a massive swiftie and I'd like to know if I'll be judged for listening to her here (I've met quite a few haters already). Thanks for answers 😄

Hi, no, In Slovakia is also a lot of listeners and fans of TS. Everyone has a different taste in music. In my opinion it's not relatable to judge people for listening some genre or an artist. Don't be sad. It's normal, you can listen whatever you like ;) I don't listen to her but I don't mind listening some of her songs in radio or something. Some people may gudge you but you should not take it personal. Its just theit opinion. Nothing else. 😀

Is homosexual attraction immoral? Can a person with that attraction free themselves of the Sin?

There is nothing sinful about an attraction to another adult, regardless of their gender, it is a lie sold to us that our basic human functions are bad and we should discard such lies and just live our lives, love adults of whichever gender we please, and try to make the world a better place

What do you think hurts more? Losing someone to death or losing them in this world?

gawnferal’s Profile Photohudیٰ
Is this a joke? Nothing compares to losing a loved one to death.
You’re not going to see them again even accidentally. They’re literally 6 feet under the ground, not somewhere in the world doing better (or worse.)
I lost my aunt to covid 4 years back. The last messages she sent me, a random voice note that i still have, means everything to me.

What do you think about Gun violence in your country?

I have always been taught to try to look positively at things. Believe it or not, I'm a pretty positive guy. I sit there every year and think, fuck, so close to breaking the record from the previous year. Only a few more now.
A record is a record, right? We Swedes, as long as we have a reason to party, we take it. "Did I hear a fucking record somewhere? Let's fucking celebrate!" But last year, I almost fucked it up.
My friend and I were doing that dance from the video below. God, don't even ask me about it. I feel so embarrassed. I was drunk, OK. OMG, all the flashbacks are coming back now😬
Let me try to bring myself together here. As we danced, my friend asked me why we had that party because we had only tied the record. I heard that, and I immediately stopped dancing. He kept going on like nothing, though. He told me I shouldn't feel too bad about it. That's when I replied to him that I didn't. At least not over that. But for this. Then I shot him in the leg.
They lowered the music, and everyone looked tensely at each other. We had that awkward silence there for a while. Everyone except for my friend, though. Then I screamed: "NEW RECORD, BABY!" We all cheered, turned up the music and kept dancing again. The rest of us did, at least. Don't feel sorry about my friend. He was a shitty dancer, so I would probably have done it anyway.
Next week, we will celebrate the mid-season fraud record. After that scam a few nights ago, I think we are one up from the previous mid-season. Poor lady. I tried to cheer her up by inviting her to the party, but she said she couldn't afford shit right now.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FzG4uDgje3MMrjensa’s Video 174078204003 FzG4uDgje3MMrjensa’s Video 174078204003 FzG4uDgje3M

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What do you think hurts more? Losing someone to death or losing them in this world?

gawnferal’s Profile Photohudیٰ
I have lost people to death, I have lost people in life.
If you truly love someone and lose them, but they are alive, healthy, and happy, it gives you some.. sort of relief yk. It doesn't hurt so much because they are happy, the part that sucks in the beginning is that they are happy without you, but with time, you just want their happiness and health. Nothing else matters. The pain subsides with time.
Death... however... and knowing that your loved one died a painful death.. and you could do nothing about it.. and realizing the fact that life is never in our control.. our loved ones suffer and die, and we can do nothing but watch them go through that pain. It leaves a lasting impact on our mind. The pain remains there. Always.
Losing someone in life is less painful for me because if one is consistent with their efforts, and the other person agrees too, things can go back to how they were. It takes time, patience, and efforts, but a bond can be repaired. But one can't bring someone back to life.

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Talk about anything random

You do so much for someone & get so little or nothing in return. You are right there for someone when they are in need, yet you are avoided when you are needy. You pick their calls at 3 am in the morning & console them & help them have a peaceful sleep, yet you don't even get a callback & have a miserable sleepless night. You may defend their actions every single time, but one wrong action from you is heavily penalised You won't even look at your schedule if they need to talk, & they will look at their schedule & then decide if they can talk. You may give them a lift in your car totally going out of your way, yet they may not even walk a mile for you. You may try to make them comfortable by leaving your comfort zone, & they are too rigid to change for you. You get happy at their littlest of achievements, & they never pat your back for the same.
This happens in friendships, relationships, workplaces, families where we keep giving & giving & not get reciprocated. It hurts.
It hurts because you seek reciprocation from the creation, instead of the Creator, & therein the cause of your pain lies. Doing good & expecting people to do good to you will leave you disappointed. But doing good & expecting good from ALLAH, will never disappoint you. Allah is noticing everything from your tiniest of efforts, to your big sacrifices, the pure & selfless love that you carry in your heart, the sincere intentions in your heart. He knows. Do it, to expect a reward from Him, do it for His sake, do it because the world may not see but He does. If you do this, your heart won't feel heavy. <3

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What makes your time meaningful?🤔🤩

MehrAR’s Profile PhotoAR Mehr
Finding joy in small moments can make all the difference when it comes to making my time feel meaningful. Whether it is enjoying a cup of tea or my fave food or just spending quality time with my loved one or even when we ain't simply doing nothing, just comfortable silence, those little pockets of happiness can add up over time and create an overall sense of contentment and fulfillment. So I suppose you could say that for me, meaning comes from connection, creativity, and appreciation for life's simple pleasures. 🌻

What has been on your mind lately?

tristanandiseult3’s Profile PhotoMarie Curiosity
Well, what's been killing me, is the pig-headedness of 'the WEST' , as at: (17:39) FRIDAY, 07.06.24.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=izPGwY1262sigotamatch’s Video 174218477434 izPGwY1262sigotamatch’s Video 174218477434 izPGwY1262s ~
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YQmwkvLRj6Iigotamatch’s Video 174218477434 YQmwkvLRj6Iigotamatch’s Video 174218477434 YQmwkvLRj6I ~
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lOsW84wYdzgigotamatch’s Video 174218477434 lOsW84wYdzgigotamatch’s Video 174218477434 lOsW84wYdzg ~
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-fJtzsKraLgigotamatch’s Video 174218477434 -fJtzsKraLgigotamatch’s Video 174218477434 -fJtzsKraLg
~ I hope these sample, clarify & waken up to the perilous precipice that our idiot 'leaders' are pushing us over ~ all for nothing save oblivion ~ just look at SOONAK's disrespect on Brit-D-Day

What's the best / worst thing about what you do? Like your job, what you study etc. 💼📚

TobbeAsks’s Profile PhotoTobbe
The best part of Cosmetology for me, hands down, is how fulfilling it is to help someone achieve a style/look that makes them feel like the best version of themselves, that hopefully instills more confidence, self esteem, etc. Also, how intimate it is to spend time, one on one, with a client. There is so much opportunity for conversation and connection. I love that part of what I do so much! It almost feels like you have friends coming to visit, and you can just catch up. 🥹
Also, can’t beat someone saying “You made me feel like ME again.” I’ve had that happen before, and that could easy be the most heartwarming thing I experience. Hair is deeply connected to a lot of people’s identity, and to me, nothing tells me I’m doing my job correctly, than someone having a response like that. ☺️
The worst part is how the beauty industry as a whole, profits off self-hatred, and how it continues to promote harmful products/procedures to “fix” it. And certain people, as well as major brands have figured out exactly the way to capitalize off of it. They target people, and they are unfortunately really good at marketing those products. 🤢 Also, just how much toxic beauty standards infiltrates media, social media, etc, and shapes young people’s view on what beauty is supposed to look like. A lot of it sends the message that beauty is purely skin deep, and that the only thing that matters is your outward appearance. Of course, this seriously impacts young people’s confidence, self-worth, etc. I think it’s sad, unnecessary, and disgusting. 😅 I could go on and on, but I think I covered the main things I wanted to say!

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Whats the best  worst thing about what you do Like your job what you study etc

What are you thinking right now?

l217062’s Profile PhotoScrambled thoughts
I'm drifting
There's nothing here but distance
There's no one here to listen
Perfect vision
It's hard to trustinmy position
I can'tforget what's been forgiven
Cause I justneed an escape
I pray I find my way
Before I suffocate
I've been lost for some time
And I just can't get out my mind
I feel like I've been trapped inside
I know I'll never make it home
My demons won't leave me alone
But I have to live this life I chose
Disconnected 🎶
What are you thinking right now

Speak about ur favorite person 🌚♥️

samamohammed88535’s Profile PhotoSämä♡
Actually I don’t have only one favorite person, I have a lot of friends and people in my life that I consider as “My favs”.
I’ve a very cute little family who takes care of me very well. I’ve friends .. a real friends who loves me just exactly like I love them. Monopolizing one person as my favorite would be unfair to the rest of the people in my life. I just love everyone who exists in my life and loves me for nothing 💜.

What are the major changes you noticed when you stepped into adulthood?

princesssnowy786’s Profile PhotoBy naam rehny do :)
As a kid, I was told that I'll be respect when I will become an adult. But now that I am in my mid-twenties, I realized that there is no guarantee to be respected even as an adult. Not unless you are bringing something on the table, or you're married. 💀 So, no major changes. Still treated like a kid who knows nothing. Guess that's the disadvantage of being the youngest at home.

Have you ever lost friends simply because you naturally drifted apart? No drama, arguments, or anything like that —just gradually stopping talking until you lost contact?

Yes. I'm not a very social person & haven't been since my mom & grandma died, I've drifted a part from a lot of people. Nothing intentional or personal something in me just broke & I just don't have it in me to be overly social anymore.

Do you think it's a red flag when someone is very vocal about their hatred for kids? I admit I used to be like that when I was edgy and trying to be cool in my early 20s. I still don't want to be a parent, but I think hating kids is weird. Like why are you, a grownass adult, beefin' with kids wtf

Yeeep. There is nothing wrong with not wanting kids, nothing wrong with not particularly liking kids even, but to be so aggressively anti-kids to the point of spewing hatred against them for no other reason than them being kids is too far.

How often do you procrastinate? 😇

redoasis2017’s Profile Photo★ ☮ ♫ ᵀᵉⁿᵃᶜⁱᵒᵘˢ ᵀᵒᵐᵐᵃʸ™ ▩ ♚ ☻
I did a witty & entertaining , and highly informative, well thought out reply . . . . yes, with lots of, lashings of humour .
Nothing offensive at all ~ yet it was unceremoniously REMOVED . . . . . no warning , no threats ~ proving it was unoffensive . . . .
But , under the mysterious ways of asker . . . . it was removed , meaning a certain person with learning difficulties whined . . . . .
How did you , READER , (as well as the asker) feel ? - Did it frighten YOOO ? ! (if you saw it!)
Yes, it had some typos , but nothing too complicated . . .
So, I leave you with the ultimate PROCRASTINATION ~ you will now have to wait forever , forever . . . .
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XHcIkzT42sUigotamatch’s Video 174214546554 XHcIkzT42sUigotamatch’s Video 174214546554 XHcIkzT42sU

Nothing is better thn ...........? ✨

Ayesha0a’s Profile PhotoAyesha0a
Praying in the rain...Uff yesterday I was praying Asar in masjid's yard nd it started raining,it was so peaceful♥️✨🌟
Or like when u r so tired nd u go to masjid nd rest ur back with one of the pillars nd close ur eyes...That feeling just freshens u up✨🌟🌟🌟

Do u believe in love? Or you're mature enough to know there is nothing like "love" in this world.

mahnoorjadoon7’s Profile Photo✨ E N C H A N T R E S S ✨
I’m mature and I believe love exists everywhere. If there is something negative, it should be took wrong and corrected accordingly. Negativity and hate is not okay. Love is normal, hate is not. Surround yourself with kind and loving people and you’ll start again believing love.

The moment froze like it happens in the movies, Prayed for you to see my eyes for just one time. They were enough to tell you how madly i am in love with you.

Its a misery to be entangled in the thoughts of the person who gives you nothing but that ache of unrequited love.💔
If the other person couldn't even see the reflection of that love in your eyes then may be it wasn't meant to be. I hope you get over whatever you are going through. InshaAllah✨ Just keep your faith in Allah.
'Indeed He is the best of planners.' 😇🌺

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