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♡Каждому, по факту, рядом нужен человек, но бывает так, что одиноким лучше всех♡ А как вы переносите одиночество?🌠

whitelila’s Profile PhotoЛилия Белая
I don't have and never have had friends. And although I communicate with a large circle of people, only my adoptive parents are truly close to me. But we live in different cities, I’m in London, they’re in Washington. Therefore, most often my loneliness is brightened up by my sex partners or simply people with whom I am interested in communicating.
Каждому по факту рядом нужен человек но бывает так что одиноким лучше всех
А как

Indeed ikr which is why I hate the thought of being FWB’s or ONS with someone!

There was a guy who would verbally degrade me and he told me he was in a FWB situation and that the girl he was with got into a serious relationship with someone else and what they had came to an end. He was planning on getting with her twin but luckily she knew better and refused. He also mentioned how he wanted to get with older women who are like 30+ that he happened to meet at the hotel he worked at. He ended up ghosting me for months just to come back being disrespectful all over again while he was most likely “busy” talking to someone else online and he even admitted that he was mean to the other girls he’d interact with. I wouldn’t consider myself as one of the girls considering I was still an adult at the time and only kept talking to him out of loneliness and the hope that he’d be nice to me like he was at the start. Thankfully, I never met him in person and kept his number blocked after dealing with such an immature guy like him. Can you believe it if I told you he once said, “Idk what you women would do without us men”? It’s a shame he was a 19 year old boy acting like a brat.

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What makes you more vulnerable? Darkness or light? Lonely nights or shouting crowds? Yourself or strangers? Silence or noise? Past or future? Trust of skepticism? Acceptance or rejection? Change or stability?

For me personally, I would say that darkness makes me feel more vulnerable than light - cause when it is dark, you don't know what might be lurking around the corner or behind you – but at the same time, shouting crowds can also make me feel exposed and overwhelmed by all the noise and chaos surrounding me. As for loneliness versus social situations - both can trigger feelings of vulnerability in different ways. When Iam alone at night, my mind tends to wander and dwell on negative thoughts or fears, which can make me feel very vulnerable emotionally. On the other hand, being surrounded by lots of people in a crowded space can also create a sense of unease if I don't feel like I belong or am comfortable with those around me. And in terms of trust versus skepticism - while trust is important for building strong relationships with others and feeling secure in yourself overall; skepticism has its place too since healthy doubts help us avoid getting taken advantage of by others who may have ulterior motives that we are not aware of yet and acceptance versus rejection is another dichotomy where both offer benefits as well as drawbacks since acceptance allows us to be open-minded while rejection provides opportunities for growth through self-reflection about our behavior towards others. And about change versus stability could either lead to uncertainty or security depending on how one perceives them based upon their personal experiences so far. 🌻

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Why are intelligent people prone to insanity?

I don’t think they’re prone to insanity as much as they’re likely to deal with people who are jealous of their intelligence and perhaps they might find it harder to connect with people who are less intelligent than they are and that could lead them to isolate and feel as if they’re going “insane” from loneliness. If they’re introverts, they may bottle up their feelings and thoughts more often than if they were to be extroverted so that might make them feel unheard or misunderstood by others and feelings of alienation can take place.

Why is loneliness so soul crushing?

searchingforseizureman’s Profile PhotoSearching for Seizure Man
I was just discussing that with a lady friend from Kazakhstan last night. It is against human nature since we are pack or group animals. We NEED that sense of belonging as much as a pet dog views you as part of his/her pack... or a cat his/her 'pride'. the only thing more distressing than losing a pet is a pet losing his/her pack mate... some mourn dreadfully.

" isolate as much as you want to become stronger , even if you see that loneliness is an bearable hell , it is much better than multiple masks of humans "

Isolation can sometimes feel like the only way to focus on self-growth, but it's essential to find a balance.
Loneliness can indeed be tough, but wearing masks to fit in isn't healthy either. Authenticity matters.
It's about finding genuine connections while also nurturing your own strength and individuality.

Have you ever wondered what some old (or even late) folks' lives would have been like if they were born later? I know for a fact that if my grandma was born in my gen she would've been an Instagram model or something. She always loved posing with a 'tude and be extra on the vintage press cameras💅🏾

Idk but I’m glad I wasn’t born in an older generation where people didn’t have iPhones and would spend their days socializing with others irl or did chores to pass the time. An introvert like me wouldn’t be able to adjust to a life like that while also being happy and ok with living like that (not that I’m happy at the moment despite being born in this generation but it just would’ve been harder for me to cope with my loneliness back then).

Jaká píseň je podle vás na první pohled nevinná, ale při bližší analýze je to horor?

embraceyourawesomness’s Profile Photoembraceyourawesomness
Every breath you take
Every move you make...
I'll be watching youuuuu...
Děkujeme Stingovi za nádhernou romantickou píseň od stalkera jeho stalkované oběti a navážeme boybandem.
Although loneliness has always been a friend of mine
I'm leavin' my life in your hands
People say I'm crazy and that I am blind
Risking it all in a glance
And how you got me blind is still a mystery
I can't get you out of my head
Don't care what is written in your history
As long as you're here with me
I don't care who you are
Where you're from
What you did
As long as you love me
Jste v pohodě kluci??? Jako vážně, chcete číslo na terapeuta?
Jaká píseň je podle vás na první pohled nevinná ale při bližší analýze je to

What's in your mind right now?🙄

AaliyaMirza’s Profile PhotoAaliya Mirza
I choose to love you in silence, for in silence I find no rejection.
I choose to love you in loneliness, for in loneliness no one owns you but me.
I choose to adore you from a distance, for distance will shield me from pain.
I chose to kiss you in the wind, for the wind is gentler than my lips.
I choose to hold you in my dreams, for in my dreams you have no end.

‏مين كان جنبك لما كنت في اسوا حالاتك ؟

I've never been lonely. I've been depressed. I've felt awful awful beyond all, but I never felt that one other person could enter that room and cure what was bothering me, or that any number of people could enter that room. In other words, loneliness is something I've never been bothered with because I've always had this terrible itch for solitude. It's being at a party, or at a stadium full of people cheering for something, that I might feel loneliness.
Ibsen's , The strongest man upon the earth is he who stands most alone..

Do you ever get tired of playing nice with authority like you aren’t able to be your true self

I’ve always had a problem with authority because I never felt like I belonged in a place where people expect me to be or look a certain way that just isn’t me. I do get tired of trying to blend in and from acting the way I think people expect me to act or speak just for the sake of feeling a little less lonely because I can’t stand the feeling of loneliness and want to feel connected to others, even if it means hiding certain traits that I have that aren’t seen as “desirable” as other traits. I sometimes even find myself holding back from unleashing the negative emotions that are inside of me for the sake of not upsetting my family members even tho there isn’t too much authority at home, if at all. But I do hope that I can truly be myself everywhere I go at some point in the future, without having to risk losing friends and feeling lonely as a result.

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Surrounded by individuals who can't engage in a healthy discussion and have contradictory perceptions pertaining to each and every aspect of life, and you can't even remove yourself just because you don't want to hurt them. It's a next level of loneliness that makes you question your existence...!!!

That's why scientists, curious souls, and inventors are often depicted alone. When you conduct your own research in solitude, rather than seeking answers from various perspectives, you reach conclusions and achieve clarity. Others may just contribute to the chaos of the mind..

What does it mean when you dream about being in a place near the ocean with palm trees and sand, but it's completely deserted, with abandoned beach cafes and no one around?

This is totally just my interpretation of the dream so don’t take my response too seriously but to me, that might reflect the feeling of loneliness within you and you should probably surround yourself with people/make more friends. Or, maybe it means that you’re at peace with yourself and are feeling calm in your day to day life.

What hurts more than a breakup?

maryamwaheed129912’s Profile PhotoMaryam
Playing the victim, when you yourself know that the other person had invested whatsoever he could to heal you from your past traumas made himself available all the time and was genuine not faking anything, expressing everything. You were treating him as merely a distraction and using him as a toy out of your boredom and loneliness. Yet, he still loves you. He might not be perfect, but at least have some dignity. Don't reveal his insecurities and vulnerabilities to his only emotional support making that friend of his hate him to the point where he stops replying to his texts and calls, and eventually ghosts him.

what is one thing You refuse to share?

Issa_MuntahaAK’s Profile PhotoIssa_Muntaha
To those person who's suffering from depression, anxiety, loneliness, and sadness, I know it's hard. I know how you keep yourself from crying every night because of the pain you're going through. But also remember that life is beautiful. Life is full of amazing things. Free yourself from the chain that has been holding you. Don't hesitate to tell someone about what you feel, I know there is someone who is really to listen all of your pain, and won't judge you. All you need is someone to talk to, to share your problems with. But also remember that God is there, ready to listen from all of your rants. God is there to save you from your battle. You are loved, prioritized, special, worthy, and wonderful. May your hearts be filled with joy. God bless you!😊

What's your antidote for loneliness?

dante_aligh’s Profile PhotoDonovan
Texting friends, treating myself by eating out, watching movies, listening to music, reading books, and occasionally going to places when people invite me (which hardly ever happens). I don’t think anything can actually replace seeing people in person as an antidote for loneliness but I still find ways to somewhat keep in touch with others online.

Has this app helped you cope with loneliness and fulfilled your need to connect with others?

Froyh’s Profile PhotoMerve
I’m so thankful that I don’t get lonely, I have my family and close friends who are always there for me if and when I need them 💕 tbh I don’t think social media is fulfilling its more of a distraction 😂
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Do you think loneliness can lead to addiction problems ?

missygls’s Profile Photoᴳᴸメ
Loneliness is a feeling if you overthink it ..... You go the dark path but if you see the positive you get so much time to explore and gain new skillset and knowledge so in a way it can be a blessing in disguise as people are more attracted towards the rising graph 📈 .... It all depends how you can suppress or mould your energy of feelings to something productive 😄

Einsamkeit. Fluch oder Segen?

DeadTheory’s Profile PhotoNivea-los
Englisch lässt eine schöne Differenzierung zu:
Solitude und Loneliness. Ersteres bietet einen wundervollen Nährboden für einen Segen, währendlich zweiteres die Macht hat, dich zu zerfressen. Was von beidem gerade dominiert, hängt, würde ich behaupten, vom allgemeinen Zustand ab. Grundsätzlich würde ich aber behaupten, dass Einsamkeit, sofern man im Reinen mit sich ist, viel Potential bietet, sich selbst zu ergründen und lieben zu lernen. Dadurch lernt man die eigene Gesellschaft zu schätzen und wählt Sozialkontakte mit Bedacht.
Einsamkeit Fluch oder Segen
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Styczniowy natłok myśli.

krzykaniolow’s Profile PhotoLeila Birdwhistle
i'll never force anyone to choose me - if you think you can find something better elsewhere then go ahead
i'm not holding you back
life's too short to hang to someone who doesn’t want to stay
i believe in freedom and the truth of feelings
If you must stay, let it be because your heart tells you this is where you belong - not because i asked you to
i wanna be a choice, not a default or option
i deserve someone who sees my value, who understands what i bring to their life
i don't want someone who stays with me out of fear of loneliness or out of habit
i want someone who stays because they can't imagine life without me
the door is always open - you're free to leave at any time
so if you think you happiness lies elsewhere i won't stand in your way
and in the meantime i'll keep going, i'll continue build my own life to be happy on my own
because my happiness doesn't depend on your presence, but on my own ability to.

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Whats your current obsession?

Current??? It doesn't change in me dudeness... I have never fallen out of love with loneliness... There is nobody there... The people who care for you, feel hurt or disturbed, when they find out you are not happy, according to them... Loneliness is peace, it's my care for my loved ones... I believe I'm better for people when I'm not around...
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How do you deal with loneliness?

Idk a certain exact way but there is some stuff that can help
Decorate your home with stuff that makes you feel comfy , you don't really need to have a taste just random stuff that got your attention , learn to cook your fav meals or try new stuff , wouldn't matter if it tastes that good , you will like it cuz you made it
Try new things , new activities as much as you can , even if you don't feel like it , just give it a shot
Don't turn down the chance of a conversation as long as the person is decent
Remember that stuff you used to like as a child but didn't get to continue doing?
Reading, drawing or any sport or hobby , try it again
And I think friends are found in unexpected ways , so don't pressure yourself just let it be
Make being alone a nice place to be

How do you deal with loneliness?

يومي مليان بحاجات كتير اعملها فمش ببقى فاضي اوي للمشاعر اللي زي دي .. كمان وجودي وسط اهلي واصحابي اللي بسهر معاهم أو بكلمهم على النت مساعدني على ده
لكن أوقات برضو بحس بيها فبشتت المشاعر دي بانى اتفرج على فيلم او مسلسل او اتعلم حاجة بحبها أو حتى أنام
امبارح مثلا قاعد ساعتين بسيرش على ازاي اعمل نص إلى صوت بالذكاء الصناعي ويكون بيقرا بالمصري كمان
المشكلة عندي انى بقيت حاسس انى اتعودت على ده 😂

Why would people not want kids?

Having kids is not a walk in the park. It's a huge responsibility that never ends regardless of how old your child will become. Any parent will tell you that sometimes you have days where you wish you could go back in time and not have kids and that's not to say that we don't love them because we do it's just that you never get a break and sometimes it's overwhelming. People don't understand how much goes into being a parent and usually have kids for the wrong reasons. More people need to actually have the talk instead of just effing.
Some people genuinely dislike kids or regret them. Fear of loneliness. Kids don't fix your problems. Their careers, environment, state of the world, and the simple fact that kids ARE expensive. Health/medical reasons, the fact that they might be a caretaker to someone else, their lifestyle, family history, and timing ain't right.

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What do you do to combat loneliness?

Sad_Potato101’s Profile PhotoViolet
I’m always lonely but being on this app and other social media platforms helps keep me connected with others and grounded, I listen to music and occasionally take nature walks, I talk to my family members (but usually don’t since we don’t always see eye to eye), I read books where I truly feel connected to the characters in it, and sometimes I get invited to go to events once or twice a year and I attend those lol.

And when nobody wakes you up in the morning, or nobody waits for you at night! And when you do whatever you want to do! Do you call it Loneliness or Freedom?

aleena_kamran1’s Profile Photoعلینہ قریشی
At first, the idea of complete freedom and no expectations from others may sound exhilarating. But as the days go by, the silence and solitude start to wear on you. The freedom is intoxicating, but it's also lonely as hell.

Do you hate that it gets dark early? I do, and the thought that there are still months to go until the days get longer again intensifies my sadness.

I do feel more depressed during certain times of the year so perhaps I have seasonal depression? I don’t hate that it gets dark early, I just hate the loneliness that comes with being in certain seasons (like winter months) for me :/

I am so bored let's talk

Do you know I have received more than 30 questions where people say they are lonely or they want to talk or something along those lines. It scares me to see how (perhaps) all of us are lonely or sad, yet we don't come together or talk to each other to help one another. Two people being lonely by themselves can comfort each other and gradually eradicate the loneliness when they come together.
If you're reading this, please be a lending ear to those around you. Loneliness may lead someone to greater problems if not helped at the right time.

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⠀⠀Wise decision not to make contact with the staff. The concentrated energy — originating from the levitating purple orb — could well be harmful to human touch. It was just the first finished version of the prototype in the testing phase. Even Ramattra himself was experiencing irregularities under its use. It was not within safe conditions yet.
Relief it turned out that it did not lead to creating a scene.
Being one with loneliness, Ramattra shed the only garment around his head by spreading it on a furniture, near the glare attributed by the window. It was soaked. He waited for the first rays of morning sun to do justice.
Optics examined the comfortable bed. He didn't need sleep. Omnics had no such needs. Much less one like him, designed only to lead bloodthirsty machines without being worthy of rest until the last living circuit within.
At present the closest he came was to cling to meditation; that key element to a harmonious path learned in his time as a believing sheep.
Ramattra decided to sit on the tatami floor, his back leaning against the bed plataform edge. Red lights under the faceplate faded away.
A day before his spiritual derailment, he confronted the Iris in a desperate clash of draining emotions — a moment where admitted he had lost his sanity.
That day, he knew that making a decision required staining the name of the one he used to revere.
Challenging the aspirations of his brothers and sisters.
To become the public enemy.
His early comrades in the revolution intruded on the looped replay of his memories. Blinded and so limited in seeing beyond what human nature truly holds.
None agreed with him. Branding him as a genocidal hothead, turning their backs on him.
They did not understand.
Why was no one able to open their eyes? The world only responds with violence. They listen through violence. They change through fear generated by VIOLENCE.
That was the only right thing to do; to act to prevent the extinction of their own.
This was to save THEM. This was for the welfare and prevalence of the omnics.
SO WHY DID HE HAVE TO DO THIS ALONE?
WHY DID NO ONE ELSE DO ANYTHING BUT HIM? WHY DID ONLY HE CARE?

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Before knew it, an almost blinding glimpse had already filtered into the room bringing warm illumination like a silent "good morning", forcing the omnic to break away from his rest. Too radiant... and boisterous, at this point.
Ramattra set about getting up. He went to grab the woolen garment and go get ready to go his own way. However, a disconcerting event stopped him in time.
His hands were shaking.
And the frictions felt so stiff.... just why?

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And when nobody wakes you up in the morning, or nobody waits for you at night! And when you do whatever you want to do! Do you call it Loneliness or Freedom?

aleena_kamran1’s Profile Photoعلینہ قریشی
kids see it as freedom, while at a certain age it the main cause of increasing cases of depression and suic*de attempts. ✨

And when nobody wakes you up in the morning, or nobody waits for you at night! And when you do whatever you want to do! Do you call it Loneliness or Freedom?

aleena_kamran1’s Profile Photoعلینہ قریشی
When you realise the real luxuries in life is time, slow mornings & the freedom to choose whatever you want to do.
Hence, Freedom.

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