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It’s important to have at least one shared goal in a relationship. When you’re working together in partnership with a purpose, it keeps you focused and connected. Problems always develop when two people are going in two very different directions, with no shared purpose in mind.

So true. While you're free to follow your own pursuits and enjoy your own interests, it would be great if you could actually share a common bond and goal with your partner as that would help keep you invested in each other.

Masama ba na mababaw kaligayahn ng isang tao?

lunoxmox’s Profile PhotoLunox Mox
Hindi naman. Maganda nga 'yan at madali kang ma-please, and you find joy in the simplest and littlest of things.
Saka ang importante siguro is you're not a shallow person, that you're actually deep, intellectual, and caring.

So magkano na nagastos mo sa kape ngayong buwan?

Kunti lang. 'Til instant coffee lang naman kasi ako. Certainly no Starbucks, no The Coffee Bean and Tea Leaf, no Tim Hortons, just plain old Nescafe. 😸
"I don't like kape but kape likes me."
So magkano na nagastos mo sa kape ngayong buwan

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yayyy it's Friday! ano ang Friday routine niyo guys? ako: mag movie marathon sa kwarto hahhaa

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Usually, just enjoying a little drinking spree with friends or simply staying at home, listening to music, or like you, just watching movies and series — Kdramas definitely included.
'I don't care if Monday's blue
Tuesday's grey and Wednesday too
Thursday, I don't care about you
It's Friday, I'm in love" - The Cure
yayyy its Friday ano ang Friday routine niyo guys ako mag movie marathon sa

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why do men lose interest after u showed interested to them?

I think men lose interest in women after they show interest in them because they now seem easy to them. The thrill of the chase is gone, and now, they no longer present a challenge to them. They quickly move on and try a different conquest.
This, of course, shows that they weren't really that interested in the first place, that they were really just intrigued by the idea of winning her attention. When they are genuinely interested and in love with a woman, though, for sure they'd be really happy and thrilled to know she appears to be interested in them as well.

sa movie na Atsay 1978, si Angie Ferro yung nang api dati kay Nora Aunor along with Armida Siguion Reyna and Bella Flores, pero naging magkaibigan naman sila

Ah, andun rin pala siya. Veteran actress talaga. May she truly rest in peace.

pag pupunta ka ba sa burol, required ba dapat na kilala ka ng namatay

'Di naman lalo na kung sumama o isinama ka lang. Siguro 'di ka rin naman pupunta ng mag-isa dun if 'di mo ka-anu-ano yung tao.

and even may kakulangan government, responsibilidad pa din ng magulang ang palakihin anak. scholarships are not 100% sure

Responsibility talaga 'yan ng mga magulang. The government is just there to help.

ang sakin lang kasi, scholarship does not just rely on intelligence but also from luck. the current generation are luckier because most professors are now lenient from them, but in the past there are lots who fail or incomplete a student even he performs well. pano pag bobo anak, saan aasa

Yeah, kaya nga may advice din si Jaynard na people shouldn't rush into starting a family of their own. Mas maganda unahin muna nila sarili nila para magkaron sila ng personal fulfillment, and more importantly, dapat financially ready na sila so their future kids won't have to go through what Jaynard did.

kaya madami ang takot mag alok ng tulong pag may nawalan ng malay kasi unang reaksyon ng tao ay maninisi o mambibintang

Baka ikaw pa masisi at kung anu-ano pa sasabihin sa 'yo, ano? This is pretty sad, actually, kasi instead of responding to your instincts to help and possibly save a life, you hesitate and have second thoughts about it wasting precious time for the one in need of help.

https://twitter.com/DarnaImpakta/status/1692440431148351933?s=20 anp gawin mo pag pumikture sayo habang kumakain mag isa tapos may paiyak iyak pa na post

I'd be upset for sure especially if I didn't look too good in the picture. Lol.
On a serious note, however, the guy may have meant well with his tweet (do we still call them that these days?), and certainly the message he wanted to impart was good, but it was still wrong for him to take a picture of a guy who just wanted to enjoy his meal in peace. C'mon, don't people know how to respect one's personal space these days? Besides, he could have just made a post about the whole thing without including any pictures, and still get his message across, right?

beauty queen na naging konsehal, jowa ni ricci rivero

Yeah, siya pala yung nakikita ko minsan sa mga post sa basketball pages na nalilink daw kay Ricci.

https://twitter.com/ABSCBNNews/status/1692411702489604424?s=20

Nabasa ko post niya kanina sa FB. Haba nga nun pero truly worth the read. I made sure to save the link and screen shot of the actual post to get to share it here should I get another question about parents having children they can hardly support.
Aside sa very well written 'yun, maganda siya kasi experience niya mismo 'yun. It's something no one can invalidate or merely scoff at. And more than that, his post wasn't just about airing his frustrations about growing up in a poor family and struggling to support himself as he pursued his studies. It was more about his eventual realizations finally seeing their plight and situation from a different light.
Three points that struck me:
1. "Sana di na lang ako pinanganak." The first time he uttered those words na-realize niya he was just being selfish, thinking about his frustrations of not being able to enjoy the things other kids have.
Madalas nasasabi din natin 'yan when we become frustrated with our family's situation especially when compared to that of others. While we certainly have the right to be upset, mostly sariling kapakanan lang din iniisip natin when we say those words. 'Di natin nakikita sacrifices ng parents natin, and we don't realize how hurtful and gutting that line is to our parents.
2. The second time he said that, it was from a very different standpoint already. Instead of it being about himself and his frustrations, it was now him thinking of what sacrifices his parents made for him. Sana kung hindi na lang siya pinanganak, maybe his parents could have pursued their own dreams and reached for their
heart's desires.
Tao lang din parents natin na may mga minimithi din nun sa buhay. Siguro nung nagka pamilya na sila nag-iba na priorities nila at yung welfare na natin ang naging laman ng pangarap nila. If we see our parents working hard then, hopefully we'll learn to appreciate their efforts din even if we don't always get them.

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attracted ka ba to Leren Bautista

Had to Google her pa kasi 'di ko siya kilala. Maganda siya, actually, pero siguro 'di ko lang siya type o tipo siguro. Wow! Choosy. Kapal! 😸

usually kasi ang mga tao di naiisip ang type of kahoy na ginamit sa bahay presyo ang una nila naiisip. kaya ang dami lumang bahay problemado pag inanay sila, ang dami nila pinapagawa

True. Pag limited talaga budget, 'di mo na naiisip 'yun. You go for what's affordable na lang.

sa totoo lang ang hirap pag puro kahoy ang foundation o furniture nyo sa bahay. kakainin kasi yan ng anay tapos ipapagawa nyo uli. natrauma na ko sa mga inanay na kabinet, libro, pinto, etc kaya dapat talaga bakal o termite resistant wood

True. While concrete naman bahay namin (concrete ba yung tamang term?), yung cabinet sa kwarto namin is made of wood, at 'dun nasayang mga ini-ingat-ingatan kong books from my childhood dahil sa anay. Mga short story books pa naman 'yun that came from the US pa. Di ko lang alam pano napunta sa amin ang 'yun, pero sayang talaga.
Sa Camp Phillips, though, most of the houses during our time there were made of wood, and until now, those houses remain standing. Parang di naaanay. Siguro quality wood 'yun kasi that time mga Americans pa nagdadala sa Del Monte. SKL.
sa totoo lang ang hirap pag puro kahoy ang foundation o furniture nyo sa bahay

ang problema kasi talaga ng iba dito ay di nila kaya basahin o intindihin tanong. ang dami dami nila sinasabi pero di naman sinasagot question

Hopefully I'm not one of them. If ever I am, pasencya na. 😸
Pero ganyan talaga. You can't expect everyone here to have the same level of comprehension and understanding. And that applies not only sa ASKfm, pero pati sa ibang social media platforms, and even in real life situations. It would be best for you then to just focus on the answers that make sense to you, and not mind anymore those that don't.

How will I trust my partner who has a history of cheating on his ex-girlfriend not on me. Any matured advice?

In my own opinion, wala naman talaga sa iyo 'yan. Ang magagawa mo lang talaga ay ang magmahal at magtiwala sa kanya. Kung baga, you chose to love him and accept him, so you should choose to trust him. Nasa kanya talaga kasi 'yan kung magbabago na siya at maging tapat na this time around. Kung mahal ka niya talaga at kung ikaw na talaga ang matagal na niyang hinahanap-hanap, then he will change and do what is right.
Ganito na lang siguro then. Remind him that you know well about his past but you chose to put your faith in him because you deeply love him. Tapos sabihin mo it's now up to him kung susuklian niya ang tiwala mo. If he really wants you to be part of his life and future, then he knows what he needs to do.
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