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How do you approach life?

I always tend to approach life with optimism. The reason for that is because I am confident that I will succeed, sooner or later. And it is all based on hope and faith.
Hope is a powerful and omnipresent force that appears in every single moment of a person's life, so neglecting it is like throwing away all of your dreams.
Faith, much like hope itself, is a power that allows us to trust. It gives us the strength to adapt, overcome, and believe that we can succeed. Both of them are incredible importance when it comes to approaching life in a positive way.
In other words, I always have hope and faith when it comes to life. Having both of them (as well as positivity, of course) around helps me be myself, even in the darkest of days.

If you came to wonderland completely blind to the whole situation just like Alice was, do you think you would've taken a similar approach to what she did? If not, what would you've done differently? 🐰🎩🐛🌷🐱🍪👑

TobbeAsks’s Profile PhotoTobbe
She seemed a bit rude to me when I watched Alice in wonderland
I would try to lead with more kindness and optimism

New Year's resolutions for 2024, or sticking with the same old vibes?

Warisha_khan13’s Profile PhotoWarisha khan
Maintaining optimism and certainty becomes challenging due to our undisciplined lifestyles and ever-changing urges.
New Year resolutions often feel like a joke when we struggle to stick to them. While everyone enjoys the idea of self-improvement, few actually follow through with it in their routines or lifestyles.

Is there a reason for optimism about humanity's long-term fate?

AhmadBakheitMndo’s Profile Photo∆HMED
One can hope and dream, and for sure, I do. I am a dreamer, after all. A time where wisdom, knowledge, respect, and education govern humanity.
To be honest, I find it really difficult to believe that people will one day reach a higher level of consciousness and awareness.
Every time I read about a different era, there is always that one group of people who prefer to bear arms and force everyone else into a war. Or there is always someone who wants more than the rest. Or there is always someone who wants to take more from the poor just to keep them in line. And for those someones, if you don't pay attention to their actions and get your hands dirty, you are going to lose in the long run, forcing the rest to resist.
It's a complete vicious circle.

What did you ever see in him/her?

GlindaBells’s Profile PhotoGlinda
He was great with kids, he was/is charismatic, he showed me his vulnerable as well as his sweet side, I liked the fact that him and I talked privately (at least that’s what I thought was the case until I found out that others knew about us talking to each other), his sense of humor, his optimism, and his potential to be the most caring person I’ve ever met only to realize how cold he actually was the last time we spoke.

What is your favourite thing about Christmas? 🎄 🎅 🎁 🌰 😇

redoasis2017’s Profile Photo★ ☮ ♫ †êñå¢ï𵧠†ðmm奙 ▩ ♚ ☻
Decorations 🥳✨, moreover it brings another kind of optimism in the world 🤩🎄🎁🎅,
Santa Claus and festival of exchanging gifts also🎁🥰✨,
Merry Christmas holidays till the new year and where everyone is free from their official work🎁🎅🎄
What is your favourite thing about Christmas

For once, be realistic; this 24/7 optimism won't get you anywhere.

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اب کیا سوچیں کیا ہونا ہے
جو ہو گا اچھا ہو گا
پہلے سوچا ہوتا پاگل
اب رونے سے کیا ہو گا

یار سے غم کہہ کر تو خوش ہو
لیکن تم یہ کیا جانو
تم دل کا رونا روتے تھے
وہ دل میں ہنستا ہو گا
آج کسی نے دل توڑا تو
ہم کو جیسے دھیان آیا
جس کا دل ہم نے توڑا تھا
وہ جانے کیسے ہو گا
میرے کچھ پل مجھ کو دے دو
باقی سارے دن لوگو
تم جیسا جیسا کہتے ہو
سب ویسا ویسا ہو گا
پہلے سوچا ہوتا پاگل
اب رونے سے کیا ہو گا
For once be realistic this 247 optimism wont get you anywhere

For once, be realistic; this 24/7 optimism won't get you anywhere.

muzzaf999’s Profile PhotoMicro.
It's important to be realistic sometimes and acknowledge that life has its ups and downs. While staying positive is great, it's also okay to recognize challenges and setbacks. Remember, being realistic doesn't mean giving up, but rather finding a balance between optimism and practicality. If you ever need someone to talk to or share your thoughts with.
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ʏᴏᴜʀ ᴄᴏʟᴏʀ ɪs... ᴏʀᴀɴɢᴇ﹗﹗🍊
( attributes: optimistic, friendly, perceptive )
Optimism and friendliness characterize people, like you, whose personality color is Orange.
You are friendly and nurturing, but may need to take care that your good nature doesn’t lead others to unload all their frustrations on you without any reciprocation.
People whose personality color is Orange aren’t typically big party people. You prefer smaller gatherings where you can engage with everyone else.
You’re whimsical and value zaniness in others. You’re also bubbly, in an infectious, happy, joyful way. You see the best in people, despite what others may say about them. And you’re a forgiver—to a fault.
As a hopeless romantic, breaking connections is difficult for you. When you open your heart, it’s all or nothing. This means you love deeper, but also that heartbreak hurts more. You may never stop loving former flames, with hopes of one day rekindling. But you are never opposed to new opportunities for love and connection.
; Tate è più tipo da organizzare i mega party, ma sì, per il resto ci prende moltissimo. Cosa divertente: l'arancione è il suo colore preferito.

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rq: https://thecolorofmypersonality.com/

ʏᴏᴜʀ ᴄᴏʟᴏʀ ɪs﹕ ᴏʀᴀɴɢᴇ.
[ Aᴛᴛʀɪʙᴜᴛᴇs﹕ Oᴘᴛɪᴍɪsᴛɪᴄ﹐ Fʀɪᴇɴᴅʟʏ﹐ Pᴇʀᴄᴇᴘᴛɪᴠᴇ. ]
Optimism and friendliness characterize people, like you, whose personality color is Orange.
You are friendly and nurturing, but may need to take care that your good nature doesn’t lead others to unload all their frustrations on you without any reciprocation.
People whose personality color is Orange aren’t typically big party people. You prefer smaller gatherings where you can engage with everyone else.
You’re whimsical and value zaniness in others. You’re also bubbly, in an infectious, happy, joyful way. You see the best in people, despite what others may say about them. And you’re a forgiver—to a fault.
As a hopeless romantic, breaking connections is difficult for you. When you open your heart, it’s all or nothing. This means you love deeper, but also that heartbreak hurts more. You may never stop loving former flames, with hopes of one day rekindling. But you are never opposed to new opportunities for love and connection.
|| È lei 10/10.

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Do you believe in love

Believing in love is essential because it nurtures hope, fosters connection, and brings joy. It opens doors to meaningful relationships, personal growth, and emotional fulfillment. Love inspires compassion, resilience, and the ability to navigate life’s challenges. It fuels optimism, reminding us that love’s transformative power can heal and bring beauty to our lives.

the new sag moon has brought alot of optimism!! i'm actually feeling happy, i had almost no sleep last night but im still happy lol

Yes, it has. I’m glad you are feeling happy. 💗
There’s been so much love shown to me today that I can’t help but have happy tears in my eyes to close out my birthday.
Good Sagittarius vibes to all. 💗💗💗
the new sag moon has brought alot of optimism im actually feeling happy i had

There’s a saying “Too much of anything is bad”. Do you think there are any exceptions to this?

PulkitSharma62’s Profile PhotoJustice
Peace, optimism, and determination.
If a person has these qualities in excess then it's like a blessing for them. Even if they would have difficult days then hope would still prevail which could make them derive best results out of any situation despite of its nature of being difficult and challenging.
All these qualities will provide hope which can fill a person's heart with a sort of happiness because they have something to look forward to or they know that they could make a significant change in their outlook towards life.
Theres a saying Too much of anything is bad  Do you think there are any

Love is strength or Love is weakness?

It's a strength as every person wants peace in life which can be amplified through selfless love .
Kindness is one of the form of love like parent's love towards the child which can lead to more optimism, confidence, self-determination, a great sense of self- worth and increased happiness.
It acts as a stress buster.
However, it can become weakness when you fail to understand the 'selfish love' from either one person or both and finally find it difficult to move on in life.
Example: Unhealthy and Toxic Relationships, Temporary feelings which leads to betrayal.
In both cases, one person will have to suffer more and could affect their way of living. So, in such a case, it can be described as a weakness.
Love is strength or Love is weakness

What do you think is downright the cutest and most adorable thing about you? 😸

fourwallsofhome’s Profile PhotoPhilip
I can't answer this on my own so I asked my circle. I surveyed (hahaha) 9 people ages 20+ who were with me for at least 2 years (includes then classmates, colleagues, and friends). And they demanded to make it 3 cutest/adorable things about me since they can't chose only 1 daw. I directly copy-paste their answers and translate some words. I also copy-paste the emojis they included in their responses. Here are their answers:
F1: ur nose/eyes, out of this world questions, ur personality
F2: ur optimism, willingness to listen and help, repeating a song million times before moving on to another song 😑
F3: ur eyes/skin/collarbone, clingy moods, speaking voice
F4: ur kindness, ur pretty face (libre mo ko), big appetite but never get fat (naol)
F5: ur humility/gratefulness to almost everything, ur screams and tago-paa and tago-to-kumot mode when watching horror movies 😂😂🤣, ur appeal 😎
F6: ur cheerfulness, skin/eyes, witty responds
F7: u talking to plants and animals 😏, wit, sudden shift to cold aura when u hear people talking ill things about ur loved ones or simply u don't like the person
F8: ur glares/pouts when not getting what u want, calmness in almost all situation , smile/eyes
F9: ur childishness and ignorance to some things, ur grateful heart, nose/eyes
Enjoy! 🤣

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Why people like dark more then light.

Because jab andar andhera hota he tou bahar roshni achi nahi lagti.🤷🏻
Jokes apart, as a society, we're not very comfortable in revealing our true inner self struggles due to diff: factors such as judgment, labels, stereotypes and prejudices...
We're afraid to ask for help because we feel like 'what if the other person judges us' and what if the other person feels burdened...?
So in case of any triggering situation, we prefer to either withdraw or isolate ourselves, because the fear of being misunderstood is so much strong k communication initiate hi nahi ki jaa rahi hoti bohot se logon se...
Ab is situation main jo negative thought hota he aur us se associated jo negative emotions ya feelings generate hoti hain, wo sab for the time being isolation aur withdrawal ki waja se suppress tou ho jati hain, but eliminate ya channelize nahi hotin, they're bottled up inside us and because of the lack of support and nurturance from the environment in most of the cases, we're unable to express our true inner selves emotionally atleast....
And these bottled up emotions have a huge impact on how we behave and perceive things....
So all these bottled up emotions, if not channelized, if left untreated, if left unattended, give rise to diff: mental health issues such as depression, anxiety and so on....
And in long run agar ye situation cater nahi ki jaye, ya coping mechanism na ho tou aik "pessimistic thought pattern" develop hona is very easy....
So technically, Light represents optimism, hope, life, openness and opportunities whereas Darkness represents hopelessness, depression, isolation, grief, dead-end, threat and failure.....
That is why, in most of the cases, we're drawn towards darkness because it represents our internal self struggles... 🌼

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What if you get Superman powers what you do ?

(Personal abilities) :
Increase my writing speed and learning power to make it possible to complete all the written work and learning tasks in just a few minutes or hours. 🤣😬
(World-friendly powers) :
Give one thing to everyone for free which can provide honest people more hope, optimism to deal with situations smartly. 😎
What if you get Superman powers what you do

Optimism is the most important thing for our life; without it you're gonna see the life with the wrong perspective, therefore it is gonna be as a suicide process. So, don't let yourself being pessimistic and obligate yourself to be an optimistic person by removing everything related to pessimism.

mohamedabdelfattah377’s Profile PhotoMohamed Abd-Elfattah
I was always optimistic, but when you subjected to a serious of shocks and 3 consequential accidents
you will be pessimistic by funny and sarcastic way off-hand 🤷🏻‍♀️😂

Please give me some advice on how to get this girl to like me without getting friend zoned or coming off as weird

mightytoad0’s Profile PhotoMightyToad
Firstly, there is no such thing as a friend zone. That is something loser guys and bitches say. Attraction isn't a choice and neither is rejection. It's a complex physical and psychological reaction. So let's drop that whole idea of being a victim if someone doesn't like you. It's just chemistry.
Second, the best thing you can do is relax. Be yourself whoever that may be. Don't let optimism make you misread the signs. It's usually pretty obvious. If you need to ask if someone likes you then you weren't paying attention. If you're real honest they'll be some hint. But if you're just painfully awkward and clueless just go for it. Just be polite. Be prepared to accept the answer whether positive or negative. Then move on
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Is there legitimately any reason to be optimistic about the future anymore?

AhmadBakheitMndo’s Profile Photo∆HMED
I'd say yes there is. Whatever the concerns over the future are, and however dire things may be, how we look at things can affect our ability to cope and effect change. So if we approach the future with the idea it is already screwed the result of that is likely to be inaction and hopelessness. If we approach the future thinking there are opportunities to build a better world the result is more likely to be optimism and action.

I don't share your optimism. Polls show that as of now there will be a Republican sweep in November which effectively neuters Biden. Unfortunately we have people more pissed off over high gas prices, which they blame on Biden, than our descent into fascism. We do not have an educated electorate.

I'm assuming you're American yourself so I wont dispute what you say.
I certainly agree we are in what I call the 'primacy of the moron.'
The right are experts at manipulating the gullible into thinking that supporting them is patriotic , they conflate themselves with the good of the country, at least here in Europe it looks like Macron may win tho it is appalling how the far right has to some extent been normalised even in France,
Listening to Gaetz, Cawthorne, MTG, Boebert, Hawley, Cruz and Johnson etc is profoundly dispiriting,
I still feel the progressive centre and left can hold , my fear is not so much the politics per se, it is the criminality that elements in the Republican party will engage in to either alter results or refuse to ratify them BUT sometimes the more people feel that they are being deliberately disenfranchised, they will be determined to vote and see that their vote is counted properly and honestly.

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At what point in your life were you happiest? When you were a child? When you had loads of money? When you got married?

I just finished up my 3rd year of college, during which I finally got my act together and got good grades, while developing a stronger interest in my major. I have an internship at a great company, doing things I enjoy, and making good money, while practically being guaranteed a career come graduation. I am also finally together with the girl of my dreams, that I have been chasing for 2 years, and every moment I spend with her is better than the last.
Last summer; I lived like I was 13 again, but with all the perks of being 22. I had just graduated college, but hadn't gotten a job yet. I worked during college, so I had some spending money. It was the first time I had not worked or been In school since I was 13 or 14 and it was awesome. I worked-out every day for a couple hours and then had the rest of the day to watch movies, play videogames, read, hang out with friends or go out with my girlfriend. Then late in the summer I got a job and moved out. I always wish I could Just go back to that lifestyle.
When I was in my early 30s. I had been divorced long enough not to feel the pain anymore, and was starting to figure out what I really wanted out of life. My little girl was four, and she was getting interested in playing video games with me. I remember I had just gotten a new job after five years working a desk job for a company that didn't appreciate me. I lived with my best friend. I made plenty of money, and had no debt.
When I was in my early teens I used to sit with my father and play F-19 Stealth Fighter for hours on end. He was a flight instructor in the USAF at the time and taught me how I should be flying, why I was flying that way, and how to land a jet fighter (though without rudder pedals, he eventually gave up and let me roll the aircraft on approach). It was basically flight school (very) light; but, damn if it wasn't a lot of fun.
College, man. I had a few girlfriends, a dorm full of dudes that would be down for basketball or videogames or whatever at any time, I didn't have to cook or wash dishes, I spent my time studying a subject I enjoyed for its own sake, and there was way less bullshit to deal with in general. All of my crap was fixed with duct tape because I was dirt poor but so was everyone I knew, so it was OK. There was ALWAYS something fun to do, and it was so easy to meet new people and make friends. Life was, in short, easy, good, and connected in a warm network of social relations.
I was very optimistic about the future as a teen. Which felt great, I thought I could do/be anything. Learning about politics, learning about how difficult doing the things I thought I wanted to do with my life actually are and just generally becoming more nihilistic as I have gotten older has significantly dampened this optimism to the point I genuinely feel unsure if I even have a future. I still try to be somewhat optimistic but sometimes being optimistic just does not mesh well with being realistic which I also think is important.

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How old did you learn to swim, I learned with a girl and I had 5 years old, and you?

outsidenowthiswar21’s Profile PhotoXhqjd
I still haven't, and I don't suffеr much from it. Once they tried to "teach" me in fеnghuang - the children just tried to drоwn me or thrоw me off a сliff into the water coz I'm redhead. C'еst la vie. It is not surprising that I didn't have much love for water.
The second time was when we had a cоmpulsory swimming class for six months, ugh. Again, when the end of the track is two times your height, and standing at the bottom at its beginning you do not rеach the air with your nose, this does not add extra optimism. I was very аfraid of those class and came up with all sorts of excusеs just not to go there.
How old did you learn to swim I learned with a girl and I had  5 years old and

Koi sachi bat toh batao ? 🔇

Accepting the fact that we are sometimes just not good enough. We may have huge expectations of ourselves, but when reality hits us in the face, we tend to go in denial.
Thinking yourself of being too cool but in reality even the smallest things affect you in a big way.
When you don't get something, act as if you don't need it. Another fake attitude.
Getting way ahead of ourselves, thinking that everything is possible. Another useless notion picked up from the internet search.
Endlessly waiting and hoping in optimism, rather than looking at the ugly picture and working from there.

What is life without tears of pessimism and smiles of optimism?

Last night i needed her the most. I required a place where I could hide- talking to her could have been a camouflage for my vague thoughts. I was so dejected that for a moment I thought, I should come out of the room and start crying out loud or start running to nowhere. The trauma or sorrow of mine could have been avoided if we were still talking- i find solace in talking to her. I could have revealed another secret of mine to her just like i did it before. As she has the access to some dark secrets of mine so she also knows about my dark fantasy. Besides, there is not single day when I haven't missed her. I have prayed for her- she gets her hands on the best as she deserves the best of the best- for her beautiful present and unseen future, since we have stopped talking. About last night, I could have texted her, but I didn't want to as it wouldn't have been so mean of me to text her when I was having some problems. Forbye, when we spoke last time, she told me not to text her again ever, but I know i will one day and that will be the end of a story or start of a new one. My heart hopes, some day we will start talking again, but who knows what happens next?!

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For those who have seen the film inside out, which emotion do you think is in control of your brain? Or is it a healthy mix?

DovahMonah’s Profile PhotoDovahMonah
Haven't seen the movie yet...🙊 Is it an animated one? But even though i haven't seen it, i'll go with optimism? If that counts as an emotion?🤔

How would you describe your own personality? What do you like most about yourself?

First and foremost, I am an optimist. I feel I have to be. There are plenty of people dragging eachother down with negativity, I do not feel the need or the right to add to it. This is something I would imagine that some people find as my refusal to see how things really are. On the contrary to this opinion, I see things with a suprising amount of clarity and it is for that reason that I HAVE to be optimistic about the future. If I lose my optimism, than I will lose my drive to work for the benefit of myself and others. I will no longer work for the greater good and will lose motivation to better myself. I find this notion really quite distasteful. I think I have a decent grasp. I'm introverted, dominant, funny, analytical. This is in layman terms. To scientifically understand personality a trait theory like the big 5 is useful. I don't recommend taking the MBTI very seriously, if you talk to a good psychologist they can explain why.
I am smart. Not a genius or anything like that, but enough brains to offset my flaws and have a good quality life and career with a reasonable effort. I guess I am actually really pretty smart. I am a huge volunteer. I give way too much of my time to volunteer activities, especially in and about the sport of figure skating. Keeping myself busy keeps me from angsting about my flaws. I am an outdoorsman. I spend every weekend somewhere invariably getting soaking wet. Being close to hyperthermic most weekends has a way of deflecting my thoughts from my flaws.
I'm particularly honest, unselfish, trustworthy and often have quiet dispositions. I'm known to keep a low profile. I'm also loyal, honest and intelligent. I'm easygoing and make natural friendships. Sometimes I'm easily cheated or decieved and I am prone to sloth and laziness. I'm often quite artistic, poetic or both! What I really like most about myself is how much I deeply care about others. Believe it or not, I have a very good heart. Even though some people are never there for me, I've always been there for other people because that's what a (good) human being does. As a little girl, I would feel guilty when I felt a negative feeling toward another person. It would make me feel so uncomfortable and confused. I wanted so much to stop and control bad feelings. In my little mind those kind of feelings were bad so of course I must be bad. As I got older, I realized the “what” about feelings but I just couldn’t explain “why”. And that’s the reason I fell in love with words. Words afforded me a mode of expression. So, I would search for clarity by writing about my feelings to embrace them and try to understand… and right up to this moment I’m still doing just that. I love to learn and create, but I’m very introverted, preferring my cats company to others. I love nature, music and beautiful things. People have told me all my life I am physically beautiful, but I feel as if it’s more important to be a beautiful person inside.

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Do you think you are a young or old soul? Do you ever feel as if you don’t belong in the generation you were born in?

AdrianaRafaela98’s Profile PhotoAdriianna Rafaella
Old, but only recently. I can no longer imagine what (other than money) motivated me to go into a job I mostly hated for 30+ years, what it is like to face commuter traffic every fucking day, caring about the work "initiative" du jour and dealing with all that crap. More importantly, I see much decline around me (family members with cancer, wife with Alzhiemers, my beloved country turned to a crapfest of dishonesty and hate, run by an impetuous six year old, and quite frankly, I don't have the blind optimism of youth anymore. Somehow, this shit got real.
I'm both. I'm very jaded and I've been through a lot of trauma even though I'm only 20, so I guess that makes me an old soul. I love old music and I vibe well with people older than me. But I'm kind of a young soul too, because part of me still wants so much to have a fun, young life. Partying, traveling, etc. And I always see the best in people. So I guess I mean young as in naïve but also vibrant and fun loving and reckless.
I feel like I am a old soul do to how much knowledge I have of country music, people look at me weird or surprised when I can name off a song and the year it was released, and people find it strange that I like classic music and nothing else really
I don't know that I've ever been called an old soul, but at 22 years old I have been told I seem like a deep thinker and that I give very good advice. Possibly as a result I am the go-to confidant for four or five of my close friends (of whom some have been running their problems by me since I was 15). It could be because I draw a lot from the experiences I have had, or the perspective I take on life, or something else entirely. I don't really know. And yes. I've been called an old soul by close friends/family and mere acquaintances alike since I was in my early teens. I've always gotten along better socially and intellectually with people years older than me (or, other "old souls" around my age). When I was 20, I had a brief fling with a 38 year old, and he told me he'd regularly forget I wasn't his age. I take it as a compliment, but I think it's as much a curse as it is a blessing. There are real benefits to being able to relate socially and intellectually with your peers, and I have a really hard time doing that.
I have a very hard time relating to people my own age, it's pretty miserable. I can remember being 10 and the only people who I really enjoyed talking to were my teachers. It's still sort of that way, I've been asked to have coffee and chat by a few of my professors because they don't feel I'm operating at an undergraduate level. I can't really relate to the whole "college life" experience or people my own age because I feel like I've already moved passed that part of my life.
I was one of those kids who never really cried, and would usually sit quietly in my own corner and observe people, and I guess that made me somewhat of an anomaly at that age.

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Are you living the life of your dreams?

A sort of but not fully my dream life😅 , happiness is always the most important aspect of a dream life and it's present 🎁 in my life ☺️🎁, so yes a real worthful dream life :) but also can't say fully as everything im doing rn is only concerned to my future, i.e., to live a independent life for myself😇, taking up a career which I would love to do, getting engaged in breathtaking & new activities(✯ᴗ✯) for mind ❤️☺️ whilst always recollecting life experiences 💝☺️
It's a journey with myself where I will get more & more experienced with life itself😇 my dream is to always live a life with happiness, optimism, self-fulfillment, calmness, and a healthy peaceful loving life😍😇☺️,
Although many aspects are still happening in my life, so I want all those nice happenings to still happen in future alongside encountering & living my dream life😍❤️😇 :D 🤩☺️

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Are you living the life of your dreams

What do you like about the Star Wars universe?

In terms of the original trilogy (I lost motivation to continue watching after The Last Jedi), I think it was very innovative for its time, in all senses of the word - the costumes and sets, how they filmed the space scenes in using small miniatures, the storyline, having an empowering female as one of the leads, etc.
It’s an enjoyable story, and it follows the classic Jungian, Bildungsroman archetype of a hero’s journey, of discovering who you are, growing as a person and facing your destiny. As a child, I always related strongly to Luke, and I think that played heavily in enjoying the films - finding a character where you felt you could see yourself in them. Especially in young childhood, that meant a lot to me, when I felt very isolated. Being able to escape to a galaxy far, far away and see different planets always intrigued me! The optimism of Luke, the snark of Han and the general badassery of Leia made a good team! (Honourable mentions to Chewie and the droids too ofc).
I haven’t watched the prequels in a long time, but I do feel sorry for Hayden Christensen, he played the role absolutely fine, it was the script that let him down, imo.
I haven’t watched the shows (Mandalorian, Star Wars Rebels, etc), but I’ve heard they’re very good :)

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I don’t know what to do with myself in this world anymore.

merie7’s Profile PhotoMaria
sit back, take a deep breath and think what went wrong in life not because youd get another thing to overthink on but to learn from what you did wrong and how in future you can avoid doing that! Be a winner dont be a survivor chanda :) OPTIMISM BARA ZARORI HAY
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What are you thinking right now?

MusferaHashmi’s Profile Photoسیّدہ مُصفِرہ ہاشمی.
Can you hear the words that I don't speak?
It's a mess in my head, will you take a peek?
When realization hits, I can't help but weep,
But tears are useless when the wounds are deep
Awake at night, thoughts are devouring me,
Maybe if I close my eyes real tight I'll finally sleep
Looking into your eyes, I found that unknown gleam,
Lost in them, I get the courage to take a leap
Reminiscing the promises we're trying to keep,
Fazed by the words yet insecurity finds a way to creep
Trying not to lose my optimism, I am climbing a hill so steep,
Catch me if I fall, for the ditch of thoughts is way too deep.

Single people, are you terrified that you may stay single for the rest of your lives?

I’m more scared of ending up in a relationship with the wrong person🙈
Not at all, so less drama like family member needs bail or crazy stuff like that. You can meet the nicest person, but sometimes the people they love dearly like family I wouldn't even want them in my neighborhood, let alone my life. It's looking more likely for me unfortunately, i am quite unsocial and find it an effort now to reach out to people. I get terrified only when I think of marrying again. Fortunately, it isn't likely.
It's not really a concern of mine. Definitely, yeah. I wouldn't mind being without a SO forever if there wasn't such a social stigma around it. I'm a woman and I constantly feel like I'm being judged by everyone, I can only imagine how bad it is for guys.
Yes. I don't really like being in a relationship and I enjoy being by myself. Most of my interests and hobbies are things that I can do on my own. I don't like commitment and enjoy having freedom. I also never want kids. So I am perfectly fine being alone for the rest of my life. If someone comes along and is worth my time then I am fine with that too.
Most of those around us would say that our marriage is quite successful, but I still believe I'd be better off not taking the plunge to begin with. I don't understand the young men on Reddit who alway bemoan being single -- they need to challenge the belief system they were raised with and jettison the social and family pressures.
I'm perfectly happy by myself. My ideal relationship is not me going out and chasing someone to the point where I'm far away from where I want to be, rather someone that I pick up along the way, and enjoy the journey with me. Being single is kind of my factory setting. Am I happy about life in general, maybe not, but I'm more tired of the stigmas attached to being a perpetual bachelor. As long as I have a fulfilling social circle that doesn't undermine single life, being in a relationship just adds another person who may or may not mesh well with my established group.
As that's something beyond my control, then by design, I am okay with that being my future. Yes, for years, I would dream for a committed relationship that will turn into a family, but that optimism and yearning simmered a long time ago. If it was meant to be, then it will be.
Fortunately, most of my friends and family seem to have gotten the message that I (at 31 years old) will handle my romantic life in my own way, and in my own time. It took a bit of work on my part, but the topic hasn't been broached by anyone for a while.

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How do I make myself happy despite all the downs in life?

AhmadBakheitMndo’s Profile Photo∆HMED
By not letting yourself believe in what people say because people love to make you feel hopeless, and hopelessness is such a misery making you take every blessing forgranted. Optimism is actually realism, because nature does justice to all, it is our hindsight that doesn't see beyond an unfavorable event.

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