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https://ask.fm/shakirasison/answers/171489664772 read this and reflect, madami sa atin sa askfm kasi ganyan. no wonder sila ang magtyatyaga din sa abusive partners

I agree with that. Most of the time it's the victims themselves that are the first to defend their abusers, seemingly justifying their actions and convincing both themselves and others that things are just normal. Like Shakira said, they're in denial and they don't want to face reality and deal with the whole situation. Usually, loved ones din nila yung abusers nila kaya all the more na mahirap sa kanila to confront them and turn against them. Kaya battered wives have a hard time leaving their abusive husbands, and those that have cheating partners choose to forgive them, and worse, tolerate their infidelity.
By the way, yung sinabi ko noon about our parents are trying naman and doing what they think is best for us, kaya lang they can't always get it right, and they fail miserably at times, and that we should do our part in understanding them just as we hope they'd understand us too, para yun sa matitinong parents lang. Like I said then, pag abusive parents na ibang istorya na yan.

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Kapag ba sinabi kong sinungaling ako ibig sabihin nun hindi talaga ako sinungaling? Kasi kung talagang sinungaling ako, ibig sabihin nagsisinungaling lang ako nung sinabi kong sinungaling ako, ibig sabihin hindi talaga ako sinungaling. Pero ibig sabihin nun totoo yung sinabi kong sinungaling ako.🤯

Siguro need mo lang ng matinding sapak para matauhan ka. Call me sinungaling if that won't clear your mind. 😹
Pero seriously, you admitting na singuling ka may be your means of lessening your guilt in advance, and of making people understand you so they'd readily forgive you should they find out you've been lying to them. Ang gulo, pero, whatever, it won't change the fact na sinungaling ka pa rin.

Advice sa inuna halikan kesa label?

I guess more or less you know na ano mas gusto niya o ano talaga pakay niya sayo. If you have no problem with the way things are happening, then continue seeing him, by all means. If ayaw mo nang ganun, then you know what to do.

Why do people lie? esp in relationships regardless if there's a third party involved.

People simply lie because they don't want to be exposed for the fraud that they really are, and because they don't want the other party to know the truth since it will cause their relationship to sour. Siguro iniisip din nila na di naman malalaman ng partner nila mga pinaggagawa nila, and that lying is more convenient than telling the truth and facing the consequences that will surely ensue.
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Isa lang daw ang utak ng tao pero bakit nagdadalawang isip ka? pano nangyari yun?

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The KJ answer would be that "nagdadalawang isip" doesn't mean having two brains, but it is more of an idiom for being undecided and confused.
On the other hand, the not so kJ answer (but the corny one ata) is that we are so utterly confused by things that we actually start to think we have two brains, hence the said term. Corny nga. 😸

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While I believe there are people who really just crave for attention, there are others too who are truly sad, troubled, and just plain exhausted about living. The least we could do then is to try not to be overly judgmental and critical towards them, and instead be more understanding and tolerant, especially since social media may be the only avenue for them to truly express themselves and let everything out.
I do think, however, that there's this thing called too much information, and that not everything has to be broadcasted and shared on social media.
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Galing naman! Diskarte, sipag, st tiyaga lang talaga. Truly there's more than one way of reaching your dreams.
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Ga graduate na ako bukas ng Master's Degree. 🥰🥰

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Is it just me? I don't wanna entertain guys who doesn't know how to communicate, be in-depth with you. Ughhh guys are boring lol

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Yeah, us guys can be dull, boring, and lame.

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