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🌷 My answer is not exactly what you've asked, but more like why I don't have a Q which I have not found an answer to.

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I am in a point of my life where I'm contented with whatever is blessed to me.... that includes information. If it doesn't concern me, then I leave it be. There's a saying, "Ignorance is a bliss", if one does not knowany information that does not concern them, one does not have to worry about it.

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Sometimes there are things that we don't have to know for our own good. And this reminds me of the story when Adam (a.s.) and Hawwa was tempted and enticed by Iblis to eat from the Tree of Knowledge that was forbidden for them to eat from. After eating from the tree they've realised they were naked and felt shame.... malice sprouted in their minds. Somehow their innocence was gone.

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And like what I've shared from one of my answers here before, I felt that I've lost my innocence when I've learned negative things from what I've seen others do. It's either I've observed or experienced it personally from them (being treated unfairly / unjustly). Subconsciously, I've been unwillingly given ideas about wrong behaviours which I've never thought of before.... like how it's done by other people. And I have to constantly remind myself that just because I can do it too, it doesn't mean I should copy them. So, I listen to my conscience and follow my own moral compass to stand on what I believe is right.

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I used to be curious, but I've realised I don't need to know everything, especially things that doesn't concern me. And whatever I do need to know.... it'll come to my knowledge somehow. Allah would make sure of it, as it has happened to me many times already. I do get informations in mysterious ways.... like in a dream, flashes of a scene or images, etc., which helped me to have discernment in making decisions and how to deal with people in my life. It was weird but I am grateful for it, alhamdulillah😊

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0642*2024*13*06

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I don’t know who needs to hear this but, get up and try again. If you keep falling into the same sins, repent once more. If you’ve been lazy with salah, start praying from now. If you’ve given up on making du’a, start again. It doesn’t matter how many steps you’ve taken away from Allah, it only takes 1 step to turn back to Him. We all slip at times, but I need you to pick yourself back up. Allah sees how hard you try, your efforts are never wasted. Allah responds to everyone. He responds to those who never stop asking, who don’t give up, those who show Allah beautiful patience and a strong tawakkul. He responds because He is The Most Merciful and Loving Lord, who wants to see how deep my servant can go in his tawakkul in Me. He will respond to you, never forget He is Al Mujeeb: The One who responds. 🌷

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Jedną z moich ulubionych postaci jest Gandalf z "Władcy Pierścieni" J.R.R. Tolkiena🌟📚
Gandalf to postać, która fascynuje mnie na wielu poziomach. Jego mądrość, odwaga i zdolność do inspirowania innych sprawiają, że jest wyjątkowym bohaterem. Posiada cechy, które podziwiam i do których sam dążę. Jego postawa i działania są przykładem dla wszystkich, którzy stają przed trudnymi wyborami i wyzwaniami🧙‍♂️🌠
Gandalf jest znany ze swojej ogromnej mądrości i wiedzy. Jego zdolność do przewidywania wydarzeń i głębokie zrozumienie świata czynią go jednym z najważniejszych doradców w Śródziemiu. Zawsze ma odpowiedź na trudne pytania i potrafi znaleźć rozwiązanie nawet w najbardziej skomplikowanych sytuacjach. Jego mądrość przypomina mi, jak ważne jest ciągłe poszukiwanie wiedzy i rozwijanie swoich umiejętności🌍🔍
Gandalf nie boi się stawić czoła niebezpieczeństwom, nawet jeśli oznacza to narażenie własnego życia. Jego walka z Balrogiem w kopalniach Morii jest jednym z najbardziej epickich momentów w literaturze fantasy. Ten akt odwagi i poświęcenia pokazuje, że prawdziwa siła nie tkwi tylko w mocy fizycznej, ale także w gotowości do poświęceń dla dobra innych🏞️🔥
Gandalf jest mistrzem w inspirowaniu i wspieraniu innych. Jego słowa i działania motywują bohaterów do przekraczania własnych granic i do podejmowania trudnych wyzwań. Jest mentorem dla Froda, Aragorna i wielu innych postaci, pomagając im odkryć ich prawdziwy potencjał. Jego umiejętność w prowadzeniu innych przez trudne czasy jest inspirująca i przypomina mi, jak ważne jest wsparcie bliskich💬🌠
Gandalf to także postać pełna symboliki i głębi. Reprezentuje nadzieję, odrodzenie i transformację. Jego przemiana z Gandalfa Szarego w Gandalfa Białego symbolizuje triumf dobra nad złem i odnowę duchową. Ta symbolika jest uniwersalna i przemawia do mnie na wielu poziomach, przypominając o możliwości zmiany i odnowy w naszym życiu 🕊️🌟
Niektóre z jego cytatów są niezwykle inspirujące i pełne mądrości. Na przykład:
"All we have to decide is what to do with the time that is given us." - Ten cytat przypomina mi, jak ważne jest, aby dobrze wykorzystywać czas, który mamy, i podejmować decyzje, które kształtują nasze życie.
"Even the smallest person can change the course of the future." - To pokazuje, że każdy, niezależnie od swojej pozycji czy siły, ma potencjał do dokonywania wielkich zmian.
Podsumowując, Gandalf jest moją ulubioną postacią z powodu jego mądrości, odwagi, zdolności do inspirowania innych i głębokiej symboliki, którą niesie ze sobą. Jego postać jest dla mnie źródłem inspiracji i przypomina mi, jak ważne jest dążenie do mądrości, odwagi i wsparcia dla innych😊🌟

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Oo this is a hard question. An interesting one, though. The first thing that came to mind was when I admitted myself to the hospital. It changed my life for the better as I met some amazing people and managed to get a bit healthier. I wouldn't have been given electroconvulsive therapy, got my BPD diagnosis and had animal therapy if it wasn't for being in hospital. I don't know where I would be right now if it wasn't for the ECT. It literally saved my life. However, there were some issues. I was treated really badly by the staff there. They would make rude comments towards me, laugh at me and ignore me when I was injured. I caught some of it on video and they threatened me and bullied me into keeping quiet. I feel so sorry for anyone else who had to go through what I did. Overall I'm glad I went into hospital, as I did get better in the end. Like I say, I might not have even been alive now if it wasn't for the ECT.

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🌷 Every creation has it's purpose and role to fulfil in this dunya.

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I reckon what makes life meaningful is when we get to live our purpose. To me, based on what I've observed.... it's being in service for others, for the sake of Allah (swt). Like with my maternal grandmother's life, she wasn't expected nor planned to be conceived by my great-grandmother, who was already menopaused and had 11 children, masha'Allah. My grandma was the 12th child, and there was a big age gap between her and her older brother (11th child). When my grandma was born, nobody knew why was she conceived despite my great-grandma was already menopaused, but Allah is the best of planner.

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In my grandma's lifetime, she had delivered more than thousands of babies. Some of them were from poor families. Sometimes, she goes home and takes some of her own food supplies to give to the patient who had just given birth, because she got nothing to eat at home. My grandma was beloved by many people. I've seen it with my own eyes. Often she brings me along with her when she does postnatal check-ups. Her patients or the babies she had delivered (after they grew up and got a job) had given her gifts or payment when they were able to after some years. They still have not forgotten her.

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Her name was Theodosia, which means God's gift. She has been a gift of hope for those who were in need and she had lived up to her name, masha'Allah. I think that's a perfect example of living a meaningful life. Alhamdulillah.

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Yk what's hard? Believing that even if they don't accept you, it is not the end of the world. :)
You don't need the acceptance or validation of people to live your life. Be who you are, stick to your morals, express your opinions, and the right ones will stick around without judging you. Not saying that one shouldn't take other's opinions into account. Allah has given us a brain, Alhamdulilah. We know how to distinguish between the right and the wrong. The strongest of the people are those who have the guts to admit that they are in the wrong. The ones who realize their mistakes, and wrong ways. If you have someone in your life who makes you realize things without judging you or degrading you, you're blessed.
The point being, people will come and go. If you are on the correct path, the ones who are worth it, will stay, without making their existence a burden.

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Start small.

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1-listen/recite to quran.
For starting just one verse, take it to as much as u could.

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I do listen to surah baqarah every day.

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2- keep doing astgfar.
Whenever you remember start reciting, must be 100 times laterdont count.

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3- try to stay clean.
Dirt and staying attracts bad energies they are the reason you cant force you to be a good muslim.

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4- distance yourself from things of misuse.
Each day challenge yourself for not commiting a sin, from bigger ones narow down to nearly invisible sins.

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5- spend your time learning.
We do research even before watching a movie, buying a mobile a car, so reasearch about things you want to clear.

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6- read watch listen.
Read about people who helped our Prophet(saww) read about struggles,watch series related to them make sure the entertainment leaves you with some knowledge.

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7- start switching.
No seasons, watch documentaries.
No voulger chats, start reading and writting the information you collect each day.

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If this seems hard, or time taking, or this irritates you know something beside you doesnt likes it.

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The war is yours. That thing isnt powerful it just knows you have given up on yourself. 🙃

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Plentyyy but i remember i used to be the only one in 4-5th grade who used to listen to metal/rock and i had given up on making a friend who had similar taste as i did. There was this classmate of mine who's older brother listened to metal. One day it was the first period and he entered the class and sat right next to me and whispered into my ear "toney children of Bodom ko sunna ha?" It's a death metal band. I was like yeaaah broo. He basically liked rock and roll which is not the same as metal. His favorite band was guns and roses and we were all time debating if metal is better or rock and roll. I was a metallica fan and we almost debated daily with each other that our favorite bands are better 🤣🤣 fast forward i met him few years at a reunion and i said to him "you're listening to Nusrat nowadays?" He was shocked to know that how did i known it. Basically my cousin from whom I got into metal also started listening to nusrat and i thought this can happen too anybody lol but i had so many instances like that i can go on and onnn 🤌😎

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