I've known a guy for three years and have liked him since we met. He broke up with his girlfriend of a year & a half and wants to date. I don't think I have feelings anymore and don't know what to do. He's really depressed. I don't want home going back to his ex because he wasn't happy with her.
You have to go with what you feel. If you don't have feelings, you would only be doing charity work, and that would not work out well. He's a big boy and is going to have to figure this out. It is not your responsibility to try to make him happy by sacrificing yourself. You can be a sympathetic ear, but that's as far as it should go.