actually i realized that toxic families will try to gaslight or manipulate you so that you become closer to them, but they just disregard the reasons why you are not close to them or why you are so quiet to them
Nangyayari nga yung ganun, yung they make it seem more like you care more about your friends, about your hobbies and interests than you do with your family, and that you're the one distancing yourself from them. They don't try to understand you and where you're coming from because they're quick to point things at you, and they automatically put the blame on you.
Good parents are way better than that.
Good parents are way better than that.