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I felt abandoned by my bf. We're in the same place kanina, sabi ko sabay na kami pero sabi niya ihahatid siya ng motor ng kaibigan niya at lilibre siya ng McDo. Madami daw siyang bitbit, I know excuses niya lang 'yon. Should I break up with him sa ginawa niya?

If your bf constantly does that to you, and he always makes you feel like you're not that important to him, then maybe you should really consider breaking up with him. What's the point of being in a relationship when your partner doesn't know how to value you, and all he does is make you feel miserable? Besides, you deserve better.

Bili daw kame aso bukas ng kapated ko ano ba magandang bread?

Golden Retriever. I read that they're very friendly and that they make great family dogs.
Bili daw kame aso bukas ng kapated ko ano ba magandang bread

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kung may asawa ka, kaya mo ba makipag away o magalit kahit nakabra sa harap mo

Siguro naman kung asawa mo ma yung tao very normal na sayo makita siyang naka ganun. Pero as much as possible, hindi din naman ako makikipag-away sa asawa ko.

Will you support a friend na may account sa OnlyFans? Why? Why not?

I don't know how exactly OnlyFans works, but I do know its reputation is rather negative and controversial. However, my friend's business is her business, so I'm not going to judge her for having an account there. Besides, as her friend, it would only be natural for me to be supportive of any of her endeavors just as long as they're not illegal and she's not hurting anyone. I don't have an account on that app, though, and I don't intend to have one in the future either, so I can't exactly support her there directly. That said, I could always wish her the best.

What's that show (series/kdrama/anime/any others basta series) that you thought was boring at first but turned out it was fire?

For Kdramas, there's Reply 1988. It's actually one of my all-time favorite Kdramas, but it took me two episodes before I really got hooked to it. It's start wasn't actually boring, but somehow I didn't warm up to it right away.
The same goes to Our Beloved Summer. I think it wasn't until episode 3 or 4 that I started to enjoy it.
As for a Western series, Friends is also my all-time favorite sitcom, and to this day, I still enjoy rewarching it over and over again. It wasn't until the second episode of its very first season, though, that I became quite addicted to it.
Finally, when it comes to anime, I never really liked One-punch Man at the start. In fact, I had to watch its first episode all over again after basically giving up on it the first time around, all on the prodding of my SHS neighbor. Now, I sure am glad he managed to convince me to give the anime series another try.

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Anong gagawin mo if yung partner mo ay may opportunity abroad tapos ayaw ng girl kasi gusto nya sabay kayo.

I'd encourage her to go do what she really wants, and not let me or our relationship be a hindrance to that. Ayaw ko rin naman maging hadlang sa mga pangarap niya. We both can pursue the things we want naman and still be together. Whatever her final decision would be, I'd reassure her that she'll always have my support.

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di obligado manglibre or whatever pero may mga tao or kaibigan tayo na mahilig sila malibre o mainvite sa bahay. sanay kasi sila na pag bday ay may party

Kung totoo mo silang mga kaibigan, maintidihan naman nila ang sitwasyon mo. Never ka nila i-pi-pressure na mag celebrate o manglibre.
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pag broke ka kasi or struggling, parusa para sayo mabati pag birthday. anxieties kasi

If you feel obligated na manlibre sa mga bumabati sayo sa birthday mo, then magiging parusa talaga sayo 'yan lalo na if you're struggling financially. However, if you learn to take their greetings and birthday teasing all in stride, and not feel burdened by them, then you'd be alright.
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yung mga malaking tao kasi ay sanay yan na ipublicize birthday nila dahil kaya nila mag treat ng madami tao. iba sitwasyon sa mga ordinary lang or broke. ang society kasi natin ay people pleaser kaya madali tayo maapektuhan sa sinasabi ng iba kahit alam natin mali

I understand your point naman about the rich and the powerful, but just the same, even us ordinary folks have just as much right as anyone else to celebrate our birthdays. That is, if ever we want to. 'Di naman kasi kailangan gumastos just to celebrate our special day kasi we can spend it any way we want, and with whomever we fancy. 'Di din naman tayo obligado manlibre o i-treat lahat ng tao.
And while tama yung sinabi mo na madali tayo naapektuhan ng mga sinasabi ng mga tao kasi this is just how our world works, we can choose naman not to let their talks get in our heads. Nasa atin din yun.

kasalanan din naman ng magulang bat malayo loob ng mga anak. masyado mahigpit, masyado tinatakot, at pinagbabawalan sumagot pag nag aaway kasi bastos at wala respeto

Most of the time, the parents do have themselves to blame if they don't have a good relationship with their kids. Lalo na siguro kung wala silang ginawa kundi pagalitan sila at higpitan sila. Still, 'di rin tama for kids, especially the older ones, na bastusin na lang at totally 'di na irespeto ang mga magulang nila. Unless, of course, abusive na talaga mga magulang nila at minamaltrato nila mga anak nila.

there are still judgmental people pa rin, thinking that all people have healthy family dynamics like them. only to get a taste of their medicine at the end

Siguro, pero not all naman na ganun judgemental na agad. I mean, it's possible lang that they fail to consider the possibility that not everyone has a happy family and that there are people who don't have a good relationship with their parents and siblings. It may be somewhat insensitive on their part, but it's not like sinadya nilang maging hindi aware sa reality na yun.

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So kung kilala pala natin ang isang tao, we quickly dismiss any allegations against them without investigating the matter? And it seems she's more concerned with the welfare of her friend than the plight of these ordinary people who may be possible victims of abuse by the self-proclaimed "Anointed Son of God." Nice one, senator.

for me celebrating birthdays is only a big deal if you are a public figure or successful. normal people feel disturbed when they are placed on the spotlight or forced to please others when they have birthdays. example makalimutan mo lang mag thank you or reply sa madami messages, suplado ka na

Everyone has the right to celebrate their birthdays naman at 'di lang ito para sa mga taong kilala o naging super successful sa buhay. Depende na lang sa tao 'yan kung gusto niya mag celebrate or not. Besides, when you do celebrate it, 'di mo naman i-imbitahin lahat ng tao, yung importanteng mga tao sa buhay mo lang, as much as possible.
And you know what, we don't have to let ourselves get affected by what others have to say just in case we forget to thank them for their greetings.

Kapoya oy. Ngano di mani sila mubuhi sa ilang relasyon?

Mao. Basin naa pa sila lain gipangita sa ila kinabuhi.

To all guys. What makes you stay in your 11 years relationship when you already know your cheating?

Naligaw na naman ata 'tong shoutout na 'to sa inbox ko. In any case, I can't really relate to the question because I've never been in a relationship that long, I've never ever cheated before, and I don't think I have any plans of doing so should I ever be with someone again.
However, I can still try and guess what guys are thinking when they cheat. Most likely it's because it makes them feel cool, and it boosts their ego knowing they're capable of having more than one woman at any given time. Another possible reason is that they're simply not satisfied with one partner, and that they desire to be with more women. Lastly, they're probably tempted to do it because the opportunity is there, and they think it's harmless, anyway, and that they could get away with it with their partners not knowing and their relationship very much intact.

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kaya ko sinabi na kinarma si sarah lahbati because there are many girls na into guys na malapit sa parent or nanay, assuming na ganun din trato sa kanila kahit di nila alam family dynamics. unfortunately palengkera byenan nya at di sya kinampihan ng asawa

I think most girls would be smart enough to know whether a guy just has a healthy and close relationship with his parents, especially with his mom, or he's already worryingly a little too dependent on them. As they get to know their bfs more, makikita din naman nila kung mama's boy ba ito, and more importantly, kung palengkera at bungagera ba magiging biyenan nila.
Considering all that then, ang maganda siguro ay tuloy pa rin nila hanapin sa isang guy yung quality of being family-oriented if yun talaga ang gusto nila, pero tignan din nila kung 'di ba siya kinu-control o namamanipulate ng mom niya kasi kung ganun, magdudulot 'yan ng problema sa pagsasama nila later on.

would u say birthdays are important or like normal days?

Good timing for this question as March is actually my birth month.
That said, personally, I don't really make a big deal of celebrating my own birthday especially since I'm not that young kid anymore. If ever I do celebrate it, I prefer to keep it simple and with little fanfare.
That doesn't mean, though, that I don't consider birthdays important especially those of people I care about. To me, they are always a milestone, a special day to remember how blessed we are for having been given yet another year in life, and a good reason to celebrate the people we love and hold dear.

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