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and mahirap din kasi baka mga taong mhilig sa family oriented ay nga mapanghusga sa mga pinagdaanan mo. gusto nila lagi positive kahit di pwede

Siguro kung makikita naman nila ang rason bakit 'di ka close and that supportive sa family mo, maintidihan naman nila and not judge you for it. Saka naghahanap lang sila ng ganun na quality sa isang lalake kasi gusto nila ng partner na magpapahalaga sa future family nila, at di para manghusga sa taong 'di malapit sa pamilya nila.

Why my bf doesnt post me but he can post his friends ? :(

Social media posts are overrated, and definitely, they aren't the true measure of how your partner loves you, or how your relationship is going. Still, if he can post things about his friends, then surely it's not that difficult for him to have posts about you from time to time as well.

A confession (7) The end .. There’s still a lot for me to confess guys but Im tired

There are definitely guys who aren't showy and expressive with their feelings, and who don't have a romantic bone in their body. However, in your case, your bf seems to be taking that to the extreme, not even inviting you to a family dinner the whole five years you've been together, not posting pictures of you on social media, and even finding it bothersome to be holding hands with you in public. The worst thing, however, is his utmost indifference to you and your feelings, not even caring to support you on the things you love to do. You definitely deserve better than this, and it's only right for you to ask or expect to be treated better.
I guess you really need to have a serious talk with your bf then regarding the status of your relationship and where it's going. Now, if he can't even admit and acknowledge his shortcomings, then I think it would be better for you to break up with him than be trapped in a relationship where your partner doesn't even seem to value you.

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yan example si richard guts, family oriented sya kasi masyado ander sa nanay

Well, not all family-oriented guys are like Richard.

sumuporta sa pamilya kahit di maayos relasyon at marami trauma, or dahil lang perpekto ang pamilya ng tao kaya di nakikita ang dysfunction sa iba. ang ending nyan ay mas kakampihan nanay kaysa asawa

I don't know where you're coming from and I don't know what your experiences with your family are, but please, do know that normally, having a family isn't bad, and not all families are bad. Kaya walang masama ang pagiging family-oriented kung ang ibig sabihin nito alam mo pano papahalagahan ang sarili mong pamilya pag magkakaanak na kayo ng magiging asawa mo.

sarah lahbati's case should be an eye opener for people who have preference for family oriented type of guys or mama's boy. it can end up in the negative way. parang di kasi nila alam na sakit sa ulo mga lalaking ganyan sa telenovela

'Di naman kasi ibig sabihin na pag family-oriented na yung lalake mama's boy na agad. Saka wala namang mali maghangad ang mga babae ng isang lalakeng marunong magpahalaga at sumuportasa pamilya.

Unsay gusto nimo inig birthday nimo?

Mag beach with friends unta. Sugba2x lang, kinilaw gamay, tagay, ug mag-enjoy tan-aw sa mga chicks, este, sa mag-relish sa view and tranquility.

ung simpleng mura ng magulang or kapatid kasi pag galit ay nagagaya din. kung gusto nila turuan na wag magmura, practice what they preach

Yeah, lalo na kids are highly impressionable.

agree ka bang ang original na unicorn is si Porzingis?

Sa modern NBA, oo ata kasi yun tinatawag nila sa kanya when he came to the league. Like Wemby now, he possesses quite a unique skill set for a big man as well.

natatawa ako na may nagagalit sa bata dahil minumura magulang pero wala nagagalit sa magulang bat minumura ng anak. mas malala yung magkimkim sila ng galit

While 'di nga naman magandang tignan ang pagmumura ng mga bata sa magulang nila kasi it shows a blatant lack of respect, dapat kundinahin rin natin ang mga matatandang minumura ang nga anak nila. Maling-mali kasi yun lalo na it comes off as degrading, and it could scar a child for life. Madalas rin yung pagmumura ng bata dun rin nila natutunan sa mga nakakatanda sa kanila.

there are parents na grabe makapuna sa ugali ng mga tito or tita pero pag pinupuna mo sila, naninira ka na at masama. palibhasa kasi bait baitan pag nasa mga tao pero pag nasa bahay abusive

May mga tao talaga kasing madaling makakita ng mali ng iba, ngunit bulag o in denial sa sarili nilang mga kamalian.

pano kung may anak kang lalake tapos tinanong sayo, "papa sino mas maganda, si mama or si tita"

Ewan. Baka sabihin ko na lang yung mama niya syempre kasi siya ang minahal ko. Di na mag matter if in reality mas maganda pala talaga tita niya. Add ko na lang maganda rin tita niya kasi na in love sa kanya si so and so. 😸

iba din kasi awareness sa mental health dati. we have many jargons na di pa alam noon like gaslighting, narcissistic, triangulation, avoidant, etc

Yeah, those terms probably never existed before as we've only started to fully study and understand what mental health is fairly recently.

pag uutang ka lumapit ka sa mabait at mahiyain para di ka singilin

Kaya ako hirap maningil sa friends ko. Sadyang makakalimutin pa naman sila sa mga utang nila. 😸

kailanman di paninira pagsasabi ng totoo maski sa mga masamang karanasan nyo sa pamilya. di santo ang pamilya

Yeah, hindi naman paninira ang pagsasabi ng totoo lalo na kung magiging paraan mo ito para takasan ang hindi magandang nangyayari at nararanasan mo sa pamilya. Sabi nga nila, the truth will set us free. Kunting ingat lang tayo, though, kasi baka yung sinasabihan natin hindi pure pagtulong ang pakay kundi kating-kati rin ipagkalat sa iba ang nalalaman nila.

pano gawin mo pag nag resbak si Quiboloy kay BBM

Wala kasi neither of them I support. Manonood na lang ako na siraan nila ang isa't-isa.
pano gawin mo pag nag resbak si Quiboloy kay BBM

scenario. madami ka apo at nagpa handa mga anak mo ng birthday party sa sosyal na hotel or restaurant. may isa kang apo na kumain lang at umalis agad kasi may pasok pa, magagalit ka ba dahil nag eat and run

'Di ko alam kung biglang kikitid ang utak ko when I grow that old, pero sa ngayon, ang alam ko 'di ako magagalit sa apo ko pag sa birthday celebration ko kakain lang siya at aalis rin agad, lalo na kung magpapaalam naman siya at may dahilan naman siya para umalis. Dapat nga matuwa ako at kahit paano nakadalo pa rin siya sa pagdiriwang ko.

kung meron inaabuso na ng pamilya wag na kayo maging preachy or self righteous. baliwala lang mga love at concern or family values na dinikdik nyo kasi di nararandaman ng biktima

Well, as I've said before, there's a huge difference between discipline and abuse, and expressing love and concern isn't the same as controlling and manipulating. Now, kung may pag-aabuso mang nangyayari, then that should never be justified nor should it be tolerated.

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