#astrology

Interesting, I like this question!

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Scorpio - I think they’re the most misunderstood cause people assume they’re toxic cause they can be ruthless when crossed but they will go to the end of the earth to protect the people they love. Most of the ones I’ve met (inc my best friend of over a decade) are smart, driven, brave and have a wicked sense of humour 🖤
Taurus - A very close second! I love their passion and intelligence so much. In my experience they are reliable and honest, ambitious as fuck and aren’t afraid to speak their mind. I admire their strength and although they can be stubborn little shits, I really enjoy spending time with them and would deffo want them on my team if shit went sideways 🥰
Capricorn - I’ve known them to be loyal and determined. A little bit more chill than the top two but amazing listeners and good at giving advice 🥺
Virgo - Kind, patient and understanding. Logical thinkers who are always prepared cause they’ve thought of all the outcomes so I find them just soothing to be around as an anxious pisces 😋
Cancer - Ride or die type friends, they’re protective and loyal over those who are important to them. Good listeners and sensitive souls so we tend to understand each other well. Can be a bit moody and petty if you cross them though 😅
Aries - I have a love/hate relationship with Aries haha. I get on well with them but have a tendency to clash over certain things. I find them quite irritating in disagreements cause they’re a bit hot headed and competitive but when we get on, we get on well 😆
Libra - I can have a good laugh with them, their sense of humour and wittiness is unmatched. They can be a bit too extroverted and draining for me in large doses 🙂
Leo - Another love/hate relationship. I like their confidence and passion but sometimes it comes across as arrogant or attention seeking. I’ve met a few toxic Leos (I tend to find the males more likeable) but I’ve met some that I’ve really liked too ✌️
Aquarius - I haven’t met many so hard to form an opinion based on my experience which is why I’ve put them in the only gap haha. I would say very intelligent but being an air sign, a lot of their traits are probably not compatible with my own. So a mutual respect rather than a dislike 👍🏻
Sagittarius - I’ve met a few and they tend to be either people pleasing and disorganised but hilarious and optimistic or they can come across as blunt, rude and impatient. I can fuck with the first but not the second. Think we’re just very different people so don’t understand each other well or get the others approaches to situations 🤔
Gemini - Don’t think I’ve ever met one that I liked. They say one thing to you and another about you in my experience. Don’t trust them as far as I can throw them, their superiority complex irritates me and they can be flaky, shady and judgemental. Just not a compatible sign with pisces at all. 🤷🏻‍♀️

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Astrologically it is a good pairing. Cancer and Capricorn are opposites so they generally have the same approach to life just differently, if that makes sense. It's a "meet me in the middle" type of pairing. There's obviously going to be some challenges as these signs are in opposition. Keep in mind though that we never look at just sun signs to determine compatibility in astrology. Moon, venus, mars and even mercury could all play a more important role, not to mention house overlays. Personally I am a Capricorn sun and stellium and my bf of 6 years is a cancer sun and stellium. Our relationship is generally really nice, fulfilling and peaceful. Our moon signs are also in opposition (though this generally isn't as good as opposing sun signs). Literally the best, most respected I'd ever felt in a relationship. I trusted him enough to LET. GO. and let him help me. Sagittarius is fun, exciting, and a good friend but they can be underhanded, unfeeling, and devious, even cruel. They’re a lot smarter than they get credit for. People forget that Jupiter is god of the big picture, as opposed to the small things that build the bigger picture, and that means the weaker & more vulnerable people around them sometimes get bulldozed. They can be extremely dogmatic and rigid in their views, particularly religious and philosophical ones. They are constantly searching for the capital-t Truth and don’t care as much about the little guy as they do about their ultimate Goal. As a Leo rising maybe I’m “into myself” but more accurately I can acknowledge and take pleasure in my strengths. Because I can do that, I’ll happily build you up - I instinctively want to make you feel good about yourself, and it’s genuine. I think the thing people sometimes don’t like is that I know I’m hot and I know I’m smart LOL. Underneath people’s instinctive horror at that is: 1) A woman shouldn’t feel good about herself, that’s not right, she can only feel good if it serves me in some way; and 2) Why don’t I get to feel good about myself? It’s entitlement and insecurity. He was Cancer Sun, Leo Ascendant, and Virgo moon also. This was the best relationship I've ever been in, and I'm not just saying that because he passed away. We got each other on another plane of existence somehow. Staying up all night giggling, knowing when it's time to go nuts and when it's time to stop, and mutually supportive. But all of my relationships at least start out strong. I dated a Cancer woman for a very long time, and it ended the way you are describing. Just drifted apart and left each other on read. The first six months were phenomenal though. It was a lot of people pleasing on both sides, with neither person really wanting to end or progress the relationship. I like Cancer women a lot and I am drawn to them as they exude feminine energy.

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I am not going to condemn you entirely since I used to like astrology too as a teenager. It is fun sometimes to explore it even now.
But as a coping mechanism for an adult, it doesn't sound beneficial at all. In fact, research has shown that people way too obsessed with astrology have narcissistic traits because the 'poetical' description of each aspect/sign/planet makes even toxic or harmful habits sound like good behaviour, or simply like something 'cool'. I prefer learning from mistakes rather than remaining as I am simply because a part of my chart, where Lilith conjuncts Venus and the Sun says that my inadequate conduct exudes sensuality or whatever...
Astrology is fun for most people as long as they can relate. Otherwise, they do not care. It is this particular element that, when taken to its extreme, induces a self-absorbed demeanour in its devotees.

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Believing in horoscopes is the same as going to a fortune teller, and that's kufr. These are the basics of Islam that we "muslims" don't even know today. What a shame...

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Horoscopes/Astrology is Haram!

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Not only is the practice of astrology is haram, but also visiting an astrologer and listening to his predictions, buying books on astrology or reading one's horoscope are also forbidden. Since astrology is mainly used to predicting the future, those who practice it are considered fortunetellers. Consequently, one who seeks his horoscope comes under the ruling contained in the Prophet's statement, "The salah (daily prayer) of whoever approaches a fortune teller & asks him about anything will not be accepted for forty days and nights."
[Sahih Muslim, no. 5440]

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The punishment in this hadith is simply for approaching the asking the astrologer, even if one is in doubt about the truth of his statements. If one is in doubt about the truth or falsehood of astrological information, he is in doubt about whether or not others know the unseen and the future besides Allah. This is a form of shirk because Allah clearly stated:-

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"And with Him are the keys to the ghayb [all that is hidden], none knows them but He and He knows whatever there is in [or on) the earth and the sea; not a leaf falls, but the knows it. There is not a grain in darkness of the earth nor anything fresh or day, but is written in a clear record." [Al-Qur'an 6:59]

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"Say: None in the heavens and the earth knows the ghayb (unseen) except Allah, nor can they perceive when they shall be resurrected." [Al-Qur'an 27:65]

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If, however, one believes in the predictions of their horoscope, whether spoken by an astrologer or written in books of astrology, he falls directly into kufr (disbelief) as stated by the Prophet, peace be upon him, "Whoever approaches an oracle or fortune teller has disbelieved in what was revealed to Muhammad." [Sunan of Abu Dawud, vol. 3, p. 1095, no. 3895]

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