#sad

I feel sad for people who do this really..they find social media as a thing to make them get rid of their pressure or negative energy, maybe they find someone on social media to help them in something or to listen.. i feel they're in a situation like illness makes them unable to heal .. like they want to get rid of this illness but they can't or don't have the courage to move on.. even when i get anonymous questions about relationship problems, i feel so sad for people who ask like " how can i make this person likes me, how can i move on, how can i forget who hurt me.....etc " these questions make me want to scream and say " don't be stupid please u deserve better!if u don't find who appreciates u then u better stay alone and enjoy your solitude ! .. being alone is much better than being lonely with someone else..

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Look at him,

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not how the brain wants you to see, but with your wide open eyes to see reality.

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1- look for what are his qualities, try to make sure you are not taking help with your infected heart / brain.

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2- look at yourself, your sacrifices, your pain, your efforts.

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3- calculate, if the wounds and damage given by him/her are worth taking.

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4- ask yourself about taking decisions like, keep loving to set aside.

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5- don't blame them for hurting you, blame yourself for not being capable to read humans.

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6- don't hate them for leaving you, know there is someone more deserving to have you.

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7- delete every memory with them each one of it, don't stalk, don't look back,

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8- don't rush into a relationship just because you are sad, try to take control over yourself.

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9- try to give up on emotions like anger and hate for them, it will take time may be a decade but stay strong.

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10- if live at a turn put you infornt of them, don't cry like a baby, or avoid contact, be confident, confront them. Like nothing happened.

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There is no going back, no looking back, no just friends forever shit, no brother and sisters, no energy to be their enemy, nothing.

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Relax it's just a phase and it will pass! 🕊️

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