For a greater good and not hurting other people's feeling. Because honesty sometimes is just an inch away from sarcasm. Honesty in the truest form is brutal, sharp, and cruel.
Hmmmmm ya dan tidak. Di satu sisi, gue jadi lebih gampang ketemu dan kenalan sama banyak orang karena pekerjaan gue dan gue juga dengan gampang mengenalkan diri ke orang-orang dengan jabatan dan profesi gue sebagai bagian dari identitas gue. Kenal makin banyak orang sih iya, tapi jatuhnya semua cuma sekadar acquaintances atau kolega. Di umur segini, gue merasa lebih susah untuk kenalan sama orang baru dan menjadi seseorang yang bisa gue anggap sebagai teman. Karena gue dan mereka biasanya ya ketemu di lingkungan kerja, jadi cuma sebatas tau dia anak majalah ini, kenalan, terus pas besoknya ketemu di acara lain, kita bakal say hi, dan ngobrol basa-basi, terus kadang-kadang jadi akrab, tapi gak sampai yang janjian di luar kerjaan untuk ngobrol2 santai atau jalan2 bareng. Di umur segini jadinya ya lebih condong maintain hubungan dengan teman lama kita sih, khususnya teman-teman SMA dan kuliah dibanding cari temen yang bener2 baru.
I'm interviewing Bayu Risa about his new album that you can get for free as a bonus for Nylon October Issue next month. Then chilling on sbux and basically have a me time.
All I need is your honesty :
Have you ever judged someone anonymously? If yes, how could you judge and why?
Yes. I've been judging people anonymously on this site. That's why I allow anonymous question on my profile, because that's the only fair thing I could think of for my action. I judge people anonymously, and I think I need to allow people to judge me anonymously as well.
I think if people could believe something as abstract as God, they should believe to anything else. Including aliens or like religious people prefer to say: Djinn.
Hai, apa tanggapan kalian terhadap berbagai kritik perbedaan agama dewasa ini?
Ini kaya soal Pkn ya.... Basi, dari dulu masalahnya itu2 aja. I don't have problem with all of your Gods, its their motherfucker hardcore fans I can't stand. Agamamu agamamu, agamaku agamaku. Chill and respect.
Sorry for asking, hmm if someone said that he's not ready for relationship, what will i'm gonna to do? should i just wait for him or just giving up?
THAT'S LIKE MY OWN PERSONAL PROBLEM RIGHT NOW.Di satu sisi ya udah, masa mau dipaksa-paksa kalau dia emang belom mau relationship? Di sisi lain gue juga kaya.... okay... harus gimana ya? Do I need to keep myself open for the other person? Karena honestly I just decline date invitation from another guy, karena gue kalau lagi deket sama orang ya fokus ke satu orang aja, gak bisa sambil cari-cari yg lain juga. Gue sempet nanya langsung, should I wait or not, dia sih cuma bilang "terserah, kan kamu yang ngejalanin", which is true.Gue sempet curhat sama temen gue, and she said at least he's honest about not wanting relationship to me.... and she also said I don't need to wait, and I don't need to run either. I should just walk... enjoy the walk, if anyone comes along, I should greet them nicely. She also say that I should not over expecting, I need to keep my heart open and reserve a little space for him.Its a great advise.
Alex, do you think a butterfly thinkin' "I'm seductive" as it touch the leaves of touch-me-not while the plant shrinks nervously from it advances?
The radiant butterfly just like to tease the poor innocent plant until its shrinking to agony with just a tip of its wings... Leave it begulling with lust and desire. Its just a sport for the butterfly, but its a chaos for the plant. I am the plant.