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syaka di effective ang pag ground sa anak.kung matalino anak mo, hahanap yan ng paraan makatakas at matatakot na yan magpa alam sayo forever. hayaan nyo lang sya matuto sa mistakes, dont micro manage

Hmm... Siguro, but I can't really say. Di pa naman ako parent, and di rin ako authority when it comes to parenting. Saka bilang anak, never ko na experience yung grounding, at yung parents ko di ganun ka strict more or less. You may have a point there, though.

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Ano yung nakakatakot bilang kakampink/pinklawan?

I won't say nakakatakot. It's more like frustrating and discouraging. Yun yung halos iilan lang kaming Kakampink dito (Cagayan de Oro/Mindanao) na even my friends would poke fun at that very fact, and wonder why Leni ako, at maririnig mo pa yung sentiments ng iba that simply reek of blindness and ignorance.
And again, Kakampink, not Pinklawan.

the point is if the person has a childhood trauma, it will be hard to ask permission

I understand your point. In any case, I guess I'm more or less referring to those who don't have such a traumatic childhood caused by the stern discipline and strictness of their parents. Saka, like I've said, as much as possible lang naman, not every time or not in every circumstance.

di porket madami kapatid, matutulungan ka na sa pag aaral mo. minsan magiging pabigat pa sila lalo na pag mag apply ka scholarship tapos need mo documents nila

Yeah, depende rin yan how willing they are to help, and how supportive they are of you.

Kilala mo ba kapitbahay nyo?

Yung iba lang. Unlike noong bata pa ako at nasa probinsiya pa kami, everybody seemed to know everybody. Naghahatiran pa ng ulam at meryenda minsan, at sa umaga may hihiram pa ng asukal o kape sa inyo. 😸

you always judge kids who dont ask permission when going out but you fail to realize the reasons why. ang madalas na ginaganun ay mga striktong magulang o kung may bad childhood sila

I'm not judging them in any way. All I'm trying to say is that as much as possible we should ask for our parents' permission or inform them about our plans. Common courtesy lang yan lalo na if we still live with them and are still under their care. Parents pa rin natin yan, and believe it or not, they do worry and care about us even if they often mess up in their parenting ways.
Of course, mahirap din magsabi ng totoo sa kanila minsan kaya natural lang may times kids just lie or not tell them anything at all. Naranasan ko rin yan noon kahit di ganun ka strict mom and dad ko, so what more for those whose parents are that strict pa.

i dont oblige others to give me gifts, tuwing pasko lamg ako may regalo syaka sa mga kamag anak pa. kadalasan naman ay unan o tuwalya, minsan nga binigyan pa ko jigsaw puzzle eh di ko naman hilig. sometimes people expect you to be happy but it is not always

Ah, di naman sa mag-e-expect o mag-aantay yung may birthday ng gift. Parang natural na lang na magbibigay tayo, if we're willing, that is, sa mga taong importante sa atin.
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Kung gagawan ng Maalaala Mo Kaya (MMK) episode ang buhay mo, anong magiging title at bakit?

Kung gagawan man ng Maalaala Mo Kaya (MMK) episode ang buhay ko, ang magiging title nito ay "Magpakailanman." Ito ay dahil gusto ko sana yung story at aral ng buhay ko maalala magpakailanman. #Charaught 😸
Kung gagawan ng Maalaala Mo Kaya MMK episode ang buhay mo anong magiging title

If you can have any two things in this world, what would those it be?

Love and contentment. With those, I'd be set for life.
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Ever experienced na nag number one and number 2 ka lang sa foodchain then after you went out the guard said " thank you, come again!"

Number one lang. And much to the guard's thrill, I did come and visit again. 😸

pano mo save si darna pag nilamon ni valentina

Pakiki-usapan ko si Valentina to spit Darna out. Sabihin ko iba na lang i-swallow. Hahaha! Joke lang!

pinoy culture talaga, imbes na ikaw bigyan regalo ikaw pa ang gagastos para sa iba

Yeah, I guess sa isip natin since you're celebrating your natal day, you're supposed to be thankful and stuff for the blessing of life, kaya ikaw na celebrator (celabrator pala ata right word, not celebrant) ang pinapalibre. In contrast to that naman, we feel obliged to give someone close to us a birthday gift so that sorts of balances things. 😸

Imagine mo Ding pangalan mo pero hindi ka lumulunok ng bato

Actually, si Narda naman talaga yung lumulunok ng bato. Di si Ding.

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