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my aunts and uncles kaya nila magpa aral ng doktor di pa scholarship at working student, compared sa fam ko

Baka mas pinaghandaan nila yung pagkaron ng pamilya, o kaya mas nagkaron sila ng chance and opportunity to improve their financial condition kaya kayang-kaya nila suportahan mga anak nila sa pag-aaral nila.

pero npa pa rin may dahilan kaya nagka stigma tayo sa aktibista and joma is the culprit

Kasi iniisip natin pag nagra-rally communist na agad. Hindi ibig sabihin pag mulat ang tao sa katotohanan at naninindigan ito sa mga bagay2x ay masama na ito. Tapos ngayon agad2x pa tayo nagre-red-tag so we continue to push the narrative that raising issues and standing up against wrongdoings is evil and anti-government.

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many parents are wary of kids becoming activists dahil sa ideology ni joma sison. yung pinapapunta sa bundok tapos ginagawang pawn pag may police encounter

Being an activist doesn't automatically mean you're a communist. Making a stand against society's ills isn't a crime.
And only God can say who will be saved, not me, not you, and certainly not even Quiboloy.

https://facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=10160291419619834&id=745389833&eav=AfYJzPcbKT-n7Bh_gvJfVa5pupx2zpcPrDO2nKZRnFXBmFsFFzt7oLbBdCUo5cQ2Xl4&m_entstream_source=timeline&paipv=0 team badoy ako, joma is not also innocent

I'm not one
to celebrate the death of anyone. I'm not pro-Sison and pro-Communist, of course, but how I wish that instead of dying, Joma was somehow actually arrested and faced trial here in the Philippines. I would have preferred that he had paid for his crimes against the country and the people, than for us to go about celebrating his demise.
I certainly am not team Badoy either. She is downright deplorable, and is very irresponsible in her statements and actions. Most of all, I don't support red-tagging.

Bili na po kayo nang dunkin doughnuts!!! 🍩

Bisaya vendor: Donut, bai! Donut, bai.
Sa pandining ng non- Bisaya speakers: Do not buy! Do not buy!

Pag Parlor games po ba bawal sumali ang Barbero? 😁

Pag Trip to Jerusalem ba ang linalaro ninyo kailangan pa ng visa? 😸
"Open your door
Dance on the floor
And now at last, just two of us
Only one chair, who will sit there?
Is it the king or is it the heir?
It never ends
It never ends
It never ends
Oh, tell me do you wanna fly?
Fly high way up in the sky
Or maybe you don't even have to try
All you have to do is follow that star
But when the star doesn't shine
You won't be able to find your way
The only thing that we can do is pray
On a trip to Jerusalem" - E'heads
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parang ganito kasi, you give sa tao dahil kusang loob at gusto mo di dahil sa pinipilit ka

Oo, sabi ko nga kanina you give back to your parents not because you owe them, not because you feel obligated to, but because you love them and you'd want them to be taken care of especially in their old age.

they say kasi na naninira ako if they find out i open up my feelings to others, eh mas malala pa pwede ko gawin kung gusto.syaka pasalamat sila, sa trusted friends lang at di ko pinupublic

Yeah, di naman paninira yung sayo. You're merely confiding your feelings about things. Mahirap din kasi if you simply bottle all that up inside. Sa iba pa yan baka pina Tulfo na sila.

i can easily destroy my fam by telling our relatives and family friends how toxic they are.but maswerte sila kasi anonymous lang ako at sa mga close friends lang ako nagkwekwento

Yeah, maybe, just maybe, there's no need for you to destroy your family and ruin their reputation for good. Yes, you have every right to do so especially since you suffered so much under their care, but maybe it's just not something worth doing.
The most important thing, after all, is for you to get past this, and become the person you deserve to be. I know it's hard to move on when there are issues yet unresolved, and there are past traumas haunting you every now and then, but you deserve a better life, one that's free from all these, and so I hope you can eventually take the right step into that direction.

https://twitter.com/Theholisticpsyc/status/1603149690307911680?s=20&t=ulKm1VNWYxreeKq_CFDSfA

While a sense of gratitude and appreciation is indeed important, this unfortunately can be used to manipulate and control especially in the family setting. And sadly, that kind of practice is pretty much prevalent, and has more or less seemingly been the accepted norm ever since.
Now, I truly believe kids should eventually give back to their parents — granting they've been good parents to them at the very least — not exactly because they owe them, but because they love them, and would therefore want them cared for especially when they're in the twilight of their lives. This should never be treated as a burden, though, and more importantly, never used to stop them from living their lives and chasing their dreams.

kilala nyo pa ba o close pa ba kayo sa mga tita at tito ng parents nyo

Nope. I don't ever recall meeting my tito lolos and tita lolas.

forgiveful ones are the onea qho have a tendency to repeat generational trauma.because they just accept and forget

That is true. However, just because we try to understand it doesn't mean we'd do the same. The challenge is to do better and not repeat their mistakes.
forgiveful ones are the onea qho have a tendency to repeat generational

NO ONE SHOULD BE GOING TO JAIL because of their addiction. Addiction is a medical problem. Drug Lords and opportunists who profit and take advantage of the vulnerability of others by inflicting addiction on them should be the ones in jail.

And neither should they be simply shot and killed, just another mere statistic in the nanlaban list. Rehabilitation should always be the main option for them. Lives should be saved as much as possible, and not just quickly given up on.

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