Me and my girlfriend are going to go to different colleges next year. We’ve kind of talked about breaking up and we’ve also talked about staying together. We don’t know what to do. What do other bf-gf couples in high school do when it’s time to go to college?
College is a time to explore. As hard as it is, I have found that the vast majority of the time it's better to break up than to go to college, be lonely, and then feel guilty over cheating. If the relationship is to be, the two of you will get back together and be able to solidify your relationship. I would advise both of you not to put that kind of pressure and stress on yourselves. Ultimately, you will have to decide.