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Seems like FAA would be able to work around the kind of problem they claimed caused the outage. Not buying any of it.

I worked as a Senior Network Engineer for fortune 500 companies for over 40 years until I retired. During that time I worked on designing, installing, configuring and troubleshooting large enterprise networks. Every element within the core network and server farms had redundancy and were protected by firewalls, access lists, network mgmt systems and intrusion protection systems. In the event that we suffered a software or hardware failure the affected systems would failover and their network traffic re-routed automatically without user intervention or down time.
Those of us who are paying attention understand that democrats, RINOS, and their deep state operatives will do literally anything to maintain power even if it means destroying America's infrastructure. I honestly believe that this attack was instigated by the deep state. They did it with Russian collusion hoax, Ukraine hoax, Marlargo home invasion, labeling parents as terrorists for attending school board meetings, funding Antifa and BLM to burn down cities, hire 87,000 IRS agents to attack the middle class, leave billions in military hardware in Afganhistan, take control of the MSM as a propaganda tool to be used against American citizens, destroy our southern border, advocate for an international carbon tax to fund the Climate hoax, invade sovereign nations, remove conservative professors and teachers from the Universities, Public schools and confiscate weapons, indoctrinate our children with LGBT nonsense and take control of all Main Street Media to brainwash and dumb down the population.
The attacks on our constitution never end because the democrats are determined to destroy America and implement a New World Order run by globalist tyrants.

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Say you were the owner of a mini golf course, would it have a certain theme? If so, what kind of setpieces would you want to incorporate into the different holes? ⛳️🏰

TobbeAsks’s Profile PhotoTobbe
⛳️ I’d call it Liminal Golf, but would advertise it as regular mini-golf.
⛳️ It would have people hitting the ball thinking they were in control, but following it’s pre-programmed yet randomised route into strange places where players got the sense they really didn’t belong there.
💡 E.g. the ball could roll into a tunnel with weird lighting effects and total soundproofing, so players had the sense of being deeply detached from reality, and they’d follow the ball as it trundled along, getting ever more creeped out by eerie sensations they couldn’t quite put their finger on.
Or maybe the ball would go over a low fence into an overgrown graveyard set piece , where the light was oddly enhanced, birds were twittering in the trees, but there was some subliminal audio playing so players felt they were trespassing on some unearthly ground.
It would likely not work on everyone. I remember when Richard Dawkins tried on the God Helmet that stimulates the parts of the brain that generate spiritual experiences, and despite everyone else having LSD-like responses, he had nothing. Maybe he’s just dead inside. Or was lying.
⛳️ Anyway, Liminal Golf. I’d never advocate doing it IRL but for the purposes of this hypothetical, that’s my offering!

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You ever love someone and it hurt so bad

You'll always remember to advocate for and love yourself.
If you've ever read this, you'll know that you can't buy happiness. But
Money can make you feel happy
But it's temporary too
Everyone experiences positive and negative emotions in life.
Those lovers just weren't right.
Don't mistreat yourself.
Do not abuse others.
Treat them with respect and kindness. We've all had difficult times, and there will always be a hole in our hearts, but love yourself and love others. Don't cut, don't kill, and don't criticize.
Don't do drugs, don't starve yourself, and don't starve others.
We're not supposed to do anything like that. Just keep your faith and don't change because you've been told that all the love in the world won't be enough.
You ever love someone and it hurt so bad

Petition to get rid of shout-out messages, VIP badge and other lame stuff from @askfm which caused it to become a boring platform. 🤦🏻🚩

Ahmednorthowed’s Profile PhotoAhmed Mac
Nah, I rather spend my time sleeping than advocate for temporary and worthless changes. If I dislike how the platform works, I just take myself out. Simple. One has to know how to pick his/her batles.

Poproszę dobry utwór/utwory playlisty whatever, cierpię na brak nowej muzyki

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mogę wypisać tutaj parę utworów których słucham (••)/
• the weeknd - after hours
• pr1nce666, monrxe - dark moon dancing
• banana shake - bao (sped up)
• the neighbourhood - softcore
• the neighbourhood - devil's advocate
• sunmi - tail
• rick james - super freak
• tears for fears - everybody wants to rule the world
Poproszę dobry utwórutwory playlisty whatever cierpię na brak nowej muzyki

What is one trend you think is stupid?

When people advocate for something but can't answer simple questions about that thing. If you have no knowledge or don't understand what it is you're agreeing with then why speak on the subject at all? If you want to understand different views, I get that but blindly supporting an opinion cause it's "politically correct" makes no sense to me

What is postmodernism and how is it affecting our society?

Postmodernism: Understanding the Roots of Wokeness - By Adam Vicari
You may have noticed that, especially in the last few years, western civilization, and American society generally, seems to have plunged into an abyss of insanity, depravity, and general confusion. With the introduction to concepts like “Critical Race Theory” or “Gender Theory” to the national discourse, and with words being created seemingly out of thin air, like “heteronormative,” “pan-sexual,” “non-binary,” and the prefix, ”cis-,” society has been pushed closer and closer to the edge of national disunity and societal insanity.
The fact that men and women are now being referred to not as “male” or “female,” but “cis-male” and “cis-female” by not only professional idiots who happen to be gender studies majors or bitter middle-aged lesbian feminist college professors, but by major corporations who make the sodas you drink at barbecues or who manufactured the car you drive or even by a legendary company beloved by children for decades that was, until recently, an institution in and of itself, is an indication of just how far our society has fallen. And, indeed, “Doctor” Jill Biden’s latest speech at the “Latinx Incluxion” luncheon, in which she made a gaffe that would cause any average peon to be completely demolished and ostracized, blackballed, and character assassinated by American Pravda (CNN, MSNBC), is just the latest example of America’s collective mental breakdown.
While all this woke nonsense and linguistic gibberish may make it sound like the people uttering these ridiculous words had a stroke, rest assured, these words are being used not by accident, or not just to be sensitive to the “feelings” of others, but to, quite literally, erase reality itself. This absurd babel did not just spontaneously emerge within the last few years, but is deeply rooted in an academic theory that has been applied to multiple disciplines since at least the 1960s, known as “postmodernism.”
In essence, the theory of postmodernism literally rejects the ideas of objective reality and truth itself. Postmodernism was born out of the psychotic mind of radical French philosopher Jacques Derrida, who was the primary and original advocate for a line of thinking known as “deconstruction.” The goal of the Deconstructionists was to essentially blur or erase the lines between fact and fiction, reality and fantasy, and, from their perspective, there was no such thing as absolute truth, objective reality, or fundamental morality, it was all relative, subject to the interpretation of the individual and/or his social group or community. In a phrase, these lunatics spawned the idea of “living your truth.”
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What do you think about Feminism?

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This is like asking “what do you think of people?” Feminists are all genders, from all generations, across all cultures and demographics. They aren’t homogenous so my opinion of ‘feminists’ isn’t homogenous either.
I support and appreciate feminists that actively advocate for women's rights on the grounds of the equality of the sexes… and I facepalm and deplore those who spout misandry or seek hypocritical goals (that don’t align with equality) because they make life harder than it needs to be for those who seek genuine equality.
The feminist-misandrists give anti-feminists an excuse to dismiss the entire push for equal rights by straw-manning the worst sorts of behaviour (and wholesale applying them to the term ‘feminists’ which can be frustrating) while the feminists who post “kill all men” or exclusionist nonsense (like TERF’s & SWERF’s)… don’t look so bright when they go on to announce that they want equality…
I think equality of the sexes on the basis of gender is still an admirable goal so even though some feminists distort the message into something awful, the onus is on myself and other feminists to try to live up to the ideal of a truly equal society. I can’t control what they do - only what I do.
Ultimately, I think of feminists in the same way as I think of people → I support some because their idea of equality aligns with mine and I don’t support others because I disapprove of their methods and goals.

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“Those who advocate for stricter gun control measures *never* make a distinction between legally and illegally obtained firearms“ The man involved in the school shooting got his gun legally though?

It would appear that he did but this does not negate the fact which I mentioned. Interestingly enough, no mention is ever made of the fact that over 31% of *legal* firearm owners have thwarted criminal activity, saved countless lives and made other positive contributions to their communities. To put things in perspective, we are talking of about 1.6 million incidents and we must ask ourselves why this information is being withheld from the public. Is it possible that there is an irrational fear of firearms which drives the gun control agenda? Moreover, if the perpetrator had the criminal intent to commit a horrible act and the law prevented him from acquiring those firearms legally, what law would have prevented him from obtaining them illegally? As everyone knows, illegal firearms are available on the black market and no prohibition has ever worked - not for alcohol, not for drugs and it certainly won't work for firearms. Someone will always fill the demand. Again, firearms aren't the problem. The person who holds them and wishes to harm others is where our focus should be. Moreover, we now know that he had a lengthy history of making v!olent threats, t0rturing animals and apparently, he was being monitored by the authorities for nearly one year. This begs the question: why didn't they intervene? He made his intentions clear on several sites. Was he purposely allowed to carry on in order to incite more calls for gun control? The entire matter seems highly suspicious. Let's consider that the entry to the school was left wide open and unguarded, the security was conveniently away, the local police took almost one hour to enter the school and they attempted to prevent Federal law enforcement (ICE Agents) from entering the building. It was one of those agents who finally managed to enter and take him down. Lastly, how was this "broke" teenager able to afford *thousands of dollars* in weapons and ammunition? There are too many questions and as I have previously stated, a thorough investigation is in order. There is no law or restriction which would have prevented this horror but clearly, there were numerous contributing factors and we deserve reasonable answers.

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“the primary objective has always been to disarm the population and leave us weak and vulnerable” How is that the primary objective when it’s so easy to get a gun?

> How is that the primary objective when it’s so easy to get a gun?
This is a myth. In the first place, it is not "easy to get a gun" unless it's obtained illegally. Those who advocate for stricter gun control measures *never* make a distinction between legally and illegally obtained firearms. Secondly, licensing and registration are required for legally acquired firearms. In many states, there is nothing "easy" about this process and in some states, it is practically impossible to obtain a firearm through legal means. This is *unconstitutional* and a clear violation of The Second Amendment. Lastly, it is the primary objective because whenever an incident occurs, the only "solution" which is offered by gun control advocates is to ban *all* firearms. They aren't even denying it at this point. They have also invented the fiction "assault weapon" which does *NOT* exist. Firearms are either *automatic* which are illegal to own or sell, or *single shot* and *semi-automatic* which *are* legal. Let's acquaint ourselves with the *facts* before we opine further...

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I just saw mental health advocate on your profile. I am having a bad day. Love of my life of 6 years left me. Its been two years. I am struggling alot and still can not get over it. What would you suggest?

perhaps it's time to talk to a therapist about your feelings, how to cope with them, and come to terms with the breakup. therapy is very helpful.

I'm sure more people would be pro life if the country actually cared about parents and kids. The govt. doesn't do anything to help parents, maternity leave is unpaid. If they want to ban abortions (which I strongly disagree with) they should at least do more for parents and their children.

That's exactly my point. Shaming women on the internet for having abortions (or just for feeling a certain way about abortions) but doing nothing to help fix the main cause or at the very least advocate for a change, is pro-birth & not pro-life. It's a pos move & is exactly what the other anon is doing.
I don't shame women for getting abortions just bc I don't believe in them & it genuinely makes me happy to be raising a newborn rn even though he's not mine & even though I likely won't get to be his mother figure forever. I'm gonna help for as long as my help is needed & i'll always advocate for proper care & help for new / expectant mothers.

What's one thing you wish more people knew about you?

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i am very much mentally ill, and although i have my illnesses under control for a majority of the time, that doesn't mean i'm the pinnacle of mental health. i have very unhealthy coping mechanisms. i'm often depressed and impulsive. and as much as i advocate for the awareness and understanding of mental health, people shouldn't look to me as an "example" because i'm not a good representation of someone with good mental health.

If someone you know in real real life impersonated you on the internet and made fake accounts of you to try to ruin your reputation what would you do? Would you press charges on them?

Do you have evidence?
Can you prove what you are saying is the truth?
Do you have:
- accurate account information and reliable user account identification?
- digital foot print i.e. source ip address or source mac address?
- photographs and text messages that can be used in a court of law?
- what international law has been violated?
Remember, various countries have implemented legal measures to address these types of issues within the confines of their sovereign nations, but the international community has not codified into law impersonation involving fake askfm accounts unless a serious crime that involves death or extortion has been committed. Also consider that the burden of proof is the responsibility of the plaintiff and their lawyers and all associated legal fees are the responsibility of the plaintiff. These fee's can easily reach in excess of $100k.
I recall reading a similar story a few years ago that took place in Madrid, Spain. The plaintiff went to the police in Madrid and attempted to file a criminal complaint against an askfm user located in Canada. The case was dismissed because the source ip address of the accused was located in Germany and did not match the digital footprint that the alleged victim had provided to the police.
Keep in mind that proving cases like this is extremely difficult because local police lack the resources required to conduct a proper forensic investigation and international laws are either vague or do not currently exist to cover cases involving fraudulent accounts, name calling, insults, racism, etc. on social networks such as askfm, tumblr, twitter, etc.
But hey, if you have $20,000+ dollars to waste on legal fees, why not proceed so you can learn how the legal system operates and perhaps you can become an advocate to champion the necessary changes to affect international law to prosecute askfm users who roleplay, create fake accounts and utilize your photographs without explicit permission.
Perhaps you might avoid these situations if you stop posting personal information on social networks or maybe even consider disabling your askfm, instagram, twitter and facebook accounts and do something more productive with your life like: graduating from college, obtain a job, volunteer are a homeless kitchen, adopt a child or (heaven forbid) help a neighbor or friend or family member who is suffering and needs help.
Good Luck!

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i'm a 30-year-old bisexual, non-binary person. i'm a mental health advocate, stemming from my own experiences with mental illnesses from a very young age. i write and edit for a publishing company for a living, and i hold a bachelor's degree in professional writing with a minor in english literature.
additionally, i quit smoking cigarettes in 2019 after smoking a pack a day for ten years, and i recently quit drinking alcohol as of january 4th.

Are you currently going to therapy sessions? Sorry, if it's personal, ignore it.

I will answer, simply because as a mental health advocate I want to do my part in destigmatizing and normalizing therapy:
I'm currently shopping around for a new therapist. I want to increase my quality of care and not have to bounce between different ones before I find one I feel supports me properly.

What do you feel that people need to remember in life?

Remember that your true potential is unlimited and you should strive for the highest expression of yourself as possible. Everything ends. The only way to combat that dreadfully sorrowful inevitability, is to make good memories. Go out, and make good memories. Love isn't real, it's a chemical reaction in the brain, that others can and will use to take advantage of you. Protect yourself at all costs.
No one really gives a fuck, they too busy caring about themselves and looking after their own lives, and even if they do it doesn't really change anything. Life has a shite ton of suffering, and most people will not understand your struggles. Nothing is coming to save you, not jesus, gods, the list goes on. you are your own savior, yes it sounds cheesy but its very true. also, our dreams/desires don't always work out, but it may show you a new better path.
It is almost impossible to thrive if you continuously surround yourself with bad people. Don't try to fix relationships that you didn't have to start and that you'd better end long time ago.
No matter what you do or who you are, nothing will go to plan. Vacations, jobs, whatever. That's where the fun is in life.
If you’re working towards it, give it time. Nothing is instant and you can’t stress your way throughlife. That’s not a way to live.
Being a failure is still better than being a quitter.
You are wrong a lot of the time. Try to get out of your own head and listen to other people. What you are experiencing is only a version of reality filtered in your own mind. Life can be so different (and better) if you change perspective and actively create your new self.
There are exactly two types of people. Those who are good, and those who are rewarded for being good. You cannot just surround yourself with people that reinforce your echo chamber. You have to listen to people and challenge your own points of views. Play devil's advocate on everything. Ask yourself why you feel the ways that you feel. You cannot connect with people and maintain those connections if you do NOT quiet your own thoughts and consider others.
Enjoy everything while it lasts and never stop dreaming. You’ll never get those moments back,
There's really no point in doing anything in life, because it's all over in the blink of an eye. We could wake up tomorrow, and could all go to hell. There will probably always, to some extent, be that feeling, this could all end tomorrow.
As an athlete you rely on the health of your body, and as we all know, that can stop from one moment to the next.
That life doesn't matter you have make it matter for yourself.
Just because you love someone doesn't mean they are going to treat you right.

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La femme doit elle obéir à son mari?

Only if the husband also serves the wife without question. Marriage should be equal. Noone the master and noone the slave. So no. A marriage where one serves the other without question is not a marriage. It's a disfunctional relationship and should be ended as soon as possible.
My husband is actually not a Christian, but just today demonstrated a very nice example of taking leadership in a situation that required it. I have a very bad strain of Lyme disease that was staved off with only two weeks of an antibiotic and my doctor refused to give me more. So the Lyme comes back occasionally and flares up with arthritis-like symptoms in my hip. It usually only lasts 1-2 days and then I'm back to normal and completely pain-free for a year or more. It's back right now with a vengeance, and I keep sitting on a big stuffed couch all curled up and then trying to move and thinking "Crap... my hip is locked... this is extremely painful... and I am stuck." Getting in/out of a vehicle is especially tricky and my husband has had to pull me out of chairs a couple times since yesterday. I AM 27 YEARS OLD AND MOVING LIKE I'M 90!! Very frustrating. A big family party was planned for today and I was planning to spend the day cooking and visiting. Without telling me, my husband quietly texted his mom and told her we won't be there today. Now while I wish he had talked to me first about it, and while I was mad he cancelled when we already said we'd be there, when I think about how my day has suddenly transformed to sitting quietly not having to cook or run around all day, I'm grateful for his leadership and the way he took command of the situation. He knew I WANTED to go. He also knew that I really CAN'T go. Sometimes you need someone else to look out for you and be an advocate for you when you don't advocate for yourself. When the husband is thinking in the best interests of his wife, the dual roles leadership and following can really be a joyful thing.
My parents are a fantastic example of this. My stepdad is absolutely the leader, and though it was completely against every instinct of hers, my mom had learned to submit. It doesn't mean that he micro manages every decision that she makes, nor does it mean that she keeps all opinions and ideas to herself. He values the God in her just as much as the God in himself and trusts the Lord to confirm things within both of them. He's ultimately the one to make the decision, and in their early years, there were a couple of times where he had to go against what she said to make sure they obeyed God. I know that once they were there though, the Lord dealt with her and she got on board real quick. There is so much love and respect between them that submitting to him is no issue and valuing her, and her opinions, comes naturally.

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Whats something 'common' you hate the most?

'Misandry' in the name of 'Feminism'.
💌 I feel man-hating is something all silly creatures internalize very quickly as if it's a fundamental step to become a feminist, 'equalist' or an activist / advocate of rights of sorts. Be it randomly degrading, trolling or throwing titles online or taking a dig at them in public.. And oh let's not forget about the false accusations, allegations & lawsuits that few poor innocent men have to battle with when defaming reports are legally filed against them, how they're & can be easily victimized & tortured because of the power which is unjustified & given to pseudo-feminists. Women aren't the naive victims always, they can be very, very malicious if they are evil or when they decide to become evil.
The main problem / root cause is our unjust-hypocrite-diplomatic & bias Society! Old dysfunctioned societies created baseless & irrational stereotypes, stigmas / taboos & traditions that have been & still are being penetrated to our minds. Just like woman they put an intense pressure, duty / responsibility over men as well & that's why everyone expect a lot from each other!
Somehow people ignore or maybe just don't care about men because they 'expect' them to be strong, dominating & act 'masculine'.. Men have feelings, they can be a victim & they can be fragile, feminine vulnerable too & it's not bad nor it should be looked as strange, weird or abnormal.. Stop treating men so insensitively. Men aren't aliens, after all they're human beans as well.
Don't expect men (or any other living entity) to 'act' or behave in a certain / typical way or manner all the time!
(i.e Don't expect men to be 'manly' / 'macho' or expect them to earn more than their spouses & dominate them to not fall in the category of 'puppets' or get the most humiliating title of being a 'rann / zann mureed') when they're not & are in their best state of mind or are going through an extremely tough phase at that time.
🔗Abba (Adam) needed Ama Hawwaa (Eve). It's a fact that Allah swt created a 'Man' first but woman was, is & will forever be his creature's need, she's never a slave & it's a fact too! They complete each other. We can still grow without pushing each other down, we all need each other to evolve, thrive & live happily!
I believe a woman is strong, powerful & influential enough to cause a war but she can lead to victory too! The very first woman (eve) was the reason why we all came into existence & apparently she's the reason why & how this chaotic world and humanity began. ➰ According to Bible & Our Holy Book Quran; "The Lord God formed man of the dust of the ground & breathed into his nostrils the breath of life; and man became a living soul. God then called the man Adam, and later created Eve from Adam's rib."
Even Adam & Eve's story manifests that after some while a man needed a woman even when he was chilling in Heaven & then he got cancelled by god too while being a 'favorite'.. 💁💟⚡️

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What is something that you can't really lecture someone on because you've done it yourself and would make you look like a hypocrite Example I can't really lecture someone on fighting in school because I've done that myself?

i think people don't know what hypocrite means and think that you can't advocate against something just because you've done it in the past. WRONG. it's not hypocritical. you DON'T do that anymore. you're allowed to speak up about it and encourage others to not make the same mistakes you did.

اقتراحاتكم لافلام حلوه؟🤍🌸

ahdmomani’s Profile PhotoA'
_Fermat’s room فيلم بجنن بحكي عن الغاز وغموض وذكاء 💙
_Incendies فيلم بحكي عن ام اسمها نوال مروان بتترك وصية لولادها بعد موتها انهم يدورو عن اهلها وماضيها بالشرق الاوسط
_the Devil’s advocate آل باتشينو
فيلم بحكي عن محامي شاطر بصير يستخدم المحاماة بالجريمة وطرق غير مشروعة وكيف بالنهايه بتتحول حياته لكابوس

Why is it “easier to fool people than convince them they have been fooled” as Mark Twain said?

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مش قادر أفكر بوضوح دلوقتي خالص، بس ك first instinct و أنا بقرأ السؤال افتكرت في فيلم the devil's advocate الي قاله الشيطان على لسان Al pacino:
"Vanity is definitely my favourite sin".

It has been a while so I thought to do a bit of a question spam for y'all! Do you think we have made enough progress against Covid-19 to begin easing restrictions? Why or why not?

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There is some progress happening with the vaccines, but it's hardly fast enough. Don't wanna play the devil's advocate here, but.................doesn't look as good. Especially with all the people that just decide they had enough of covid and just travel around, go on demos and parties and such...
That's just irresponsible in times like these.

What to do if you find yourself the only one to invest in a relationship or friendship? When the other person is not investing back as much as you do.

"What to do if you find yourself the only one to invest in a relationship or friendship?"
respect myself enough, and leave the relationship/friendship gracefully.
"When the other person is not investing back as much as you do."
well, my dear anon (and readers), you know yourself best. if the other person is not investing back as much as you do, you are only going to tire yourself out.
I've experienced this so many times. but know that leaving them is not the end-all. sometimes, after years apart, we reconnect and become closer than before. I'll give you three case examples:
1. secondary-high school best friend: we’ve been best friends for so long. we literally grew up together, and I am close to her family. in 2017, I had to block her on social media after sending her a lengthy apology. she was blocked from my instagram for about three years until I decided, I’m okay now. I can unblock her.
she followed me almost instantly. I followed her back.
I needed those three years apart because as much as I loved her back then, her online presence was way too triggering for me. I was recovering from a lot, and I needed to prioritise my mental health.
now that we’re in 2021, we’re stronger and closer than ever.
2. university best friend: the closest person and friend I made in uni. he and I are friends who have become family now. a lot has happened between us, but I have no regrets. our traumas and vulnerabilities make us stronger, and better individuals.
it took me three years to be okay with messaging him online, and an additional year to reach out and meet him in person again. it’s been a long journey, but hey? we’re better for it. we message each other almost everyday now. he replies my stories and lets me rant or vent at any hour of the day. I am his cheerleader and fangirl, always sending him memes and cute photos of his favourite animal whenever I come across one on my tumblr or instagram.
3. an askfm soul sister: I’ve made so many friends-turned-sisters on my seven years here. I love her, I really do, but she needs to learn how to grow on her own. I was so proud of her progress (I still am), but until she told me something that I believed to be detrimental to her wellbeing, I had to stop.
I told her my truths and left her with my prayers.
I’ll always be here for her when she needs me. we still follow each other on social media. but right now, I love the space and peace I have without having to worry about her. as an advocate for mental health, it’s so important to prioritise yourself. yes, you want to be there for the people who need your comfort — but you need to be there for yourself too. ☺️😌
all the best with your relationship/friendships dear anon. I hope everything works out for you. remember to be kind and patient to yourself okay? *sending you my positive vibes and virtual hugs* 🦋🌈✨
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Do you believe in reincarnation?

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Despite being an Atheist, I actually assume there may be some(!) form of reincarnation.
I believe in the existence of the consciousness. Intelligence is too complex a thing to have been created without sth beyond the normal laws of physics. I don't advocate the existence of God but I do presume there might be a higher power (maybe existing in what the scientists these days call Dark Matter). And I think it's indestructible, so it could recreate itself in form of concentrated intelligence that's life.
How about you, do you believe in it?
Do you believe in reincarnation

I definitely agree with everything you just said there I have done a bit of biblical history study and I know that a lot of the old Sanskrit writings went through three different translations before English and words had been added that's why I'm not much of an advocate when it comes to words of man

I totally agree with you there!! I don’t follow scriptures that have been re-written and updated.. I like looking into the original works. Words have been used to mislead and misguide masses nowadays ??
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I saw a twitter post of an lgbtq advocate na "kapag hindi kita nakikita nakikipagdate or jowa ng effem gay guy e effemphobic ka sa paningin ko." It doesn't sound right. It's a preference e. Like prefernece mo na mag date ng borta, twink or chubby.

Let people have their limited and illogical views. Parang sinabi mo na rin na kung hindi ka nakikitang kumakain ng karne, vegetarian ka na. It doesn't make sense. But we don't have to correct everything we see. People are entitled to their logic.

Today is international day of persons with disabilities. What's something you feel people should know about either disabilities in general, people with disabilities or a specific disability?

-- people aren't "lesser than" or wanting of sympathy for having a disability, regardless of what that disability is. the fact that able-bodied people treat disabled people differently is demeaning.
-- mental disabilities are just as debilitating as physical disabilities, especially considering many mental illnesses manifest themselves as physical symptoms too.
-- the amount of ableism is society today, worldwide, is absolutely ridiculous, which is why i've always been an advocate of disability rights. it's so difficult for people to obtain disability benefits from the government for absurd reasons.
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Je podle vás správné, když herec nebo režisér přijde o kariéru, protože ho manželka nebo jiné ženy obviní z násilí či sexuálního obtěžování?

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Ako som povedal pár dní dozadu F tha bitch Amber Heard.
Kde je cancel culture teraz. Zbytočný sú už dosť teraz by boli aspoň na niečo.
Ale aby to nebolo len o nej.
Wesley Snipes je známy že sa správa pri natáčaní ako absolutný dickhead a chodil aj ožratý... Napriek tomu mal ešte role aj keď v menších filmoch.
Nemyslím si že je nutné aby prišli o kariéru úplne všetci čo sa doma správali jak kokoti. Určite je mnoho hercov a celebrít ktoré majú toxické manželstvá že je to až nechutné len to nevyšlo na povrch.
Ale myslím si že by bolo fajn nejak sa k tomu aj postaviť. Amber Heard je najodpudivejšia žena akú som kedy videl a jej face jej nepomáha. Johny Depp stratil angažmá a ona ignoruje petíciu kde sa vyzbieralo extrémne vela podpisou aby odišla z Aquamena. Vysmieva sa tomu a nikto jej nič nemôže. Zvláštne. Takto by feminizmus fungovať nemal však že.
Je to sick shit. Že sa mu vysrala na postel a bodla ho nožom a on ešte príde nakoniec o kariéru je ako fakt humus.
Sledujem jednu ženu a ona robí "advocate for a men". A povedala tam jednu krásnu vetu.
"If man advocate men it sounds like fuckin chauvinism but if woman advocate women its power and unity?".
And that shit is sooooooooooo true.
Už ak žena sa rozhodne robiť "obhájcu mužov" pritom bola vo vzťahu kde ju muž mlátil týral a nakoniec od neho ušla aj s dieťaťom tak prosteee.. asi neni všetko allright ani na strane mužského postavenia v spoločnosti.

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salah ga si kalo dalam hubungan cewe yg lebih dewasa dalam pemikiran, bisa mikir jauh dan sabar, sementara cowonya bocah bgt dikit2 bete dan kadang marahnya anak kecil bgt, atau ada cara mengatasinya?

Aku mau coba jadi devil's advocate di sini dan bilang bahwa... mungkin, mungkin saja, kamu (si wanita yang lebih dewasa dan sabar) cuma dewasa dan sabar dalam penglihatanmu sendiri. Aslinya kamu cuma bocah.
Soalnya ya, kalau kamu sunggguhan dewasa dan sabar, kamu takkan:
1. Bertanya apakah salah kalau wanita lebih dewasa dan sabar;
2. Mengeluhkan betapa bocahnya lelakimu;
3. Mengaku kalau kamu lebih dewasa dan lebih sabar di dalam hubunganmu;
4. Menanyakan solusi kepada orang asing di internet, dalam bentuk shoutout ketimbang spesifik satu orang, dan secara anonim ketimbang terbuka.
Jadi sebelum aku jawab pertanyaanmu, coba kamu introspeksi diri dulu. Fakta bahwa kamu bertanya di Ask.fm saja sudah lebih seperti bocah SMP ketimbang actual orang dewasa. Mungkin malah kamu yang tolol, dan pantas saja lelakimu sering BT serta marahnya seperti anak kecil... karena dia juga sedang berhadapan dengan anak kecil.
Sekarang ke pertanyaanmu.
Jawaban dari pertanyaanmu pun mencerminkan betapa bocahnya kamu sih.
Kalau kamu mengerti dunia lelaki, ada satu hal mutlak yang pasti selalu terjadi: lelaki tak dapat mengekspresikan emosinya. Tidak pada temannya, tidak pada keluarganya, dan kadang bahkan bisa tidak pada kekasihnya. Ini adalah budaya patriarki yang melekat entah dari zaman kapan, bahwa yang boleh mengutarakan emosi dalam bentuk apa pun hanyalah wanita. Lelaki saja kalau senang tetap harus kelihatan netral atau bahkan membuang perasaan itu jauh-jauh karena tidak sopan lah, tidak formal lah, tidak profesional lah, dan sebagainya.
Cuma satu emosi yang boleh diutarakan oleh lelaki: marah. For some fucking reason, budaya menganggap lelaki agresif-tukang-marah itu normal. Budaya menormalisasi lelaki suka marah-marah dan selalu serius. Dan kamu tahu? Depresi itu ada dua macam: eksternal dan internal. Kalau kamu sedih-menangis sampai mata bengkak, itu internal. Yang eksternal? Kamu jadi sering marah, dendam, sinis, dan sebagainya. Mayoritas lelaki kalau lagi sedih atau depresi, pelariannya ke marah. Namun sekali lagi, itu pun kadang dipendam karena semua orang memandang lelaki sebagai makhluk tak beremosi, dan tidak baik bagi mereka untuk mengekspresikan emosi.
Nah, jadi kalau lelakimu sering BT dan marah kayak anak bocah, ada dua hal yang perlu kamu perhatikan:
1. Lelakimu percaya dengan kamu, nyaman dengan kamu, sampai akhirnya dia berani mengekspresikan emosinya kepadamu. Lalu kamu kayak "Ini kenapa si bangsat kayak bocah anjing kok BT terus, marah terus?!";
2. Lelakimu ada fucking masalah. Entah masalah sepele yang membuatnya sedih, atau masalah internal yang benar-benar dipendam dalam sehingga dia lebih butuh psikolog ketimbang kamu.
Kenapa, kamu, wahai wanita dewasa dan sabar, berpikir bahwa marah dan BT adalah tanda-tanda kebocahan lelakimu, ketimbang tanda-tanda bahwa dia ada fucking masalah? Harus seegois apa dirimu sehingga kamu dengan sombongnya bilang bahwa kamu yang lebih dewasa dan lebih sabar?
Dasar bocah.

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Is it okay to admit if you have a mental illness? Who is it okay to tell and not tell? If you have one, are you ever afraid of how someone might react?

in an ideal world, it would be perfectly okay and encouraged to be truthful about mental illnesses. i advocate for erasing the stigma against mental illness, because there's so much that exists that it's sometimes unsafe for people to reveal their illness.
so it's obviously okay to tell someone you're mentally ill, as long as it doesn't put you in a position of harm.
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if you're such an advocate for wrapping willies, why don't married couples don't get any diseases even though they do it raw many times

Sexually transmitted diseases (STD) have no limitations. Whether you're single, married or returning to the midlife dating game, STDs are caused by infections that are passed from one person to another during sexual contact.
Now, for the “advocate for wrapping willies” part— bruh, get a life for fuck’s sake. I’m not running a ‘wrap your dicks, people’ campaign or something, I just answered a question. Y’all get pressed on everything these days.
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Iqra, what is your opinion on the fact that the animalistic rape of an innocent woman managed only to get a crowd of 300 people at best in Punjab to protest about the situation, whereas over 1 million showed up in Karachi today in an anti-Shia rally calling for a brutal massacre of all Shias?

Qayamat aa rahi hai bhai, aur koi baat nai. It enrages me how our government is not doing anything about the Shia genocide, minorities are being killed and I don’t even want talk about all the shit the sunni extremists are pulling. I was honestly so shocked and disturbed when I opened Twitter to see the amount of people gathered for the anti-Shia rally. Aur saray maulvi Shias pe baat aati hai tou do do haath fatway jaari karte hain but I have NEVER seen any of them advocate against rape or genocide. It makes me so so so angry that all of this is happening with the women and minorities in our country and the authorities refuse to step up and do something about it. In se sab se pehle pooch ho gi on the day of resurrection. Islam does not allow you to force your beliefs on someone else. Aur rahi baat hamare mulk ke mard hazraat ki tou the only thing I’ve ever seen them raise hell about is feminism. Baaki sab baatoun pe aa ke in ki bakwaas band ho jaati hai. We have failed as a society and as an ummah. Ya Allah reham.

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Do you believe in this line , " when you give lot of importance and time to someone in your life, you lose your importance in their life?" 🙃🙃🙃

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Well actually its not permanent what you are trying to force in there, so it is not about importanve its the feelings maybe, but as much as I advocate on that, I feel nothing myself, so no idea.

Ai putea povesti putin despre ceea ce te atrage in legatura cu personalitatea lui Erik? Te intreb pentru ca te urmaresc de foarte mult timp si esti efectiv o sclipire de succes si incredere in sine:))) Cu siguranta a avut si el un impact, cat de mic

O gramada:)) E super bun la debate si mereu priveste o situatie din toate unghiurile( lucru rar intalnit), uneori e chiar the devil's advocate just for fun:)) E pasionat de multe subiecte, de la filosofie la medicina si mereu, dar absolut mereu, e deschis la idei/concepte noi si la schimbare, motiv pentru care nu am avut niciodata o cearta naspa. Intotdeauna reflecteaza asupra comportamentului lui, isi asuma vina si mereu reuseste sa schimbe ce nu era ok la el. N as spune neaparat ca a avut un impact, doar a accentuat niste chestii care deja erau acolo
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Out of the positive emotions of compassion, positivity, enthusiasm and initiative, which one is your biggest strength?

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my biggest strength out of those listed is compassion. i have immense compassion for others, especially those who struggle with mental health conditions and other disabilities, and i've tried to be an advocate for those who have no voice and for illnesses that are greatly misunderstood.

Great topic to talk about em! Vấn đề chị muốn đặt ra trong chuyện nữ quyền dựa trên trải nghiệm của mình: Là làm sao mình có thể đem cái thông tin bình đẳng nam nữ trong gia đình, môi trường làm việc và xã hội đến những cá nhân chưa từng tiếp xúc hay chưa quen với suy nghĩ đó (như ba, mẹ chị).

Cảm ơn chị vì câu hỏi quá chất lượng này.
Một cách ngắn gọn thì câu trả lời của em là không, mình sẽ không cố gắng ép buộc ai tiếp nhận suy nghĩ hay quan điểm gì cả. Biết là nghe rất tự vả nhưng mong là chị kiên nhẫn đọc tiếp.
Thứ nhất, em hiểu ý chị muốn nói khi đề cập đến nâng cao nhận thức về bình đẳng giới thiên về feminism - thì em là người không có expertise gì cả trong xã hội học hay nhân chủng học, nên em xin nhường lại cho những ai đang hoạt động xã hội về lĩnh vực này lên tiếng. Dù em HOÀN TOÀN TIN rằng những gì họ đang làm là cần thiết và đúng đắn, nhưng cách tiếp cận của em sẽ khác.
Thứ hai, em nhìn bình đẳng giới dưới góc nhìn leadership và interpersonal relationship: ngắn gọn là nếu mình giỏi, mình đúng, mình hay, không có mình thì không thành công được, thì người ta sẽ phải tôn trọng mình, lắng nghe mình, tin tưởng và theo sau (follow) mình, cho lợi ích của cá nhân họ và lợi ích của cả tập thể thoai. Nói cách khác, thay vì dùng những khái niệm mơ hồ đầy tính giáo điều gây khó chịu cho người nghe (và chắc chắn là họ sẽ không nghe), hay những số liệu cụ thể nhưng xa lạ (phụ nữ bị trả lương thấp hơn, ít được lên báo hơn, ít được nhận giải này nọ, ít ngồi vào vị trí lãnh đạo etc), thì em tin vào con đường khiến mọi người tự thay đổi nhận thức và quan điểm hơn, for their own interests. Vì deep down I believe everyone should, and does believe in core principles of humanity such as fairness and justice. Trước pháp luật, giàu nghèo là như nhau, giới tính, màu da, địa vị không còn quan trọng nữa. Sai là sai, đúng là đúng, em tin là sâu thẳm con người tử tế nào cũng tin vào điều đó.
[Lan man giờ mới trực tiếp trả lời câu hỏi nè] Khi mà có nhiều lãnh đạo, những người có tầm ảnh hưởng trên khắp các lĩnh vực là nữ, thì tiếng nói của nữ giới nói chung sẽ mạnh mẽ hơn lắm và có sức nặng hơn nhiều. Because they have no other choice. Ví dụ 1: như mẹ em, không phải là con cả trong nhà, có nhiều anh chị nhưng ông ngoại em đến giờ thì nghe mẹ em nhất, có gì cũng hỏi, cũng nghe. Mọi người khác trong nhà cũng vậy. Mà ông ngoại em là 90 tuổi rồi nha chị :)) Vì sao lại vậy? Vì mẹ em đúng, mẹ em giỏi, mẹ em đáng tin tưởng, vậy thôi. Ví dụ 2: tuy em chưa làm được gì to tát, nhưng giờ chị nghĩ có ai nói ba mẹ em không có con trai là thất bại nữa không :)) có ai dám bảo con gái không được gì nữa không? Mình phải làm sao để họ muốn phủ nhận cũng không phủ nhận được, mà nếu cố chấp phủ nhận thì là sai lè lè là không có lí lẽ đó :))
Nên cái em muốn tìm hiểu là làm sao để đưa được nhiều cá nhân xứng đáng là nữ đến được thành công. Một ví dụ điển hình là việc phụ nữ không đòi hỏi (như tăng lương) và khi họ có đòi, thì hay bị socially punished và fail. Trong khi đàn ông đòi hỏi là bình thường. Nhưng khi phụ nữ đòi hỏi để advocate cho những người khác chứ không chỉ riêng họ, thì kết quả tốt hơn hẳn. Thì đó là một cách mà mình có thể chế ngự được những bất lợi đối với phụ nữ khi làm việc, và là thứ mà em tin là nên có nhiều nhiều người quan tâm.

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Teachers who used to tell their students that they won’t be carrying around a calculator in their pockets when they’re older...how do you feel now?

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I’m definitely not using any of the higher math I suffered through in school, and wouldn’t be even if I were working. I do understand why some of it is taught, but at age 9-15 much of it is honestly unnecessary. When I entered college, I had remembered absolutely no algebra from elementary and secondary school and had to start over from the beginning. What a massive waste of time. High schools need to start focusing more on life skills such as business math, budgeting, financial planning, credit, taxes, cooking (basic math and chemistry included), safety, health/mental health management, sex ed, career planning, and more. Those who want to pursue the much higher maths due to career goals may absolutely do so, but it should not take priority over life skills. Math nerds will riot over this answer, but I don’t care. 😘 My classmates and I had hours of homework every night and on the weekends, and for what? Most of them are selling candles and oils or working in vocational trades (something I advocate heavily - trades are vital). I’ll stop there, but I could go on about this for a long time. I have big opinions about education.

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