My bf is perfect in every way except one. He smokes. I’ve asked him to stop but he says it’s just a habit and he’ll quit soon enough. My father died of lung cancer so this is a particularly sensitive subject for me. He doesn’t smoke around me but it still freaks me out. I need suggestions, pleas
It sounds like smoking is a make it or break it issue for you. He is going to have to choose between you and his cigarettes. You will know soon enough what his choice is. He needs to be aware of what is called "third-hand" smoke. Even if someone doesn't smoke around you, all the carcinogens are on their clothes, hair, furniture, etc.