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Society harshly judges those who are estranged from their families, whatever the reasons are. On a first date for example, if you tell someone you don’t talk to your family, it is seen as a major red flag.

That indeed is pretty sad and unfair. Unfortunately, people are just too quick to judge and make assumptions without knowing the complete story.
For those who are estranged from their families then, we can only hope that the right people — the ones who truly matter — will take the time to know them and understand their situation.

Naniniwala kabang money can’t buy happiness?

I say that money can't buy actual happiness, but it can certainly give you reasons to be happy for a while — superficially happy, that is — since it can afford you things and luxuries, and it can make life so much more comfortable and easier.
Besides, true happiness is finding contentment with what you have, discovering your very purpose, and being at peace with yourself and the world around you, things you certainly can't buy in any store.
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in love with my college professor/thesis adviser 🥲 what to dooo

What you should do, I think, is to not do anything about it, except to maybe try and let that feeling fade away in time. You see, even if your professor may possibly return your affection, I know that you know that a relationship with him would be wrong and inappropriate given the fact that you're his student. Plus, this might only become a distraction to you causing you to lose focus on what you originally came to school for, and that is to learn and get that degree.

Any k-drama reco?

More or less my usual recommendations plus a few new and not so new ones: Reply 1988, Twenty Five Twenty One, The Kidnapping Day, Sky Castle, Lie After Lie, My Golden Life, Autumn In My Heart, To. Jenny, The Glory, Extraordinary You, Extracurricular, Extraordinary Attorney Woo, and The Queen's Classroom.

Kwento ka naman about sa childhood memories mo

Sa hometown namin dati, may sapa o yung parang maliit na ilog na malapit lang sa bahay namin. One time, my friends and I decided to go there for a little swim. Kaso bilin ng mama ko na 'di ako dapat maliligo doon kahit kailanman. Eh, naingggit ako sa mga kaibigan kung naliligo kaya I decided to join them. Yun lang, since takot akong mapagalitan, naligo ako na 'di binabasa yung ulo ko.
In any case, life was truly way simpler back then, at masaya na kami maglaro sa paligid-ligid buong araw.

parents who are in denial about being abusive or causing trauma are not worthy to be forgiven

Those kinds of parents definitely don't deserve your forgiveness, but if you don't want to be forever weighed down by all the loathing and anger in your heart, and if you wish to give yourself a chance to move on and live a more normal life, you're going to have to slowly find it in your heart to forgive them. Diyos na ang bahala sa kanila.
Now, I know it's not easy especially since there's no escaping all the trauma and the bad memories, but it's something you need to do eventually. Again, you don't want to spend the rest of your life full of anger resentment, and forever harboring hatred in your heart.

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You are allowed to divorce an abusive spouse, but divorcing an abusive parent? Not so much.

That's because in a marriage, there's a contract between spouses so it needs a legal remedy like divorce and annulment should the parties involved wish to end it. As for our parents, we have no such contract, but it doesn't mean we're forever doomed under their "care" should they happen to be abusive.

Savage lyrics you listened?

I don't know if the lyrics to this song are savage or offensive, but I do remember my female friend once raised her eyebrows at me when she saw its words.
"You're such an inspiration for the ways
That I'll never ever choose to be
Oh so many ways for me to show you
How your savior has abandoned you
F*ck your God
Your Lord and your Christ
He did this
Took all you had and
Left you this way
Still you pray, you never stray
Never taste of the fruit
You never thought to question why
It's not like you killed someone
It's not like you drove a hateful spear into his side
Praise the one who left you
Broken down and paralyzed
He did it all for you
He did it all for you
Oh so many many ways for me to show you
How your dogma has abandoned you
Pray to your Christ, to your god
Never taste of the fruit
Never stray, never break
Never choke on a lie
Even though he's the one who did this to you
You never thought to question why
Not like you killed someone
It's not like you drove a spiteful spear into his side
Talk to Jesus Christ
As if he knows the reasons why
He did it all for you
Did it all for you
He did it all for you"
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Its my birthday today :) Happy birthday sa mga kapwa kong April babies 🏻

Time to celebrate you. Happy birthday! God bless.

Ganito kasi yan, iba iba tayo. Pwedeng ako, hirap ako sa part na to pero para sayo, madali lang. Pwedeng ikaw, hirap ka sa part na yan pero para sakin madali lang. We face different struggles in life. Kaya nga dapat, mas malalim yung pang unawa natin sa isa't-isa.

No wiser words have ever been spoken. Bravo! 👏

this may sound gaya but i want a pinoy series na may parallel universe or yung may kaparehas ka na tao sa ibang dimension

Maganda din mga ganyan. They're always interesting and intriguing. Saka yung may time travel element din where you get to meet your younger self or your future parents.

Bakit kaya si Kevin Durant ang comparison nila Ingram, Chet and Wemby?

Parehas kasi sila lahat tall and slender tapos mabibilis at maliliksi, very atypical of big men.

Pwede kayang maging MVP si Wemby or need ng winning record?

If you mean now in his rookie season, hindi eh. While maganda na linalaro niya lately, still malayo pa siya sa kalibre ng current leading mvp candidates. Saka need din hindi lang may winning record ang team niya, kailangan din nasa top 6 at least sa division nila ata. Si Luka nga dati parang 'di masyado nabibigyan ng pansin when it comes to mvp talks. Ngayon pa lang na umakyat sa 5th place ang Dallas sa West.

Agree ka bang parehas lang yung Ja Morant saka yung 2011 Derrick Rose?

They're certainly both freakishly athletic and explosive. Siguro 2011 D-Rose lang was more mature both as a player and as a person.

bakit kaya mas maranong free throw ang Lakers compared sa other teams like Golden State?

Ewan if the allegations are true that the NBA favors the Lakers, or talagang sa play style lang nila mas nakakakuha sila ng fouls from the opposing teams.

kung ikaw si felipe or annette gozon, ano klase ng teleserye bibigay mo sakin para madirek

Yung slice of life drama where there's no real conflict and there are no actual kontrabidas, and where the real drama and tension arise from the everyday life experiences of the characters. Tapos pwede lagyan ng humor at ang setting gawing a period from the past very much like the Korean Reply series.

i rarely get the chance to see the stars in the night sky. but, boy does it look pretty tonight. i feel really blessed being able to witness them myself.

Go savor that experience.

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