My bf is a very big football player. He is also really smart. My friends are really afraid of him and stay away. How do I get them to see that he is a really sweet person?
Just keep bringing him around. There is nothing that you can say or do that will change their minds. They will have to experience him for themselves. I played football in college. I wrote an article in the college newspaper. I actually had someone say to me, "Wow, I didn't realize you could write that well." I responded with, "Thanks, I didn't realize you could read that well!"